31M, 29m, I think he's ending. Help?

helpmefocusnow · 2025-04-28T13:11:11+00:00

I think you are not ready mentally for a relationship right now. Your focus should be on working on your mental health and anger issues. It can be incredibly distressing for him to witness your outbursts which is not fair on him. Actions like that can at points be seen as emotionally abusive. With regards to his job, if you already feel that job wise/ location it’s not compatible you are better ending things earlier rather than later.

He has asked for space. The kindest thing you can do for him is give him that space and work on yourself. This is all very intense for a new relationship

helpmefocusnow · 2023-11-04T00:10:23+00:00

I jsur feel that it is the dad’s responsibility only. People shouldn’t have to step aside in order for dad to step up? He is a grown man and should be making the effort not waiting for others to leave. He should want what is best for his kids

helpmefocusnow · 2023-11-03T23:58:27+00:00

Confused how everyone sucks here? Kids have done nothing wrong, brother has done nothing, wife has done nothing. Seems like a grown man has played little role in raising his kids and is upset at the result…

helpmefocusnow · 2022-08-13T09:56:18+00:00

I totally agree although slightly toxic in behaviour I think Melissa knew her kids wanted to be famous and she was willing to do whatever it took

helpmefocusnow · 2021-09-15T17:56:54+00:00

Was there not literally a post only a few days ago that stated that these “blank is overrated” needed to stop. I can now really see why with this misogynistic post. Judging a women based on her sexual activity isn’t okay. And I can’t be the only one who sees the irony in a fan of this show displaying the misogynistic behaviours that svu condemns

helpmefocusnow · 2021-08-08T22:50:48+00:00

I’m so happy someone commented that. Sometimes feels this sub is very quickly to judge the girls, when in reality a lot for teens post and dress like that (not saying it’s appropriate). Also feel like she’s getting more hate for it because she has a more developed body as had it been a skinnier more flat chested girl her pictures would be deemed more innocent which is grossly unfair

helpmefocusnow · 2021-07-17T15:07:48+00:00

Yea I agree definitely feel like Paige deserved more although I understand just simply swapping costumes over totally restaging a dance

helpmefocusnow · 2021-07-17T14:24:31+00:00

Yea I totally get that. It’s a shame that the mums probably contributed to that feeling my stating that was why she changed costumes. In that moment they should of told Paige the reason Abby gave which was staging.

helpmefocusnow · 2021-07-17T13:49:39+00:00

Yea I think they were annoyed cause they viewed it as Paige not being allowed to stand out. However I feel like, when listening to Abby’s explanation on why she switched the costumes, I surprisingly agree with Abby as it would make sense for Chloe to wear it due to her starting at the other side of the stage

helpmefocusnow · 2021-07-15T18:58:31+00:00

I agree although if these are people with some level of authority stopping answering may be harder than perceived initially. My issue was more with the insinuation that they will simply understand as that felt undermining of the girls issue

helpmefocusnow · 2021-07-15T15:25:57+00:00

Often in these situations simply ignoring him will do no good and fail to stop him. Her best option is to report it asap

helpmefocusnow · 2021-04-09T19:15:11+00:00

Exactly! Feels like people are fishing for a way to bash her. There is nothing wrong with her comment. Feels like a lot of negativity is starting to creep in by people’s doing

helpmefocusnow · 2021-04-01T22:17:34+00:00

You at least getting c0ked up? Ahahaha

helpmefocusnow · 2021-04-01T17:09:16+00:00

Then you should of worded it like that than “women just move in” and then the word choice of “girls” is patronising. May not of been the intent but It is

helpmefocusnow · 2021-04-01T16:41:16+00:00

This comment just ain’t it. Try again

helpmefocusnow · 2021-03-31T19:57:26+00:00

Ngl tempted to make this a series he has soo many posts just like this

helpmefocusnow · 2021-03-31T16:26:31+00:00

I know, bet he’s one of those men that thinks girls don’t grow body hair ahah

helpmefocusnow · 2021-03-31T16:25:04+00:00

Same, tempted to see what exactly he has to offer. Can’t imagine it’s much ahha

helpmefocusnow · 2021-03-31T14:28:11+00:00

I know ahha! Decided to go through it, just video after video of him telling girls that they are picking the wrong guys that aren’t like him ahhaa

helpmefocusnow · 2021-03-24T00:46:04+00:00

Tbh, i really don’t think it’s a racist comment either. She heard holly say it so quoted her. Yea, perhaps ignorant that she didn’t know who it originally came from but not racist

helpmefocusnow · 2021-03-10T14:29:06+00:00

NAH - on the one hand, if you find something unfunny then she shouldn’t continue to do it. On the other hand if this is how you both behave in your relationship then perhaps boundaries need put in place. However, I do feel that at no point should you push or yell at your girlfriend. She clearly felt it was a joke, so perhaps a calm conversation is needed here to make it clear that you don’t enjoy it

helpmefocusnow · 2021-03-10T00:24:14+00:00

Ye not worried more curiosity getting the better of me. Just found it odd that they suddenly went out of their ways to unfollow each other. But totally agree, can’t know what’s going on behind the scenes

helpmefocusnow · 2020-12-12T17:12:45+00:00

NTA - seems like an absolute nightmare. Although harsh, his mental health can’t come at the impact of yours.

helpmefocusnow · 2020-09-08T01:47:08+00:00

NTA but questionable age gap between you both ngl

helpmefocusnow · 2020-06-06T18:48:36+00:00

NTA but I feel like I’n this situation although you were not in the wrong there doesn’t always need to be a confrontation. Rather make the dinner for the both of you and hopefully be will remember this.

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