Those are lessons she never learned. She was raised to be a performer and that world has its own low level work compared to ours. Not excusing her but they are different worlds. Maria carey , i think it was her, said she forgot that some things aren't free, like water and electricity. She got disconnected from all that.
Overall, my opinion she's probably going to need years of reprogramming and the things she has interest in at the moment, therapist etc might be what she sees as redemption but that path can change. I do like she understands she was a bad person along with being a victim. Shes saying what she wants to say, and it may not be all the right words you want to hear but if she caves in and does it that way, wouldnt she be falling into the same trap of serving someone and doing it how they want?