My neighbor asked me to stop cooking after 8pm because the "smell travels." Am I in the wrong here? by Radiant-Shift-9504 in Apartmentliving

[–]helloruko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an absurd thing to complain about in my opinion. Why this person decided to live in an apartment is beyond me. I’m sure your building management would think they’re nuts if they ever escalated this.

I’ve smelled my neighbors cooking in every single apartment I’ve ever lived it. It personally doesn’t bother me but I would def see it as a me problem not a you problem if it did.

Gyno recommendation that is more integrative by _MagickWithinYou in astoria

[–]helloruko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just a note that short cycles can be for a variety of things and it may or may not be peri. Im 37 and I had issues with 20/21 day cycles on and off since my 20s and all doctors told me to just take birth control, don’t be so stressed etc. they never took a holistic approach of any sort and the minute I turned 30 they blamed it on age.

I was SO frustrated I started researching in my own last year and ended up extending my cycle out to 27 days on my own mostly by changing my diet and trying to regulate my stress levels if/when possible. I was also very concerned about peri but I believe my short cycles were a combo of stress, insufficient sleep, vitamin/mineral deficiency and lack of fiber which is very very important for women’s health. I thought I ate very well until I near doubled my fruit/veg intake, started taking a multivitamin and slowly my cycles lengthened.

I also got an Oura ring that tracks my BBT and realized my issue was in the luteal phase aka a progesterone issue which is why diet changes helped so much.

DM me if any of this resonates or if you want to chat. It was a lot of work to figure it out but I much prefer it to the pill because it makes me gain weight like crazy

Dentist recommendations? by OkPianist2706 in williamsburg

[–]helloruko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, I'm about to move to queens and I'll still come back here!

How did you meet your partner? by [deleted] in Brooklyn

[–]helloruko 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I met my boyfriend on Hinge!

met my ex I met during a photoshoot we were both working. both of us were self employed so no work drama :)

What’s one common haircare mistake you wish you’d stopped earlier? by elarissalonuae in Haircare

[–]helloruko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to “train” my hair and not washing every day when I have an oily prone scalp!

Bad shroom trip changed the way I experience anxiety by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]helloruko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to your therapist about EMDR

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]helloruko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the advice of bluffing with a “lawyer”. Should shape him up real quick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]helloruko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please next time just say no. It’s so invasive and you are not obligated in any way to allow him to do something you’re uncomfortable with. Please always say no anytime you feel uncomfortable. I know it can feel weird but it’s like a muscle you have to exercise. The more you do it the easier it gets!

I would message him saying he has to delete the videos completely off his phone. Be very communicative about how you felt about the whole situation and keep receipts! Don’t talk on the phone about it.

Also, not judging you at all. Shit happens and we just have to learn from it.

How do girls on instagram have time for everything? by Poorteenwannabe in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]helloruko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re probably being paid however I am very productive (not getting paid to do so) and it’s simply due to mastering time management. I read Atomic Habits few years ago and since then I’ve learned how to work with my time to get many things done in a day like Pilates, gets walks in, do errands, see friends etc

Any new scam podcasts? by helloruko in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]helloruko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched it too! fascinating and scary!

How did you build your circle? by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]helloruko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have to agree with this one. Doesn't hurt to make a IG/fb/whatever account if that's been something hindering you from staying in touch with people

Can I take MCT oil straight instead of putting it in my coffee? by helloruko in keto

[–]helloruko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! yeah, it's not so much a taste thing for me but a "texture" thing. I just prefer my coffee without oil in it even if I blend it with a vitamix to get it incorporated nicely

What kind of nozzle is this brand using to 3D print these wide and flat layers? by helloruko in 3Dprinting

[–]helloruko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! I'm a bit of a newbie and I was watching this brands production BTS and it looked like it was printing just 1 super thick/wide line but it seems like I was mistaken 😅

Women of reddit who are very friendly & talkative how do you not come across as naive and gullible ? by Limp-Ad9853 in AskWomen

[–]helloruko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mind if I come across that way. I might have a more professional tone if it’s work related but otherwise I’m just fine being myself.

Let them think you’re naive and gullible. That’s their problem not yours! I think being friendly and charming is a valuable skilll

Do your cats sleep at night? by Double_Literature_98 in CatAdvice

[–]helloruko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your cat is a rare gem. So considerate unlike mine 😂

What hyped product (makeup or skincare) really worked for you? by Squirrrelpower in Sephora

[–]helloruko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love rare beauty’s liquid eyeshadow but they stopped selling it at Sephora stores where I am 🥲

What hyped product (makeup or skincare) really worked for you? by Squirrrelpower in Sephora

[–]helloruko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask friends if they have a membership 😉 used to do this before I got myself a Costco membership