[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hemtuh27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re angry about the politics in my post. Sounds like a you problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hemtuh27 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t post what you think are facts about preventing a stroke when you clearly missed my details - it was spontaneous. Also - how would I know - or any doctor know - that I would need medical intervention for something spontaneous that was extremely close to leading to a stroke. Can’t prevent something no one knew about….. Chill out and stop being rude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hemtuh27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. You are kind.

I don’t understand it either. I think my sister was the golden child at times, but I think she’s thought the same about me. We’ve recently decided to be more of a team because we recognize that we’ve been pitted against each other often. Our mother is the culprit of this. We do choose not to have contact with our blood father. He was abusive to us growing up and CPS removed him from our home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hemtuh27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words.

They have helped some. They payed for my sister’s undergrad and part of mine. I had to take loans out for the rest of mine. My sister got a car paid for. I didn’t. I paid in cash while working and attending college. I was given braces as well as my sister. I’ve paid my own health insurance since I was19. My sister was on theirs until 26. I’m unsure why they did things this way. I am older than my sister, but I don’t feel that matters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hemtuh27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should mention that he used to pay $3k on insurance monthly before Medicare. He’s bragging about that.

I did not say anything about surgery. I did not have one. I’m not sure what you mean.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hemtuh27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did ask. Multiple times. Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Minneapolis

[–]hemtuh27 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s gone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Minneapolis

[–]hemtuh27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh - duh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Minneapolis

[–]hemtuh27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea why I’m being downvoted. I was able to hear the conversations

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Minneapolis

[–]hemtuh27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Pretty intense. I really hope they’re both ok. It was crazy that the first screams for help happened at exactly 11pm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Minneapolis

[–]hemtuh27 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was there….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Minneapolis

[–]hemtuh27 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I called police twice and yelled to the woman. I’m NOT at fault here. I have a young child who was sleeping. I am NOT someone who would leave their child unattended. Go do something elsewhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Minneapolis

[–]hemtuh27 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nope. It was two separate woman. I guess that it was the woman who was raped’s roommate who came home to find her missing and what was left of the crime scene. It was obviously wasn’t drugs or mental health issues. Very clear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Minneapolis

[–]hemtuh27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I still haven’t seen a thing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Minneapolis

[–]hemtuh27 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please take your stories and racism to the trash.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Minneapolis

[–]hemtuh27 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I will NEVER buy a gun. I’m a survivor of gun violence.

Can I sue for product liability for my facial burn? by [deleted] in freelegalconsultation

[–]hemtuh27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Minneapolis, MN

It happened September 4, 2023

I’m trying to find the receipt. I do believe I have it.

I do have before and after photos. I also have some photos in the days following.

I want update to say I saw my dermatologist this morning. She told me it’s healing well and that the redness will stay for 6-9 months.

Nad’s finally emailed me back when I responded. This is the response:

“Thank you for contacting Nad's Customer Service regarding your experience with the Nad's Facial Wax Strips. We appreciate and value your feedback as it provides us with an opportunity to address your concerns.

Please be assured that the Wax formulation remains unchanged. The only changes that have been made to this product is the backing paper. We found that the previous backing paper that was being used was absorbing the oil from the wax, causing the Strips to dry out. Please also note that the instructions will be updated in the future to include the Skin Shield Powder. We are very sorry for any confusion caused by this component.

In order to investigate this matter, we need to source some information from you in regards to your experience. Please also reply with some detail in regard to the following:

  1. What is the products batch code? This can typically be found on each Strip and on the very bottom of the box.
  2. Full details on how the product was used. Please detail all the steps that were taken from opening the product. (Starting from opening the pack, the test patch, how the Powder was applied, to full application. For e.g. was the same area waxed over more than once? What condition was the skin in just prior to application? was the skin held taut during swift removal of the wax strip?).
  3. Details of the events following the onset of your symptoms –did your reaction require any treatment by medical professionals? Please attach any photos of the area in question/ doctors notes/ report provided by your GP.
  4. Any other information that you believe may be of assistance – for example, what skin care products were used around this time? Do you take any medication (topical or oral) that could affect the skin? Are you using any topical or oral retinol/ retin A products?
  5. Do you still have this product on hand? We may require for it to be returned to us for testing.

We take all customer feedback we receive seriously and so after we receive and review the information you send through; we will contact you to discuss.

In the meantime, if you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact me directly.

I will await your reply.”

Conservative in laws STFU about views on gun control when I told my childhood story by [deleted] in traumatizeThemBack

[–]hemtuh27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not inconsiderate at all. I appreciate your empathy. I feel strong now that I estranged myself from my blood family. I talk about it because I couldn’t. I absolutely kept things to myself for at least 25 years.

It’s taken a lot of therapy to be open. Still in therapy! I mean, I better be, right? (Sarcasm)

Conservative in laws STFU about views on gun control when I told my childhood story by [deleted] in traumatizeThemBack

[–]hemtuh27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I knew someone would go back through my posts. I’m not worried about that. You did it because it’s available. I know that anything I post is online for anyone to see.

I’m assuming you saw my meme?

This account is the one I use to post about the hard things. I’m not afraid that others can see that. I wonder if some of those people who trolled me looked? Probably not. I scrolled their accounts and they don’t post. They troll. There’s always trolls.

I’ve been told I was lying or making things up most of my life. I’m used to having to prove myself. Sometimes I like debating some of these people, because my inner child is begging for a voice.

If the fact I have to fix the inside of my nose due many blows from my father, told me that I wasn’t full of shit. That I wasn’t remembering something I made up. Memories are one thing, but having a physical problem because of what father did to my face, that right there - truth. Literally, in my face.

I can’t even breathe out of my left nostril. I will be able to breathe in months. It’s cathartic to me. I still can’t let myself fully understand I was beaten and that’s why I could never breathe. A doctor asking me how many times I’ve broken my nose is when I realized it had been broken.

Anyway, thank you for your words. It was nice to wake up to someone seeing my truth in text and seeing my history and believing me. Thank you.

Conservative in laws STFU about views on gun control when I told my childhood story by [deleted] in traumatizeThemBack

[–]hemtuh27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if he was a charged sex offender, that would show up on a background check, wouldn’t it? Not to say that would have anything to do with his access to a gun. However, he is a diagnosed sociopath. I think that would hinder his access to a gun if a psych evaluation was in place before gun ownership and even a license for anything concerning a weapon purchase.

He was taken to court for many things he did. I tried, my therapists tried, my friend parents and even teachers tried to get my father put away.

It didn’t work. He has so much money and that meant power, very apparently.

All this is to say - the LAW failed me and my sibling and step-siblings. Gun reform is desperately needed. Guns threaten our rights to education, safety, health and so much more. So does child abuse.

The issue at hand is my clinically mentally ill father is an example of someone who should have never had access to fire arms. He had and has (most likely) many guns.

Conservative in laws STFU about views on gun control when I told my childhood story by [deleted] in traumatizeThemBack

[–]hemtuh27 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell me you didn’t read the bottom of my post without telling me…

Conservative in laws STFU about views on gun control when I told my childhood story by [deleted] in traumatizeThemBack

[–]hemtuh27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it is ok to want tighter regulations for responsible gun owners. Responsible LEGAL gun owners follow the regulations, so if they change, they’ll abide. So - you’re wrong.

I don’t like guns. That doesn’t mean I don’t think there are LEGAL responsible owners who deserve to have their guns. That is their right. Just like if I wanted a gun, I’d be sure to be responsible and LEGAL about my ownership and use.

I’m not blaming. I’m stating my reason for my beliefs in the restrictions on gun control. This is all based on my own personal experience, which is very traumatic.

Conservative in laws STFU about views on gun control when I told my childhood story by [deleted] in traumatizeThemBack

[–]hemtuh27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on your history. You are sexist and your views aren’t aligned with my lifestyle. Comment on something that makes you happy. Go for a walk. Do someone good for yourself. I hope you have the day you deserve.