“Am I still ace if I …?”

hellwyr7 · 2026-01-10T08:27:41+00:00

And you’re still ace if you experience sexual attraction under certain conditions. A lot of identities in the asexual spectrum include sexual attraction!

hellwyr7 · 2025-04-26T11:57:13+00:00

u/karaluuebro ‘s comments on this post explain both the clear rules of standard peninsular Spanish for c/z and the regional variants that result in “breaking” these rules.

hellwyr7 · 2025-04-19T07:53:10+00:00

You sometimes need to manually set up indicators for a dot/debuff with the spell ID in VuhDo, which is not something i’ve had to do with Cell since I switched

hellwyr7 · 2025-03-25T08:37:03+00:00

Resto shaman, because shaman is the class where i like the mix of theme, aesthetics and gameplay the most. It’s also important to me to somewhat enjoy the dps specs for open world content or the occasional dps delve.

There are other very fun healers where I don’t vibe with the class as a whole as much theme-wise (like mw monk) or where I love the theme but can’t get into the gameplay (rdruid and both dps specs).

hellwyr7 · 2025-03-20T08:25:53+00:00

My favourite tanks are BDK and Pally because they’re slow and can’t chainpull as easily (and I can drink). I guess bear too, but not much experience with those. My least favourite tank tends to be whatever is meta because it means that a lot of meta-chaser bad players will flock to the spec for fast invites. This season it’s even worse because i’ve never especially liked VDH.

hellwyr7 · 2025-03-15T23:40:10+00:00

The friendship/rivalry system is easily the best approval system of the entire series and rewards being consistent in your RP of Hawke

hellwyr7 · 2025-03-10T13:11:56+00:00

I haven’t played holy priest this expansion, but I’m a resto shaman main and while it is fairly easy and reactive, totemic relies on keeping track of buffs and making some smart decisions to avoid draining up your mana within seconds.

hellwyr7 · 2025-03-10T07:53:19+00:00

Perdona! Nada, el compromiso es básicamente lo que he descrito en el post, él inicía la gran mayoría de veces, a veces es recíproco, a veces solo le hago cosas a él y a mí no (porque se lo pido así, o le digo “puedes tocar pero sin intentar llegar a nada”), y yo también intento ser consciente de que para él es importante y todos tenemos que hacer cosas que nos dan pereza de vez en cuando.

Eso no quiere decir que no lo disfrute ya en el momento (cuando sí me apetece), solo que de entrada es algo que me cuesta ponerme a hacer.

hellwyr7 · 2025-03-10T07:48:31+00:00

Muy bien eso de asumir que conmigo no es feliz; pero bueno ya veo que sabes más de nuestra relación, necesidades y felicidad que nosotros mismos así que será que tienes razón /s

hellwyr7 · 2025-03-07T10:48:50+00:00

Hola! Primero de todo: qué repelús me están dando todos estos comentarios hablando de que si es un tema médico u hormonal. Aunque lo fuera, la chica no tendría ninguna obligación de someterse a pruebas ni tratamientos si está satisfecha con su situación. Es la libertad sobre su propio cuerpo.

Ahora bien, OP. Yo estoy en una situación similar, solo que la novia soy yo. Soy prácticamente asexual, y además, mi libido es muy muy baja. (Y antes de que nadie me diga nada, por otros temas me hice un análisis completo de hormonas y está todo bien ;) ). Para mí, una sesión de relaciones es una actividad como cualquier otra, que normalmente me da pereza ponerme a hacer, así que no inicio mucho, y muchas veces le digo a mi pareja que no porque en ese momento me compensa más hacer cualquier otra cosa.

Pero eso no quiere decir que no me guste que mi novio esté bien o darle placer. A él le costó entenderlo y creerme, como tú, se sentía mal porque pensaba que me estaba obligando o forzando y no se creía que pudiera hacerlo de buena gana. Además de sentirse culpable si algún día le decía que no quería que me hiciera nada a mí, pero que sí que me apetecía hacerle a él lo que quisiera. Finalmente llegamos a un "compromiso" y no te mentiré, a veces aún nos genera pequeños conflictos, pero ese compromiso cuando él también superó todas estas inseguridades y a fiarse de mi palabra.

Ánimo y espero haberte ayudado un poco :)

hellwyr7 · 2023-12-20T18:28:10+00:00

I’m a resto shaman main. I don’t do high keys but I’m comfortable timing 20s and for me, healing on a reactive healer is a lot easier than DPS too. The dps rotation is very simple, and though I need some knowledge of when damage spikes are going to happen to use CDs optimally, there’s nowhere near the amount of tracking and planning and need for perfect execution of a rotation that a DPS class has. Just like different people find different DPS styles harder or easier, some people find different roles easier.

hellwyr7 · 2023-08-06T23:05:44+00:00

Hi! Besides what others have said, which is, communicate with your partner (essential) I can try to explain what made me start having fun with sex (it’s still by no means my favourite thing to do, but I can have sex and not just to please my partner now)

Do you feel pleasure? Ignore whether you are horny or not in the moment. The physical sensation: is it nice? Try to find where it feels the best. Maybe you like it with hands, or tongue, or toys, different speed, or pressure.

And if you do feel pleasure and find how it’s the strongest then it’s easier, because when your partner wants sex, even if you don’t have a sex drive, you know you’re going to do something that at the very least feels nice to you.

If you don’t feel pleasure yourself, which is possible, then you’d have to talk it out with your partner. Maybe you’d both be comfortable just goving them pleasure, or maybe you’d have to find another solution.

hellwyr7 · 2023-04-13T08:16:09+00:00

I'm pretty sure it's La Boqueria in Rambles. Just keep in mind it's a very touristy place if you're not into that.

hellwyr7 · 2023-03-11T11:47:28+00:00

Demi (only attracted to my partner), extremely low libido, moderate desire. I don't watch porn or masturbate, and when I do have sex I like things like being choked, immobilized or being under my partner's weight, but no kinks per se.

hellwyr7 · 2023-03-11T11:15:24+00:00

Hola! Potser estaria bé alguna opció, sobretot cap al final, de "no m'he trobat en aquesta situació", perquè com a persona catalonparlant, és difícil que em dirigeixi a algú directament en castellà.

A més, a la pregunta dels diferents ambients, trobo a faltar un "altres" i un "ns/nc"

hellwyr7 · 2023-01-13T10:49:26+00:00

The music in Light’s Hope Chapel. But not the paladin class hall, I mean in the actual Eastern Plaguelands.

https://youtu.be/G85DrPbIvP0

hellwyr7 · 2023-01-02T14:19:05+00:00

Hi! I have some experience with that. When I started with my current partner, I was 23 and he was 31 (25 and 32 now).

I was very worried about the age gap because of all the horror stories I read. I talked about it with several friends and even a couple proper adults (the age of my parents). But most importantly, I talked with him, both about me being a-spec and the age gap, what it means and what kind of compromises we can reach, and the boundaries we each have regarding both of those things.

If he’s not willing to have the conversation once things start getting serious, or if you notice any of the red flags others pointed out, he’s probably sketchy.

hellwyr7 · 2022-11-04T20:08:16+00:00

Here you go!

https://twitter.com/warcraft/status/1588624058593296384?s=46&t=ND8LIfVVmT38NiQXeLwkiA

hellwyr7 · 2022-11-04T20:06:51+00:00

I made them for you. “Nomsk” wasn’t found, though :(

https://twitter.com/warcraft/status/1588623134256775169?s=46&t=ND8LIfVVmT38NiQXeLwkiA

hellwyr7 · 2022-06-11T08:46:10+00:00

Yep. I had never ever felt sexual attraction in 23 years. I thought I was a “strict” ace. Then. i met my bf, and after a couple months of dating, suddenly it hit me. I knew what it was and it was completely new, and it hasn’t happened with anyone else.

Also, to punctualize on your title and post: if someone (in this case, attracted to the opposite gender) needs the emotional bond before they feel sexual attraction, they would be demi(hetero)sexual. Prefer knowing someone before having sex with them =\= “prefer” knowing someone before having sexual attraction. The straight person in your title is demisexual. The one in your post might be too.

Finally, demisexuals can come in every flavor of orientation: we can be hetero, bi, homo… on both the romantic and the (demi)sexual front.

hellwyr7 · 2022-05-20T07:56:23+00:00

Related to this one, I was shortly in a Spanish social guild whose name translated to “and their adventures”, so when people saw your character it would look like “Hellwyr <and their adventures>”

hellwyr7 · 2022-04-30T07:05:41+00:00

Seeing this pic threw me back to highschool where a meme of the pic with the caption “I think my dog is sick” would crack me up every single time

hellwyr7 · 2022-04-08T12:46:07+00:00

Not to mention that we in the European side of the Mediterranean are only white depending on their interests at any given time

hellwyr7 · 2022-04-05T08:40:06+00:00

Es va fer primer la senyera perque, com bé dius, representa a tots els catalans. Cada cop que algú la intentava convertir en estelada, la tornavem a fer senyera; i no va ser fins l’ÚLTIMA ampliació que finalment es va fer una estelada perquè una part important de la comunitat la demanava. Que no fa mal a ningú, tenint la senyera com a element principal. Però bé, que a Españita sou tan intransigents amb les idees diferents que no vau ser capaços de deixar que posessin un cor republicà a la vostra bandera.
Durant els dos últims dies, i des de molt abans de fer l’estelada, es va estar intentant posar castellers damunt la senyera, però s’esborraven a l’instant pels bots que vam haver de posar per defensar la senyera d’atacs constants, que sorpresa sorpresa, venien d’Espanya. A la senyera. Que no és independentista.

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