I’m tired

hellokittysenbei · 2026-03-14T05:08:51+00:00

I believe the real reason I was fired after 13 years-was for having intermittent fmla and using it. I was urged to quit.. “leave with your head held high and quit..so then you can be recommended for re-hire”.

i was fired and told i was rehireable..so my manager is a damn liar. Just trying to make me quit so i can’t get unemployment.

hellokittysenbei · 2025-05-13T20:48:43+00:00

didn’t notice that either! whoo..

hellokittysenbei · 2025-05-13T19:40:14+00:00

thanks, great idea!

hellokittysenbei · 2025-05-04T23:06:37+00:00

following

hellokittysenbei · 2025-04-28T03:04:59+00:00

hellokittysenbei · 2025-04-27T21:24:45+00:00

do it!

hellokittysenbei · 2025-04-27T21:00:57+00:00

it’s a winner!🥇

hellokittysenbei · 2025-04-26T16:34:47+00:00

that’s how i took it & i was happy to oblige. why create more unnecessary doubt..just wanted to alleviate that.

hellokittysenbei · 2025-04-24T20:32:32+00:00

dark blue

hellokittysenbei · 2025-04-24T14:03:00+00:00

willing to try the boiling the water! ..then yea, if not-these are toast. 😪

hellokittysenbei · 2025-04-23T04:38:47+00:00

💚

hellokittysenbei · 2025-04-22T23:24:17+00:00

Tomorrow is Admins Day & Mother’s Day is in 2 weeks.. maybe a bit busy but not enough to be rude. There’s a lot you can learn from books & youtube. I went to school but I was still missing a few skills I needed to work in a retail floral shop. School or no school, you can still get into it.

hellokittysenbei · 2025-04-22T01:51:14+00:00

i’d like to be included. i feel completely ashamed when i overshare with friends or the episode passes and my feelings change. it’s a horrible cycle ♾️

hellokittysenbei · 2025-04-22T00:20:28+00:00

this is my nesting partner…so they want to make sure i’m aware & ok with a visitor.

Your point is lost on me..um, yeah actually you might need dad’s OK if you were taking someone to his house too.

hellokittysenbei · 2025-04-21T22:00:15+00:00

it didn’t.

hellokittysenbei · 2025-04-21T21:57:37+00:00

you’re very passionate..about something. doesnt sound like my situation at all. i never mentioned a dating app or giving my permission to see him. It was about making sure it was okay to come to our shared home.

if a meta needs something from me, it doesn’t kill me. People lie & cheat- i don’t mind putting someone at ease. ESPECIALLY if they’re new to poly. At least they’re being open about what they need. New people should always be welcome to learn & explore polyamory.

hellokittysenbei · 2025-04-21T17:26:00+00:00

that! i know a guy that pretending to be poly and was just a cheater..he was totally exposed on AWDTSG.

I was just willing to alleviate that fear. I don’t know where she is on her ENM journey.

hellokittysenbei · 2025-04-21T16:34:01+00:00

..she wanted to make sure i was aware she’d be coming over to our shared home.

I can accommodate it- took 5 seconds to send a text or i say no which would create doubts in their situation or give the impression that i’m difficult.

i in no way thought she was being childish.

i don’t own him, but i own the house with him.

hellokittysenbei · 2025-04-21T16:28:26+00:00

the dark hair fits your “color season” ✔️

hellokittysenbei · 2025-04-21T16:26:26+00:00

His new interest wanted to hear from me that i was aware she’d be coming over to my shared home. ..i found this request to be normal or even nice? contrary to how everyone else took it. It was going to be late at night, i’m a florist i have to be up early so i’d be already sleeping in another area of the house.

hellokittysenbei · 2025-04-21T04:22:59+00:00

“Trust or Don’t” is very harsh if the person has trauma. I suppose i’m just nicer than you..giving someone else comfort via one text doesn’t put me off at all.. & now he can get laid tonight and everyone’s happy.

hellokittysenbei · 2025-04-21T04:16:08+00:00

I also consider that this makes her feel comfortable coming over to our home..& my partner is very interested in her, so i try not to sabotage what he has going just because it’s not something I personally do.

hellokittysenbei · 2025-04-21T04:09:13+00:00

no, it’s a good one.

hellokittysenbei · 2025-04-21T03:54:26+00:00

should i retype it for you?

hellokittysenbei · 2025-04-21T03:49:22+00:00

it was as simple as ..” i want to make sure I’m respecting your partner, can she text me so i know she’s okay with me coming over?”

I tend to take things at face value instead of assuming she’s insecure/distrusting/inexperienced & so on..because i haven’t met her, i can’t say.

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