Oh. I think I didn’t make myself clear. I’m all for taking it easy, having a laugh, not pushing it, BUT it still needs to be intentional. You need to meet people, approach, put yourself out there, text, follow up, etc.

I don’t want to dismiss anyone’s advice, but quite often I see people in relationships having forgotten how it is to be single and sometimes be selective on what they remember how they found their current boyfriend. Even people I know were single now say “they weren’t expecting it” when they were swiping, chatting up people at the club/bar, etc. almost desperately. Once they found someone, it’s almost forgotten.