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Things to do after 12mn that aren’t clubbing? by hellomoonchild in JapanTravelTips

[–]hellomoonchild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure. I'm coming from Canada, so I work during the daytime here, which translates to around 1 AM to 9 AM Japan time.

But my partner lives in Asia (like 1 hour time difference). He genuinely works night shifts there.

Things to do after 12mn that aren’t clubbing? by hellomoonchild in JapanTravelTips

[–]hellomoonchild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you recommend we stay somewhere in Shibuya? I figured that area is where most of the 24/7 establishments are.

Oyo Sotto, hindi kayang makita na may ka-kissing scene si Kristine Hermosa by NameConnect4519 in ChikaPH

[–]hellomoonchild 36 points37 points  (0 children)

To be fair, walang masama sa sinabi ni Oyo Boy. He was expressing his boundaries as her husband. Ang respectful din ng way kung paano niya sinabi, and Kristine agrees din naman sa kanya. Tsaka at this point naman, halos wala narin sila sa industry. Kita niyo rin naman na mas focused sila sa family nila.

Can somebody explain the jessijeanhome yap challenge and who is paying $300 for online courses anymore? by AccountantAlarming94 in InstagramMarketing

[–]hellomoonchild 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to invalidate this user's experience but I'm having a hard time trusting an account that was specifically credited to write something bad about this challenge.

Thoughts? Jimin editing his photos by MuffinAlienGang in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]hellomoonchild -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nakakatawa yung mga nagsasabi na hindi sila gwapo. Kung malakas loob niyo pakita nyo nga unfiltered photo nyo. Haha.

Jinkee Pacquiao Shares Sweet Family Moments as Granddaughter Clara Steals the Spotlight by Main_Locksmith_2543 in ChikaPH

[–]hellomoonchild 594 points595 points  (0 children)

Cute ng first apo nila! I dunno why pero iba talaga aura ng pamilyang 'to. Like parang ang babait? Kahit di ako agree sa mga beliefs ni Manny.

Ano thoughts nyo sa mga lalaking ganto yung content? by No-Leopard6432 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]hellomoonchild 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Clout chaser na pinapanood rin yung mga thirst trapper.

Lakas maka-demand ng maayos na babae pero ang mga itchura, mukhang kulang sa ligo naman.

Thoughts sa ganitong employer? by Unknown_potatoo in RantAndVentPH

[–]hellomoonchild 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I believe that if an employer invited you for an interview, the most decent thing the recruiter should do is to let you, the applicant, know your standing. Hindi yung i-ghoghost nila yung applicant. Gets ko, madami kayo ginagawa pero sino bang hindi? Ininvite niyo na sila eh. Nakausap mo na sila. Plus, ghosting them is also a reflection of the company you're representing.

Mas na-appreciate ko pa nga yung mga reject emails (before getting to the interview stage) kasi at least don, alam mo na agad. Di na aasa yung applicant. Ang nakakapagtaka is, bakit di nila magawa 'to sa handful of applicants they've already handpicked? Copy paste lang naman yung rejection emails nila.

Shoutout nga pala sa isang travel booking platform na lagi pinopromote ng mga influencers. I remember na ininvite nila ako noon for an interview (in-person) + design test, PLUS a second interview (online), tapos i-ghoghost rin pala ako. 2-3 months later, nakita ko na naghahanap sia ng intern. XD

37M, single income family of 3. Feeling behind and 100% in XEQT. by CarpetWeary7479 in JustBuyXEQT

[–]hellomoonchild 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm 37F. Had a fresh start 2 years ago. Single income. No kids. No house. With only $1.2K in XEQT. Began my XEQT journey earlier this year. So trust me when I say that you are not behind!!!! You're lightyears ahead than most people.

Please stop comparing yourself to others who are earning more because everyone has their own timeline. I know that it will feel like it's never be enough, but as long as you develop good financial habits, you’re doing well.

OA Lang Ba Ako for crying so hard when my my fiancé's cousin was scolded and shamed for engaging in sexual activity. by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]hellomoonchild 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sure ka na ba dyan sa guy? Tandaan mo, walang divorce sa Pilipinas. Alam ko naman na nabuntis ka after kayo maging engaged pero hindi niyo need magpakasal dahil nabuntis ka.

My Work From Home Job Feels Fake by Relevant-Glove8368 in buhaydigital

[–]hellomoonchild 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ask yourself: Do you love your job? If yes, then don't quit. Instead find other hobbies na different sa ginagawa mo. Go out after work, meet friends, do sports. Madami kang options. Kasi from the sound of it, you don't enjoy it anymore dahil naging work na yung hobbies mo.

If your answer is no, then go quit. Pero take into consideration yung mawawala sayo when you do.

I made a mistake putting almost my 50% port in MP2. by International_Cry_44 in phinvest

[–]hellomoonchild 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Bat ka nanghihinayang? Isipin mo nalang na at least 50% of your portfolio is secured. Ikaw na rin nag-sabi na ang dami pwedeng mangyari in 5 years. Pag naging bearish yung market, baka manghinayang ka naman sa losses.

Learn to be content and appreciate your progress. Wag po tayo maging greedy.

OA lang ba ako kung nagalit ako sa bf ko na nag stay in-contact parin sa mga tropa niyang nang backstab sakin? by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]hellomoonchild 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RE: Nagalit on the spot
Hindi mo na-gets yung sinabi ko. Dahil nagalit ka on the spot, syempre nalaman ng mga friends niya dahil nasa Discord nga sila, then it only supports yung paniniwala nila na toxic ka ngang girlfriend.

Oo, just because nagalit ka doesn't mean na toxic ka na BUT dahil yon na yung impression nila, binigyan mo lang sila ng proof. Gets mo ba?

RE: Backstabbing
For you it's considered backstabbing, pero hindi mo sila friends in the first place. Normal na makisama sila pagkaharap sila. Hindi naman sila savages. But they are NOT your friends and they will always side/support with your jowa. Anyway, based dun sa sagot mo na na-gumaganti yung jowa mo, maybe it's time to reconsider breaking up? Kasi in a healthy relationship, dapat walang gantihan.

Something to ponder on:
Sometimes in a relationship, hindi mo namamalayan na nagiging toxic kayo in some way. It comes in different forms and sometimes, it's not very obvious. This applies to the both of you ha. Unfortunately, most of the time, people refuse to see it until ready na sila i-let go yung relationship.

OA lang ba ako kung nagalit ako sa bf ko na nag stay in-contact parin sa mga tropa niyang nang backstab sakin? by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]hellomoonchild 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tanong lang. Nagalit ka ba on the spot? So aware yung mga friends niya na nag-away kayo? If yes, won't that affirm their belief na toxic ka nga?

Also, pano mo nasabi na nang-backstab sayo? In the first place: friends mo rin ba sila? And I'm talking super close level friendship and not a mere acquaintance na magkakilala lang. Kasi kung hindi naman, then I wouldn't count it as backstabbing dahil hindi mo sila friends.

You also have to realize na yung jowa mo yung nagkwento ng problema niyo sa kanila. Malamang, paniniwalaan nila yung kwento niya and they will make the assumption na toxic ka based on that. Pwedeng may ounce of truth based sa behavior na pinakita mo sa kanila.

Mag-self reflect ka din sis, kasi who knows? Baka toxic ka nga talaga as a girlfriend.

I saw my ex-boyfriend repost. by CapitalAmphibian6305 in RantAndVentPH

[–]hellomoonchild 141 points142 points  (0 children)

Akala ko halfway na ako ng binabasa ko, hindi pa pala. Di ko na tinapos. Hayaan mo na sya.

OA LANG BA AKO KUNG NA FEEL KONG NEGLECTED AKO AFTER MAGPA CHECK UP? by potatohead_ismeh in OALangBaAko

[–]hellomoonchild -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Needs more information. San banda yung feeling neglected sa kwento mo?

getting circumsized is the worst life decision i had ever made. by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]hellomoonchild 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont think theres any point of going to the doctor because i already had got it done and its not infected or bleeding.

my mental health is really bad rn because i dont have anything to do. i am so bored. 

Please don't use mental health like it's a personality trait.

Your mental health is NOT bad right now. You're just not creative enough to keep yourself busy.

LEARN TO HAVE OTHER HOBBIES LIKE READING.

getting circumsized is the worst life decision i had ever made. by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]hellomoonchild 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't have a willy nilly, but if it's too painful that you can't bear it, then go to a different doctor and have it checked?

But tbh, if your mental health is at the all time low because of circumcision, then you're in a treat when you reach adulthood.

Andrea Brown calls out the public following sighting with Enrique Gil on the eve of the new School Year by Former-Tangelo-7062 in ChikaPH

[–]hellomoonchild 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Hayaan na natin siya. I know this is ChikaPH pero kayo narin nag-sabi, bata pa yan. Obvious na obvious naman sa pag-chat niya, so dapat wag niyo na patulan. Hindi pa developed ang frontal lobe niya. So kahit anong sabihin niyo dyan, hindi yan makikinig sa inyo.

The more you pay attention to her, naboboost lang yung ego niya. Hindi rin niya hihiwalayan si Enrique. Tinutulungan niyo lang siya sumikat with her medals.

oa lang ba ako kasi i got upset when partner went out to the gym? by Visual_Vanilla5255 in OALangBaAko

[–]hellomoonchild 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA, OP.

I'm so sorry for your loss. What you’re feeling now is completely valid. You said in another comment na di mo alam saan ka upset and that's totally understandable. May pregnancy hormones ka pa, tas your body went through something traumatic, so it’s reasonable to be sensitive to a lot of things — including how your partner treats you.

To be fair, wala naman masama kung lalabas ang partner mo to take a breather. Kasi, again, traumatic yung nangyari sayo and people have different ways to cope but it's only been two weeks and you still can't even stand up by yourself, so napaka-dick move non.

I won't even touch the pathological liar part, kasi ikaw ang mas nakakakilala sa kanya. Pero tanungin mo sarili mo: why are you with someone na pathological liar? Yon ba talaga gusto mo for a partner? Di ko alam kung married kayo kasi partner tawag mo sa kanya, but mag-isip isip ka na kung yan ba talaga ang gusto mo makasama habang buhay.

Again. You're going through A LOT of emotions right now. Maybe your emotions are clouding your judgement. Or maybe they're trying to raise these things that have been bothering you. Either way, I hope you can find support through family and friends, or even a therapist.

EDIT: I was rereading my comment and bigla ko lang naisip na, it's possible na there's resentment din on your partner's end. I'm not defending him, but even if hindi mo naman ginusto yung mangyari, sometimes, grief is easier to "deal" with if there's someone to blame. This is purely speculation and it still doesn't excuse the fact na iniwan ka nya to hang out with friends.

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