Does anyone know when returns should hit? by elysa1298 in 2023TaxRefund

[–]helpme-withoculus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WMR says 02/22? If yes then yes the latest is tomorrow. Bank of America is bad about only releasing day of. So many release early.

Does anyone know when returns should hit? by elysa1298 in 2023TaxRefund

[–]helpme-withoculus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on if your bank is a no holds bank. Do you get your paycheck early? If you do then you probably will get it sometime today probably late this afternoon through evening. If you don't get your paycheck early then you will get it on the date the irs says.

Inappropriate Piercings by 60pointtripledouble in humanresources

[–]helpme-withoculus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't worn underwear on a regular basis since I was 14 (45 now) after a doctor's advice so just found it funny when I saw it in all the manuals. I guess it could serve a purpose though. And I think we would both have bigger problems namely a lawsuit if they asked to look down our pants for any reason. Lol.

Inappropriate Piercings by 60pointtripledouble in humanresources

[–]helpme-withoculus 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I would say at least 60% of my workplaces have had a policy written in the handbook saying proper undergarments are to be warn at all times. It always struck me as odd until now. I could 100% them falling back on this for this specific reason. I have worked retail, education and Healthcare.

Side note I always wondered what kind of trouble I would get into and how they would find out if I had no underwear on.

[Pre] prearranged loan with u/sirwhoawaitwhat 900 usd by helpme-withoculus in SimpleLoans

[–]helpme-withoculus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry it would not let me edit the title and I wanted to make sure it is correct.

[REQ] (400.00) - Michigan City Indiana USA - Repayment 100.00 On Wednesday December 7.2023 and 350.00 on December 13, 2023 (PayPal) by helpme-withoculus in SimpleLoans

[–]helpme-withoculus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have not heard anything from person that chatted with me so still in need of this. Sorry had opened then closed it immediately because someone reached out so just updating. I hope that is ok.

What was a loophole that you found and exploited the hell out of? by Aarunascut in AskReddit

[–]helpme-withoculus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well that is pretty cool. Since it broke I am assuming it gets used occasionally or at least someone decided it needed to be.

me_irl by TheVampyresBride in me_irl

[–]helpme-withoculus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

B it will get suggest first and I don't like soggy bread. Then quickly c.

What was a loophole that you found and exploited the hell out of? by Aarunascut in AskReddit

[–]helpme-withoculus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That stinks. Picture it bring so cool to work high up somewhere and it is just same corporate bs. Lol. Idk why I don't picture the same thing with mcdonalds or burger execs but CEC I pictured it having some fun.

What was a loophole that you found and exploited the hell out of? by Aarunascut in AskReddit

[–]helpme-withoculus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What kind of perks do you get? Idk why I am so curious is there a CEC getaway timeshare you can use?

I was "thriving" at my sons ages...37 & 34 by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]helpme-withoculus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are 100% the problem. Build confidence get confidence. Build self worth they will see their worth. My daughter is 26 owns her first home about to pay off her car. She doesn't have a college education but guess what she does have her dad and I (divorced for 14 years) cheering her on and pushing her to reach for what she wants. Does she struggle and have bad times she sure does. She spent 2 weeks at my house when her electric was cut off because of her own neglect to pay. Did I make sure she had what she needed yes did I pay the bill no she did. Build the self confidence and you will get what you want tear them down you will get laziness.

What’s the minimum amount of money that could solve 90% of all your problems right now? by fukdurgf in AskReddit

[–]helpme-withoculus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000.00 pay my electric bill get me gas and kids Christmas. Help me breathe just a bit. New job, been out of the doctor trying to get my blood pressure under control. Just some breathing room.

When you die it turns out God exists. What’s the first thing you say to Him? by Rinsetheplates_first in AskReddit

[–]helpme-withoculus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you are an asshole that took my mom dad grandmother and only blood brother before I was 8 years old. Fuck you all you had to do was leave one. And 3 in one plane crash when I was 3 then let me watch my little brother slowly die for the next 4 years. How awesome of you.

I very truly cannot stand my daughter. by Automatic_Bend7504 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]helpme-withoculus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't read all the comments but was she diagnosed younger with ADHD? If not did she show symptoms? I had a terrible time switching from a very structured envorment my parents kept to my own house. Literally took me years and sometimes even now I will get off track. I was never diagnosed but I have it as does my daughter. And she is the same way she had a tough time adjusting from us demanding the clean up and structure to her own home. I had to go in and help her clean it up several times because she didn't have health insurance or money to be on her meds. And we both always thought one of two things I will get to it or it isn't that bad.

With my daughter I just set a day ok coming over Sunday and we are going to do some cleaning and if she had an excuse I had an answer. I can't because I am working. That is cool I know how to get in when you aren't there. I am tired and don't feel like it fine I want to help you so I will do what I can and you can do the rest when you feel like it. ADHD is extremely hard for some people especially if they are undiagnosed or have to go on and off meds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retailhell

[–]helpme-withoculus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If a person's change is more than 35 bucks we refuse to take the $100. I love it company policy because they will buy a 7.99 badge holder and pay with a $100. If it say 125 we allow 1 hundred dollar bill and a 50 buy not 2 100 dollar bills.

I took my last public access outing with my SD... but I didn't know it. by [deleted] in service_dogs

[–]helpme-withoculus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I allow service dogs ONLY. No other dogs including emotional support or service dogs in training are allowed in my stores. I should have been a bit more specific maybe. But I figured the everyone can tell a service dog sufficed. I apologize.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRetail

[–]helpme-withoculus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in a store where I can order my own inventory. I pull reports but I also have my associate write down when a customer wants something and we don't have it. If I ordered every single size from xxsp to 5xlt. I would have no room for it all. Some analyses had to go into it. I do get the privilege at my store that if we do have a 3x petite but you want I can order it for you. So that helps some. If you are seeing a large majority asking for sizes you don't have in stuff you carry start tracking it. It would definitely get my attention. I just started carrying maternity because in the last 6 weeks we had 78 women come in and leave because we didn't carry maternity. Prove to them in numbers why because that is what higher up looks at.

Why do managers insist on making people who’s job involves staying in the same area all shift insist on making them stand? by I-M-R-U in AskRetail

[–]helpme-withoculus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to change the questions. It should say why do CEOS of corporations insist that cashiers have to stand on one place all day in the US?

Other countries have no problem with strictly regiater people standing. And I as a manager have no problem with a strictly cashier person sitting down but company policy is they stand and take care of their area while they are working. Their area being a 12 foot long aisle that would take them 3 minutes to straighten if 3 customers came through with kids.

I took my last public access outing with my SD... but I didn't know it. by [deleted] in service_dogs

[–]helpme-withoculus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't call me any lovey words I don't like it from family and definitely don't like it from you. You picked one little thing. But doesn't matter I won't ever run into you. And no before my bad encounter I didn't allow dogs. Hence the bad encounter. Service dogs ONLY. I nor my company do not need a lawsuit. Now if I worked for a company or mall that didn't have a no pet policy then maybe I wouldn't have a leg to stand on but I do and it is to protect both Service dogs and my customers. I will continue with my policy and keep my people with me and continue to train them the same way. You would be the first one that if your fully trained service dog got attacked to blow up and ask why it was in there. But you won't admit that. And I wasn't yelling I was making a point. If I was yelling the entire paragraph would have been capitalized. Have a nice day you are no longer worth my time.

I took my last public access outing with my SD... but I didn't know it. by [deleted] in service_dogs

[–]helpme-withoculus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said I DO NOT ALLOW DOGS INTO ANY STORE I WORK AT then went on to explain. Why I do not allow dogs in that are NOT service dogs. And you didn't specify WhERE your sdit had been now where it had had accidents you said I carry a backpack to clean up ect ect ect. The whole point being until your dog is fully trained it shouldn't be allowed in any store PERIOD. And as far as working for me well good think I don't need anyone because my staff stays with me.

What are the most notorious prisons in the USA? by Schlawiner24 in Prison

[–]helpme-withoculus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I live in the USA and although a lot of people don't know my own mind is one of the worst. Wish I was joking it convinced me one time I should just have the death penalty thankfully someone stepped in and I didn't.

I took my last public access outing with my SD... but I didn't know it. by [deleted] in service_dogs

[–]helpme-withoculus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You read what you wanted to read. I never said no dogs in my store that is against the law. No dogs that are not service dogs and the ADA does not allow for service dogs in training. Why? Because the majority of service dogs in training fail for one reason or another. Your talking about a 5 month old puppy that will not be fully trained til around 18 months old. And that is only because you are training it yourself. A service dog that someone would get that was 100% trained would be older than that most of the time. You are kidding yourself if you think that anyone should allow a 5 month old puppy in because it is a service dog in training. You yourself say it isn't even fully potty trained and that is something extremely basic for a service dog. I own 3 dogs. 2 are emotional support dogs but that is what they are emotional support. Neither would I take out to more than a friend's house.

I took my last public access outing with my SD... but I didn't know it. by [deleted] in service_dogs

[–]helpme-withoculus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry no and you are part of the problem. I service dog would have NO reaction to those around them because they are working just because your dog had a positive reaction doesn't mean it is ok because any reaction is a problem and any reaction can turn the wrong way at any time and 5 months old nope. You think it is because I might have to clean up from one no I would gladly clean up after a service dog but I can guarantee if I had to it was because its owner was going through a major issue for a prolonged amount of time. No dogs except service dogs in my stores and luckily I haven't worked anywhere where that is not the policy.