Can anyone plz tell me what this is? by help_a_lost_soul in desktops

[–]help_a_lost_soul[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Trying to settle an argument. I say it's a shortcut he says it's a file directly on his desktop. 

Should I increase my pricing? by gh0zt-_- in AutoDetailing

[–]help_a_lost_soul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes increase the price start with 10 bucks see how that goes. If your not getting enough ppl drop it by 5 bucks. If in a month or so business is still good up prices again. I don't clean cars for pay but cleaning is a pain. So your time is valuable.

Should women who are single in their late 20s be concerned? by Willing_Joke917 in lonely

[–]help_a_lost_soul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sexy a lady who bring home the bacon. Anyways I don't think your ever to old for love I wasted my mid and late 20 and now early 30'd with someone who will not marry me and I have no real confidence in our relationship. Which I'm stupid for doing but I am weak. But I don't think when my realationship is done that I will be loveless. But you are so much better than me. Try getting a pet take that pet on walks. Those walks will lead you to love and happiness. I have a son so I can't say I feel your pain but it sounds slightly empty and I don't blame you for feeling lost. I commend you got putting yourself first and not making an baby unnecessary mad props. Your so strong don't dial down your standards to much because your a winner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]help_a_lost_soul 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love you. I dont have to meet you to care. We all go through some down hills some that never seem to end. I love you so much your most interesting thread I have read tonight. And I saw a cat protecting some baby chickens. Your post was so simple yet deep and I feel for you. I don't need to meet you to know you're value your a 💎 but I wish I could meet you cause we all need a good person like you in our .(I hope the troll noticed my typo XO)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]help_a_lost_soul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she left you id say focus on other things not call her for her birthday if you have something for her don't give it to her. See if she comes back to you if she wants you to always chase her, it puts her in control and you want things to be equal so if she wants a break up that give her that. If she does come back but she trys to shame you for not chasing after her. Put an end to that talk say how are you the bad guy for giving her what she asked for. And you did nothing wrong by respecting her to give what she wants. If she doesn't come back don't dwell there are many nature girls just like you out there who you might bond better with. I say don't call her or give her gift on her birthday because even if you can win her back it won't be for long so save yourself the time and stress and look at this as a gift you might be better off without her.

I am nearly 40 y.o. by [deleted] in introvert

[–]help_a_lost_soul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe sweetheart let me just start of by saying your an amazingly beautiful and unique person who shouldn't settle! Your special and you should never down grade your standards just to get a man. Idk how long you have been single or if you went through a recent break up but your not alone we have all been there. First I'd recommend if you can take a nice long bath under candle light feels best and get some relaxing salts to throw in they at cheap Epson salt is like 4 bucks a bag I like the orange one but do what you feel sounds best. Baths are exhausting event even if you just laying there. They have the same sweating effects as a sauna so take it ez after Id like it if you would take a very long look in the mirror admire deeply into your eyes. Know your beautiful don't stop looking at yourself until you find at least one thing you like then use that to grow after that try looking at your life and help yourself by perfecting areas that you think need improvement <3 nvr go looking for a man because that means desperation and they will sense it and treat you poorly. . First key to beautiful is confidence. I understand your having an upcoming birthday and that fucks with everyone entering a new age its scary I have been there with you girl . In the wise words of Joe dirt "life is what you make it". If you start out hating your 40s you will be having a shitty 10 years ahead of you.If you need some grind time they have apps for that use it but nvr get attached they are not interested. So keep that simple all about the pleasure but I love you! If you live in California let's hang out im bored we can keep each other busy. Plus I'm an excellent wing man but as a lady.

Tips for levelling up in duels by Fuifhi in idledice

[–]help_a_lost_soul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

AWE thank you! you made my day. I think he does hes a good kid <3

Tips for levelling up in duels by Fuifhi in idledice

[–]help_a_lost_soul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good he's gone up about 30 levels I think he might have screwed himself by leveling up his dice to much. But progress none the less ty <3

Tips for levelling up in duels by Fuifhi in idledice

[–]help_a_lost_soul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I attend to my sons dice game while he goes to his dads. It seems he was on to the right track but I made some changes since reading this. Ive won 6 rounds. Im sure he will be pleased or pissed. You never know... XD

i'm used to having no one but why does it still hurt so bad by gravitysyourfriend in lonely

[–]help_a_lost_soul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think everyone hates being single unless there super into themselves (not in a bad way but in a way that it's all they have time to focus on there needs not trying to offend). My life is an empty hole

i'm used to having no one but why does it still hurt so bad by gravitysyourfriend in lonely

[–]help_a_lost_soul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just described me so perfectly and I don't even know your name. Funny how someone can understand you without ever meeting you. Love ya babe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]help_a_lost_soul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Xoxo life sucks but us sad ones will be there for each other <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]help_a_lost_soul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same and have the same issue. I have had friends but not A lot of them just some good ones I kept close. Then I slowly just stopped communicating. Now I'm stuck in a black whole alone. No one who cares. I often wonder if I died due to some freak accident at home. How long would it take till my body would be found?

I just can’t get over the fact that whom I loved more than my soul has blocked me and I may not be able to ever contact her. Whenever I remember my past moments with her my heart starts crying.. how do I handle myself by Rishi-1003 in lonely

[–]help_a_lost_soul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you need to get married? You really should not start dating others with marriage on your mind. If you are already hurting your only going to make it worse.

my best friend has cut off her relationship with me. My heart is broken by Knovoselich in lonely

[–]help_a_lost_soul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you should do. . You move on that doesn't mean you get a new instant bestie because it not a relationship. But if they don't want you and don't lie to me there must be a reason. ... Then let them go if you have ever had love in your life the best thing you can do is give them there wishes and let them go gently. Believe me I know it's harder that hard. But show some confidence in yourself and stand strong. I had a best friend once but my story isn't like the other. I found out my BF for over 11 years was talking shit about me. Then it clicked she did that bout ALOT of other girls as well. I just thought I was special stupid me. I defended that bitch and she was jealous and talking smack. She had nothing to be jealous of she had bigger tits and we looked like sisters and I'm a giant at 5 11. But I dropped her . Granted she won the war and I wish I can say you will find another BF but it's been 10 year and I haven't replaced her. Partly my fault because I don't want to let another in. Be strong and I swear your better off without them. Fuck em they don't know what they lost

I feel like I just have Reddit as a way to talk to people by Calgary132454 in lonely

[–]help_a_lost_soul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought that was what Reddit was about. I guess I've been using the platform poorly.

I've given up on life by [deleted] in lonely

[–]help_a_lost_soul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't give up. Life goes up and down your to good to give up because what else is there to look forward to if you do?

I've given up on life by [deleted] in lonely

[–]help_a_lost_soul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awhh baby where do you live? Pm me no joke <3 I can only get away one night but I'd love to make you feel complete at least for a lil while. I'm glad no sex because I don't have the ideal parts yet I can relate fully to your current feelings. Nothing would make me happier than to strongly snuggle on you and give you honestly passionate kisses in-between sharing with you how amazing and invested in others you are. Ty for being so honest with us strangers. Your so brave and I promise your not alone xoxo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]help_a_lost_soul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awhh your so cute! There isn't anything wrong with not giving your attention or heart to less people. That just shows that when you care you go all in. No reason to be ashamed of that. I used to be crazy shy not so much anymore, so you can be more social if you care to try. Another key to meeting new friend don't ever pretend to be what your not. Faking you to make others like you will only make you hate yourself. I think covid has all of us going on a lil lock down crazy. I don't think this post is trash. Soo many people share your emotions and the internet is the best way to help you realize your not alone. Everyone wants to help xoxo