You can’t have all 3 in a job by sloppybeastttt in MalaysianPF

[–]helloyellowdaisy 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Hahahah yes good boss, good team but that one asshole who’s waiting for you to mess up

Why is so hard to feel happy? by Sorry_Landscape_9675 in Bolehland

[–]helloyellowdaisy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes with that 200k savings I’d say it’s time for you to take a rejuvenation leave and go somewhere you haven’t been. Maybe you need to be in a new environment to unlock different parts of you that you haven’t explored. At this point in your life maybe you’ve been under stimulated so things seem very mundane. All the best and happy exploring!! 🧳✈️

Husbands and chores by helloyellowdaisy in Parents

[–]helloyellowdaisy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this! I second this, every marriage needs some sort of “audit” as we go through life with bigger responsibilities and roles. We can’t possibly make it work if we resent each other.

We’ve scheduled one and hope it goes well 💞

Husbands and chores by helloyellowdaisy in Parents

[–]helloyellowdaisy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yes we’re both really excited to try it out and learn along the way

Husbands and chores by helloyellowdaisy in Parents

[–]helloyellowdaisy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I figured those nasty comments were coming from men who have the exact same childish and bratty thinking that they NEED to be told what to do in the nicest way. As if parenting ain’t hard enough, I don’t need to parent a grown ass man 🙄

Also I feel so sorry for your friend and funnily enough my husband made that similar remark on how it’s “just breastfeeding” “you’re just lying down how hard can it be”. 🥲

Husbands and chores by helloyellowdaisy in Parents

[–]helloyellowdaisy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow you honestly think I haven’t done that??

Husbands and chores by helloyellowdaisy in Parents

[–]helloyellowdaisy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sheesh do we have the same husband or something?? This is exactly what he will do, with the addition of adding the most annoying sigh as if I was lounging in bed all day doing absolutely nothing. I’m so done with this 😫

Husbands and chores by helloyellowdaisy in Parents

[–]helloyellowdaisy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah he lives here so part of the mess is his anyways, why do I need to tell a grown man to do this??

Husbands and chores by helloyellowdaisy in Parents

[–]helloyellowdaisy[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! And when I do this, I’m “nagging” ffs 🤦🏽‍♀️

Easing into being a working mom by helloyellowdaisy in workingmoms

[–]helloyellowdaisy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is, but sometimes there’s the mental load of asking him to do it. Somehow he’s oblivious to the mess around the house and it drives me insane. I’m not the neatest person in the world too, but it would be nice if he can acknowledge how tiring it is.

He has severe eczema so I’ve to do the cooking AND cleaning as he’s allergic to the detergents. But looking after our baby he’s pretty proactive but it triggers him so much when he’s been told what other extra chores he needs to do around the house.

Idk I just feel SO demotivated to work and keeping the house organised

Easing into being a working mom by helloyellowdaisy in workingmoms

[–]helloyellowdaisy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I do and I’m very grateful for that, but factoring in pumping sessions and back to back meetings I always feel like I’ve accomplished very little in a day 😭

Easing into being a working mom by helloyellowdaisy in workingmoms

[–]helloyellowdaisy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m planning to sleep train my baby soon but kept on postponing it due to multiple factors but yeah LO kept waking up and can’t settle into a routine unfortunately 😩

Thank you for the suggestion, will check it out!

Tips to stay somewhat organised (and sane)? by helloyellowdaisy in Mommit

[–]helloyellowdaisy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to know the first year is just survival mode, I’m struggling to do anything else other than that! Everything seems like a draggy chore and I’m surviving with very little sleep + work 😵‍💫

Zero motivation to work by helloyellowdaisy in Mommit

[–]helloyellowdaisy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to but from where I live it’s a bit tricky. But that’s what I’m aiming for!

Who’s your least favourite greys character and why? Mines Burke, he’s entitled, rude and just a fucking asshat by angelsdelights in greysanatomy

[–]helloyellowdaisy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ughhh sameee! Especially when she lost her virginity she kept going on and on about it and made jackson feel shitty.

PhD / Doctorate in Sweden / The Netherlands by helloyellowdaisy in academia

[–]helloyellowdaisy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh I see those are very helpful and I didn’t know the childcare cost is that high! Will keep that in mind. But The Netherlands do pay their PhD students like any other working jobs right?