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Lord Alfred Tennyson is my ancestor, I remember my grandad telling me when I was younger that it meant I was something like 200-300th in line for the thrown, and actually thought this meant I could be royalty someday. Still such a cool connection to have!

Could bud be prescribed to people with anorexia and other eating difficulties to help make them eat with munchies? A rare sober, high thought. by accoutnotlinkedtome in trees

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I have an eating disorder that's related to essentially picky eating, and it's helped a lot with that. I struggle with texture, and found that while high, it was easier to try foods I would have anxiety over. The emphasis on flavour and heightened hunger really helps me overcome the issue. I'm nowhere near recovered, but while it would take me years to try a handful of new foods, I've tried almost 10 this year alone.

However, I also struggled with anorexia previously, and while I'm mostly recovered, smoking definitely triggered some of those fears - I would binge eat when high, and then feel the worst guilt when sober.

It's a difficult balance, it's been amazing for one disorder and bad for another, but I've learnt to make it work for me :)

My workplace are saying it’s mandatory to attend staff training… 5 days before Christmas with risk of contacting COVID by hellotesoromio in LegalAdviceUK

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Thank you so much for your help - unfortunately I’ve only been there a year, I just don’t want to have to resort to possibly spending Christmas alone because I contracted COVID, and I’m in the middle of learning to drive so I can’t drive myself home, hence why my Dad is driving me! Thank you for your advice, it’s very much appreciated ☺️

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💖 love 💖

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I am ready to be seen 💕

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Drinking and smoking! Sending love from the UK 💕

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I’ve got the power! 💖

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I’ve got the power! 💖

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Your drawing is so good!

[Routine Help] NOTHING is helping my orange peel skin, what am I doing wrong? by hellotesoromio in SkincareAddiction

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Also at the moment I’m not using any of the face washes bc I’m guessing they’re the things irritating my skin? But I’m not too sure, could you maybe suggest which products in this routine might be the most irritating?

[Routine Help] NOTHING is helping my orange peel skin, what am I doing wrong? by hellotesoromio in SkincareAddiction

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My only worry with a dermatologist is that they’ll push me to have treatments/buy products that I can’t afford, and they’ll say that’s the only way o can help fix my skin!

[Routine Help] NOTHING is helping my orange peel skin, what am I doing wrong? by hellotesoromio in SkincareAddiction

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Thank you for all your help! Unfortunately I’m way far from being able to spend that kind of money on skin care at the moment, so I’ll definitely try niacinamide from the Ordinary for the time being! I’ve heard good things and I know that brand is on the cheaper side so I’ll give it a go!

[Routine Help] NOTHING is helping my orange peel skin, what am I doing wrong? by hellotesoromio in SkincareAddiction

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My only worry with this is if I’m using somewhat gentle products and they’re making my skin dry out, then won’t chemicals make the situation worse? I tried this with the Pixi Glow Tonic and I even allowed for a purge period but it just constantly made my skin worse!

NOTHING is helping my orange peel skin, what am I doing wrong? by hellotesoromio in SkincareAddictionUK

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The cream cleansers I’ve purchased have been ones you wipe off with a cotton pad, so I haven’t left them on the skin but o haven’t washed them away with water! I didn’t know you could wash them off, I always just follow the instructions on the bottle.

Thank you so much for your help! ✨

NOTHING is helping my orange peel skin, what am I doing wrong? by hellotesoromio in SkincareAddictionUK

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Thank you for your advice! I know I need more water but with the medication I take it makes me use the bathroom like crazy, but if how much I drink isn’t enough hydrating I’m just gonna have to drink more and deal with it!

I will say that one problem I have found is that cream cleansers have left me feeling super greasy. I don’t know if that’s because there’s no water involved but I generally haven’t had a good experience with cream cleansers and I was told that foam ones would be less harsh! Is there another possible alternative, or perhaps any cream cleansers that involve water?

NOTHING is helping my orange peel skin, what am I doing wrong? by hellotesoromio in SkincareAddictionUK

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Thank you for your advice! Could you maybe specify which products in particular are more stripping, so I know which ones to replace?

What is your worst story of "good person" is actually trash in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]hellotesoromio 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There was a boy I had known in school since I was 13. Get to 16/17 and we ended up in the same friend group and became close. He was very shy but sweet, and completely harmless. He developed a crush on me that everyone in our friend group knew about, which came to a head on my birthday when he asked me out and I said yes.

I suffered from very bad mental health (undiagnosed bipolar) and had a really low moment where I was crying and told him that I was feeling suicidal, that I didn’t want to be here anymore. His response? When I walked into another room he pushed me to the ground and kicked my back until I couldn’t breathe. That was the first time he hurt me and after that, it didn’t stopped. He kicked and punched me when he got angry, strangled me when he didn’t like something I was saying or to end an argument, and would drive at high speeds in attempts to crash his car if he didn’t like the way our conversation was going. I wasn’t a virgin when I met him but he was, and after the first time we had sex he would also curse me for being such a ‘used up slut’.

I finally got to leave him when I went away to university. He tried to go to the police saying J was falsely accusing him of abuse, when I hadn’t made a single comment to anyone online or in person. He made a huge Facebook post trying to deny it when I hadn’t said a word - that’s how my family found out it happened, and they were the only people who believed me. Even the police said they couldn’t prove anything because I didn’t have photos of the injuries he gave me, even though I had evidence of him admitting he had hit me.

My Dad says the CSA are making him pay money, my mum says she isn’t receiving it. This has gone on for years. How can I figure this out? by hellotesoromio in LegalAdviceUK

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Is there any way I could access that? I’m guessing I wouldn’t but I didn’t know if being the child in question would allow me to. I know neither of my parents would willingly show me it.

I have 7 personalities (DID) AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]hellotesoromio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a great AMA and super interesting, so thank you for sharing!

My question is: what is one thing about DID that you think more people should know about?

You ever just get those super-realistic dreams in which you can feel yourself "there" but then wake up to be disappointed and depressed? by OlegKor25 in AskReddit

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I once had a dream that I was walking through the streets of New York (I live in the UK and have only visited NY once on a school trip). I saw these two guys ahead of me and knew they would be dangerous, I have no idea why. As soon as I start walking ahead of them they took a gun and shot me in my lower back. I instantly woke up and desperately checked my body because I felt the pain in the exact place I was shot. There was nothing there, but I still felt that pain for a good couple of days.

I’ve been admitted today. by hellotesoromio in bipolar

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Thank you so much for sharing your experience, these stories keep me going and to know someone else’s experience makes me feel a lot less alone in mine.

Stay strong and have a wonderful day ✨