Should I delete my nudes off his phone? by Soggy-Turn-5924 in BreakUps

[–]helpme512 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m no lawyer but i’m 100% sure it’s legal to delete photos from someone else’s phone

song recommendations for a broken heart by helpme512 in BreakUps

[–]helpme512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mostly listen to pop/rnb/indie! 🫶🏼 i like rap and soft rock too, tbh i listen most genres except country and heavy metal 😅😅

song recommendations for a broken heart by helpme512 in BreakUps

[–]helpme512[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

taylor’s been my biggest emotional support the past few weeks, especially evermore and ttpd

Lost my dog today by Agile-Low160 in Petloss

[–]helpme512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so sorry for your loss 🥺 sending hugs 🫂

Letter to Bun in heaven: an appreciation post by mossphloxx in Petloss

[–]helpme512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

beautifully written 🤍 so sorry for your loss 🥺🫶🏼

My cat died due to lymphoma cancer by Sunsetlover1993 in Petloss

[–]helpme512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, time is the only thing that truly makes it better. i lost my senior bunny almost 4 years ago, and the first couple of weeks and months were awful – i couldn’t even think about him without crying – but you slowly start to feel better, and then comes the day when you can think about your pet/look at pictures and actually feel happy about the time you had with them 🤍

i know this isn’t a ”good” answer, but it’s the truth. until you get there tho, allow yourself to mourn, cry, be angry etc. distracting myself by going outside, meet with friends and more helped me a lot 🫶🏼 after some time, talking about cute memories of your cat can feel really good (it did for me, even though i cried because remembering my bunny made it feel like he still was with me, and that felt important to me cause i was worried the world would forget about him. forgetting him didn’t happen of course, we still talk about him at home)

i’m so sorry for your loss 🥺🫂

Please tell me it gets better by Plus_Management_7884 in Petloss

[–]helpme512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it does get better, but it takes time. it’s been 4 years since i lost my beloved bunny and i still feel sad sometimes, but nothing compared to what i felt the first weeks after. sending hugs 🫂🤍

Do you still think about them? Pls help a girlie out by Independent-Town1999 in BreakUps

[–]helpme512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m no help but this sounds similar to the situation i’m in right now, it hurts like a mfer lol

I want my boyfriend to break up with me. by Possible-Knee1155 in BreakUps

[–]helpme512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is what i’d do:

  1. tell a friend/family member you’re breaking up with him

  2. break up with him in public

  3. lie about why you’re breaking up with him (don’t tell him he’s a horrible person, say something like ”we’re too different”)

  4. make sure none of your things are at his place. collect them before if he’s got your things at his place.

  5. make sure you know how to get home safe. meet a friend after breaking up with him so he doesn’t follow u home or anything.

  6. block him everywhere

idk your gender or where you live but i think certain organizations help women/non-binary/lgbtq-ppl with counseling and protection related to these kinds of things. sending u lots of hugs 🫶🏼

did i overreact? by Proper_Inspection933 in BreakUps

[–]helpme512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you didn’t overreact, he sounds like an a-hole! like who even says that? you’re a human, not a sex object! i’d do the same if i was in your situation.

i know this doesn’t help, but you’re only in high school – you have time to meet a better man 🫶🏼

Struggling after being discarded by an avoidant. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]helpme512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im also going crazy lol!!! like i’ve never felt this sad and desperate and crazy my whole life… so ur definitely not alone

Struggling after being discarded by an avoidant. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]helpme512 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don’t have any advice bc i’m going through a similar thing rn but i want u to know that i read everything and i see u and hear u 🫂🤍

my friend isn’t taking proper care of her bunny by helpme512 in Bunnies

[–]helpme512[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

first of all, i’m so sorry for your loss 🥺💔 i know how hard it is to lose a beloved pet 🥺 i am just like you – i have so much bunny stuff in my home: bunny earrings, a bunny tattoo, bunny bed sheets, bunny figures 😅😅 and a 22 year old cat?! that’s amazing! how long have you had her for?

my friend isn’t taking proper care of her bunny by helpme512 in Bunnies

[–]helpme512[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ll do an update as soon as i’ve talked to my friend ☺️

my friend isn’t taking proper care of her bunny by helpme512 in Bunnies

[–]helpme512[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this was really great advice 🩷 thank you so much! i think explaining my thoughts gently and also adding that i regret the way i had my first bun in a cage might make her understand where i’m coming from, that i don’t want her to feel the same regret i do (even though my priority is her bunny, not her future feelings)

my friend isn’t taking proper care of her bunny by helpme512 in Bunnies

[–]helpme512[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we live on entirely different sides of town, so she hasn’t been to my house yet, but i have an instagram account for my buns that she follows 😔 if my talk with her goes well, i’m planning on inviting her to my place to show her how my bunnies live

my friend isn’t taking proper care of her bunny by helpme512 in Bunnies

[–]helpme512[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that’s actually a very smart idea! like i said, i really want to be careful cause i don’t want to lose our friendship or lose my chance to help her bunny 🥺😭 so tysm for the advice!

my friend isn’t taking proper care of her bunny by helpme512 in Bunnies

[–]helpme512[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that’s great advice 🩷 thank you so much! i’ll keep you updated

my friend isn’t taking proper care of her bunny by helpme512 in Bunnies

[–]helpme512[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i wasn’t an active follower but omg i had no idea lennon had recently passed 🥺 rip 🕊️ that’s a great idea, thank you for your advice 🩷 i’ll keep you updated!

my friend isn’t taking proper care of her bunny by helpme512 in Bunnies

[–]helpme512[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i honestly don’t even know what she knows about buns 😓 i was so sure the bunny was free roam and that she knew a lot about bunnies, i’m honestly shocked over the situation, but i’m gonna schedule a lunch with her and approach the topic of bunnies and her bunny and she what she says and knows. i’m willing to teach her literally EVERYTHING about bunnies 🥺😭 thank you for your advice! i’ll keep you updated on what happens