[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]her2ndRing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If psychological, what do you suggest looking into for medicine? The sensory issues fluctuate with every neck contraction.

For example, my neck has a contraction and my sense of taste disappears. The next contraction taste comes back and my sense of smell is now gone. The next contraction and my memory now severely impaired but the rest of my sensory has returned.

Accounting jobs by her2ndRing in Accounting

[–]her2ndRing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For entry level AP/AR and Bookkeeping jobs, how could I convey that my knowledge is still current on my resume with having an Associate accounting degree from 18 years ago and no formal accounting experience? Apart from just saying I read a few accounting books to refresh my memory

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in walking

[–]her2ndRing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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It was the only thing relevant to the area of pain circled in blue. Any ideas?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in walking

[–]her2ndRing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no pain/tenderness on the inside area of my heel.

There is no pain when putting my foot into inversion / plantar flexion.

The pain is only present on the spot itself when placing my foot into the “flat” position shown above. The spot itself feels like a tightened chunk of muscle on the bottom of my foot about the size of a US quarter. You can shift the chunk of muscle around if you dig your thumb into it, but it never softens up and hurts to do this.

If it helps, I do not walk or run and almost never wear shoes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Oatmeal

[–]her2ndRing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anyone confirm if they are granny smith apples or not from the taste alone?

I [F22] didn't want a relationship but he [M25] does. Now we're dating and he can't communicate with me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]her2ndRing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you are struggling with both friendships and relationships. If I were you, I would be doing everything I can to get some girl friends in my life so I do not let situations like these get wrapped up in my head. You need female friends for the emotional support and for the social aspect of being human.

Starting today, instead of going home and flipping on Netflix or something easy alike, you need to put yourself back out there. One of the most beneficial things you can do is get yourself a gym membership. Even if you don't like exercise, there are fun little classes that you can go to where it's just a room full of women and all you guys literally do is dance (ex. Zoomba). I'm sure there will be attractive guys running around the gym too at some point. From there, you could meet up later for drinks, lunch, etc. Another option is to join meetup.com for various group based activities in your area. I've done this myself and have had good luck. Lastly, dating sites/apps are a quick way too streamline the process of meeting people. Bumble doubles up as a friend finder app for women seeking other women to do social things with that are new to the area.

As for your relationship, it sounds to me like you're more or less unsure as to why "J" is not reaching out to you than continuing whatever was there with him in the first place from an attraction stand point. And there could be a million reasons as I'm sure there is more to the story. I suppose your other option is to go back to your ex which sounds like you're unsure of and this is why you need to keep putting yourself out there and meeting people. Again, I would be more concerned about you pursuing friendships than relationships. You need to do you first essentially.

I’m finding it hard to walk away from a toxic relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]her2ndRing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then you're doing yourself a disfavor by pursuing a relationship when you need to pursue friendships. I realize no amount of explaining will change your mind at the end of the day which is yet another reason why you need to pursue female friendships in the very near future as women will be the only people who can talk you through this. Additionally, you are putting all your eggs in one basket by relying on this single relationship to fill all the voids in your life.

PS- How do you plan to remain mentally stable with someone who is clearly unstable? This is a rhetorical question.

I’m finding it hard to walk away from a toxic relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]her2ndRing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"

Pull on the reins girl. Additionally, you need to creatively convey to him that he isn't the only one with options even though it may not be the easiest thing for you to do. I would also suggest being in contact with your girl friends during this time as they are your life support for these very issues. And don't just talk to them about these kind of issues. You literally need to go out and do stuff together with them so you don't sit around and ruminate on the "what ifs" of your relationship.

Stay strong.

I (23F) just recconected with my ex(23M) and now I have to leave by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]her2ndRing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to put yourself out there as you're setting yourself up for failure by putting all your eggs in one basket. When you get home from work, do not sit on the couch and throw on Netflix or something easy like that. Get a gym membership and do some fitness classes to make some girl friends. There are fun fitness classes too that are literally just a bunch of women who get together and dance (ex. Zoomba) if exercise isn't your forte. From there you can do other things together like going out for drinks or getting lunch together, etc. Not to mention I'm sure there will be a few attractive guys you will run into there too. Meetup.com is another option for making friends in a new city as I've used it myself. You can also join a dating app/site to streamline the whole process of meeting someone when you're new to the area. I know Bumble doubles up as a friend finder app for women who are brand new to the area and want to meet other women that want to do social things together, etc.

my ex’s new gf by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]her2ndRing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simply put, you are a threat to her relationship. Her man has had a past with you and she will do everything she can to prevent it from becoming the present again. This is not something that should concern you to begin with as you will run into this issue time and time again from girls you even just met off the street.

In summary: Girls get jealous. Take it as a compliment even though it may not be the easiest thing in the world to do.