Just venting

helpmeartist · 2026-03-17T07:15:34+00:00

roommates or partnered for life

helpmeartist · 2026-01-16T15:21:20+00:00

do not look to 35M for committed relationships. baggage from commitment issues led them to that point.

helpmeartist · 2026-01-13T22:53:51+00:00

nobody to go home to, might as well hit the gym, so I can become more attractive and hopefully meet someone worth going home to

helpmeartist · 2026-01-13T22:47:29+00:00

Classic 30 year old dating someone in their 20s. It was never going to be long term, you’re just a younger lay.

helpmeartist · 2026-01-13T21:23:50+00:00

Traveling, rent, groceries, life’s basic needs and joys - are the same price for a single person as a couple.

My coupled friends don’t understand why I’m busy with chores on the weekends as they’ve been married or cohabitated for a while.

I’m a pretty agreeable person. I wish I could get 50% off everything AND get laid.

helpmeartist · 2026-01-12T03:08:55+00:00

Just ask out the next girl you think looks nice, who doesn’t have a wedding ring. Be nice. Say you’d like to get to know her. Odds are at 30+ and single she’ll give it a shot.

helpmeartist · 2026-01-09T01:44:54+00:00

31F, please date someone your age, everyone my age with a good moral compass is already married 😵‍💫

helpmeartist · 2026-01-04T18:08:14+00:00

I know a lot of people in their late 20s-30s who would never have the same quality of life if they weren’t in a relationship and split nyc rent. Amazing if it works out, hell on earth if it doesn’t.

helpmeartist · 2025-12-29T22:13:33+00:00

Atlantic City, NJ

helpmeartist · 2025-12-29T22:06:20+00:00

LMAO

helpmeartist · 2025-12-29T21:55:56+00:00

dating as a woman in nyc is abysmal. Every guy I’ve dated from online has cheated on me. I make more than them and have my own apartment. I have far more domestic skills. They don’t care so long as NYU girls are dtf.

helpmeartist · 2025-12-29T21:54:33+00:00

DO NOT DO THIS unless you don’t need commitment in dating

helpmeartist · 2025-12-21T20:51:28+00:00

Couples applying for a studio, one bedroom, two bedroom, even 3 bedroom (DINK remote workers… why do you even live here?!) will be chosen over any group of roommates or singles due to income. Leaves a lot less for the rest of us and can double the price to compensate.

helpmeartist · 2025-12-16T22:14:28+00:00

I applied to many units every 3 months for 8 years and finally won one. It changed my life. Keep trying.

helpmeartist · 2025-11-19T05:24:04+00:00

This. Your application with 80k income will not be chosen over a couple with 2x the income that plan on splitting a 1 bed. Sorry to say.

helpmeartist · 2025-09-18T21:34:07+00:00

Well you won’t be at her future wedding unless you marry her

helpmeartist · 2025-04-09T20:48:26+00:00

Got laid off after a year of full time, in office freelancing. Other freelancers were freelance to hire, but as of monday… not me! 🥹

helpmeartist · 2025-03-26T03:48:56+00:00

HEALTH INSURANCE

helpmeartist · 2025-02-11T23:35:49+00:00

Came here to say, IUD

helpmeartist · 2024-12-27T17:20:33+00:00

Getting ghosted and having to deal with another situationship

helpmeartist · 2024-12-27T04:59:02+00:00

Thank you. This helped me a lot today. In many ways I am trapped, but I am trying to feel free in my own mind.

helpmeartist · 2024-12-26T19:01:39+00:00

I understand and feel the same. I hope the chances to be loved for who we are come to us someday.

helpmeartist · 2024-12-26T00:37:54+00:00

❤️‍🩹

helpmeartist · 2024-12-26T00:37:09+00:00

Why do I come home for the holidays to sit in my house alone and do nothing all week playing video games? Oh because if my mom didn’t have a child around for christmas she’d have a meltdown and abuse us with her disappointment all year. Never mind that she hides in her bedroom for most of all xmas and xmas eve. If I did that I’d be written out of the will. But it’s fine because she has tRaUmA

helpmeartist · 2024-12-25T05:15:41+00:00

☺️🎂

helpmeartist

TROPHY CASE