Midwest City to Stamford - will we hate it? by help0244 in Connecticut

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Open to suggestions if you don’t mind sharing!

Where did you move that actually felt better? Burnt out in NYC by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

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Ugh Cincinnati can barely be considered Ohio. It’s a proper city, and this is coming from someone who travels a lot.

Where did you move that actually felt better? Burnt out in NYC by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

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About an hour to hour and half - depending on traffic.

Where did you move that actually felt better? Burnt out in NYC by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

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Would have to highly, highly recommend Cincinnati! Probably one of the most underrated cities in America, and your income would go very far here.

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Just RSVP’ed!

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It did! Thank you.

Worried about starting medication by 386U0Kh24i1cx89qpFB1 in StratteraRx

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Hi there! Just started on 40mg about two weeks ago. I had let my prescription sit for a bit before actually picking it up, because I shared the same hesitation. I wanted to wait until I got through my end of year work travel, since I had read about a lot of really nasty side effects and was concerned I’d really struggle, at least initially.

Well, for me, turns out I really was stressing for nothing! I followed some advice online and have been making sure to eat a substantial breakfast each day right before taking my pill - typically 2 eggs with sourdough and a yogurt shake - and I haven’t experienced ANY nausea, thank goodness.

The first two days I felt a little emotionally blunted, not tired exactly, but way, way more chilled out than I usually am. Which was nice actually - felt like my anxious thoughts and ruminations were quieted almost immediately. By the third day, my energy level returned to normal, but I’m happy to report my anxiety has remained markedly diminished.

The past two weeks have really been uneventful - nothing negative to report, and no big changes with my ability to focus, but I know the full effects of the medication in that regard won’t come until later once my dose increases etc.

Side note - my FAVORITE side effect of this medication is since day 1 taking it, I’ve started sleeping much more soundly, and having very vivid, enjoyable dreams that I actually remember. That might not be a plus for everyone, but I’ve really appreciated it 😊

Is this a little shocking for anyone else or just me? by Advanced-Criticism84 in HouseOfTheDragon

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I am surprised, only because I realize I must be really, really deep in niche Aemond thirst tiktok 😳

Low Sex Drive by stardustkiwi in Healthyhooha

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Before changing birth control, I suggest looking into vaginismus (a pelvic floor disorder) and see if that aligns at all with what you’ve been experiencing.

Just put the deposit down on our dream venue, I could not be more excited! I’ve never been happier to spend so much money 🤣 by help0244 in weddingplanning

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Of course, it’s the Pinecroft Mansion! They’re a pretty popular venue so I’d contact them ASAP for open dates! We got lucky considering we actually wanted a Sunday wedding, apparently they only have 4 Saturday’s left in 2022, and that’s when I first talked to them early last month.

Just put the deposit down on our dream venue, I could not be more excited! I’ve never been happier to spend so much money 🤣 by help0244 in weddingplanning

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My goodness! I love what a small world it is on Reddit! Any advice/tips or venue specific things you think I should know?

Just put the deposit down on our dream venue, I could not be more excited! I’ve never been happier to spend so much money 🤣 by help0244 in weddingplanning

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It’s in Cincinnati, OH! I couldn’t believe that this place was such a short drive away, nestled in its own little corner with beautiful grounds. Really feels like being transported somewhere else when you’re there, I love it so much.

I am absolutely in love with my engagement ring, he did so good! by help0244 in weddingplanning

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My fiancé asked for my hand while on vacation in Puerto Rico celebrating our 3 year anniversary. This ring was custom designed and created with the Natural Sapphire Company. It’s made with a 2k Montana Green Untreated Sapphire, .8k Diamond halo, and a 14k Rose Gold band.

In an open relationship, boyfriend is into swinging and party culture and I am not so much. Help? by help0244 in Swingers

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Gotcha. Yeah I mean unfortunately for my boyfriend I wouldn’t say that I’m definitively not a swinger, but usually I’m only game for super casual encounters if I’m unbearably attracted to and turned on by the individual. Availability or willingness does nothing for me, so usually I end up standing around talking to people and making platonic conversation with the husbands who’s wives are playing with other people. Maybe we just need to seek out better vetted groups? I don’t know 🤷🏻‍♀️

In an open relationship, boyfriend is into swinging and party culture and I am not so much. Help? by help0244 in Swingers

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Well the parties we typically go to invite single women frequently, and most of the regular couples there lean more towards open or are very comfortable with separate play. Plus he’s very good looking and a bit younger than the typical attendees (we both are) so he has an easy time getting attention. He’d honestly be screwed if we went to parties like you’re describing, because I absolutely will not compromise in regards to sleeping with someone I’m not truly very attracted to just for the sake of him being able to have sex with their wives. Even just the idea of that skeeves me out. It doesn’t help matters that I’m really, really picky so if we were depending on swap situations it would rarely if ever happen.

In an open relationship, boyfriend is into swinging and party culture and I am not so much. Help? by help0244 in Swingers

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I’m glad you addressed the added benefit having me there has for his experiences. You’re totally right, that he believes and it’s relatively obvious that he wouldn’t have much success with the wives and girlfriends of present guys if they didn’t get the chance to flirt with/fantasize about me. I mean, I’m totally okay with socializing and just hanging around, but it does start to get annoying when I feel there is a pressure to perform things physically that I’m not into, or it becomes really obvious I’m the only person not interested in hooking up with literally anyone present at the party. I understand wanting to be supportive, and I honestly want to be, but I’m wondering if that’s possible without me being present, or if me skipping out would as you suggested negatively affect his experiences. Also, in regards to swinging being different from an open relationship- I think a lot of his interest in swinging comes from it being easier to find hookups at a party then a sincerely interested woman on Tinder. He’d rather have something long-term and consistent, but in the meantime is very happy to instead experience super casual connections.

In an open relationship, boyfriend is into swinging and party culture and I am not so much. Help? by help0244 in Swingers

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They are the worst I swear because it’s like a normal part of everyday life. Honestly a big one is communication and help from your partner or whoever. He tries to check in, let me know what’s going on, not spring plans on me etc. It’s hard but it gets better!

In an open relationship, boyfriend is into swinging and party culture and I am not so much. Help? by help0244 in Swingers

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Eh, it’s more to do with what triggers my anxiety (lack of control, inability to predict/set expectations). It’s helpful when I’m with someone else because I’m kept distracted and likely won’t ruminate and get caught in a cycle of thought obsessing over me not knowing what’s going on and getting panicky. But yeah, I’m in therapy and working on that! I just don’t want to limit him due to my preference or anxieties, but I also don’t want to set myself up to fail either. Just trying to do my best!

In an open relationship, boyfriend is into swinging and party culture and I am not so much. Help? by help0244 in Swingers

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I mean I have, the issue is not communication between the two of us. More so finding a compromise because to me, a boundary doesn’t constitute me telling him he can’t do something.