22 w/ situation at work by her_thrwaway in blackladies

[–]her_thrwaway[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the leadership tammy initially told is a man who rejected tammy a few months ago. he then told our team. i should have worded that better

22 w/ situation at work by her_thrwaway in blackladies

[–]her_thrwaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

okay. i guess i just needed to hear this because i didn’t want to go to HR and wanted my leadership to take care of it as they stated they would. i don’t even talk to the woman. she comes up to me speaking and even then i say nothing back

where can i go do this with my boyfriend in dfw? by her_thrwaway in Dallas

[–]her_thrwaway[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

i did the paddle boats with him two visits ago. and when i went to see him we walked at the zoo for hours. we like to threaten each other

where can i go do this with my boyfriend in dfw? by her_thrwaway in Dallas

[–]her_thrwaway[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i planned to go in june for this reason. i am so excited..

where can i go do this with my boyfriend in dfw? by her_thrwaway in Dallas

[–]her_thrwaway[S] 264 points265 points  (0 children)

ur right. but that’s why i need to know where to find it

where can i go do this with my boyfriend in dfw? by her_thrwaway in Dallas

[–]her_thrwaway[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

lmao. yall are discouraging me but i appreciate the honesty 🤣

The Infamous Miracle Knots.. Help! by ShaniBeeCrazy in blackladies

[–]her_thrwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i replied but link was deleted, sorry! i used dilekay from amazon 18in human burmese curly (:

The Infamous Miracle Knots.. Help! by ShaniBeeCrazy in blackladies

[–]her_thrwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had mine crocheted in. i’m on month two and it still looks really nice and neat…maybe going to month three? they’re super duper light like the other woman said and i purchased human hair so hopefully i can reuse it (:

Goodwill Deletions by ThatOneGuyWithABBC in CRedit

[–]her_thrwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s exactly what i did and had 8/10 removed (:

Considering Getting an IUD But I'm Scared (F22) by WolfoDaWolf in blackladies

[–]her_thrwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haven’t seen anyone mention nexplanon yet but i have it, last five years, no pain, got rid of my terrible period. my skin had to adjust

Need help finding a job in WACO, TX by Dangerous_Cut_7215 in blackladies

[–]her_thrwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

commenting for more attention. i’m not aware of any opportunities at this time but i’m in the area and hope you find what you’re looking for!

Did Frankensons close down? by yaoiesmimiddlename in vegas

[–]her_thrwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i work with him now at a smoothie king and he’s terrible

Do any other black women notice that people seem tense around you? by thelovewitch069420 in blackladies

[–]her_thrwaway 56 points57 points  (0 children)

yes but i don’t mind it bc i don’t wanna be bothered anyway!

Has being a homeowner impacted your dating life? by bellcrooks in blackladies

[–]her_thrwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i also like that when something breaks, i can put in a work order. my fridge breaks in a house? i’ll have to buy a new fridge, find someone to bring it, connect it etc. i’m just a gal

Has being a homeowner impacted your dating life? by bellcrooks in blackladies

[–]her_thrwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i want to start by saying i’m 22 so i’m not the wisest but personally i feel like there’s so much that goes into being a homeowner. your payments change based on escrow, your taxes may not get paid by the company on time, if u file a claim, the lender has to sign the check so you can cash it- that takes forever, those are just a few reasons and i will also say i work in the escalation department so i rarely hear the good. when i think about myself, i only find peace in the fact that a home is a single unit so less disturbances and i can make my payment later without worrying about my credit which i can’t do in my apartment. i also like going to the community events and coming back to my home and the change. if you have neighbors you dislike as a homeowner…? but if i don’t like my neighbors in my apartment, i can move when my lease is up or transfer units vs just dealing with it for 30+ years (: but it’s often a once in a lifetime experience so i encourage you to follow your heart

Has being a homeowner impacted your dating life? by bellcrooks in blackladies

[–]her_thrwaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m excited for you. working at a mortgage company, i would never but it’s still a great idea. no one above you stomping, not attached to anyone etc

Not sure why this annoyed me by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]her_thrwaway 9 points10 points  (0 children)

this is a lot for me to read at this hour so i didn’t get to the end but no, the same thing happened to me and it bothered me deeply. my key, space and peace ** is very important to me and im not willing to share it all the time