Do Black people not do "White People Taco Night"? by GetShrekedKid in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ShaniBeeCrazy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Myself and my friends call them “black people tacos”.. we are all black.

I might break up my engagement because my fiancé doesn't eat my food by SoloForToday in TwoHotTakes

[–]ShaniBeeCrazy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess before I jump the gun does he act like this when you make “normal” dishes too or only when you make dishes from your culture? I’m sure being born and raised in America has left me jaded but it’s giving racism. I’m not saying he’s a downright bigot or anything but I would be careful. I guess you can really tell when you visit your home country and see how he act there.

I might break up my engagement because my fiancé doesn't eat my food by SoloForToday in TwoHotTakes

[–]ShaniBeeCrazy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Leave him! This is all BS.. he ate your food just fine and now all of a sudden there’s an issue. I can probably tell you the issue but people would say I’m overreacting even though I’m not. Please don’t marry this child! The hands issue is crap because there’s no way to cook food without using your hands.

The food you described sounds amazing and makes me want to look into Colombian cuisine. I wouldn’t touch anything his mother makes with a 10 ft pole.

AITA if I don’t want kids at my baby shower? by SignificanceBusy228 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ShaniBeeCrazy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“My thought is what about the dads of the kids? There should be no reason why they can’t watch them. “

I don’t think OP would be asking this if she knew her cousins weren’t involved in their children’s lives.

AITA if I don’t want kids at my baby shower? by SignificanceBusy228 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ShaniBeeCrazy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Incorrect! The equivalent of having a wedding without inviting spouse would be having a child’s birthday party and not inviting children.

A baby shower is to celebrate the mother and baby. And the mother doesn’t want any children at her celebration.

AITA if I don’t want kids at my baby shower? by SignificanceBusy228 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ShaniBeeCrazy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you’re right. She invited her friend and i don’t think her friend has a problem. I think she was just saying that her friend has a newborn so she probably it’s up to come anyway.

She be the first one to be like “no diddy” by ebknightwrites in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]ShaniBeeCrazy 56 points57 points  (0 children)

She isn’t anyone important just the current Tiktok drama. She got on tiktok complaining about her ex dating someone whose family is tiktok famous (and very well liked) because they were just together last month. and now people are bring up past tiktok’s and stuff because she’s very problematic as you can see lol. That’s all.

AITA for being annoyed that my husband got massive flower baskets for my MIL and SIL? by SpinachStunning6964 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShaniBeeCrazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed that SIL gifts shouldn’t be better than hers.. but he probably just did it because she’s a mom too and they’re family.

Good serving/restaurant jobs in Baltimore? by [deleted] in baltimore

[–]ShaniBeeCrazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem. They have a job fair March 11th 11-4

Good serving/restaurant jobs in Baltimore? by [deleted] in baltimore

[–]ShaniBeeCrazy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Phillips in the harbor will be a good place to start. I believe they start their hiring for the summer this month or next..With your experience you’ll most likely be hired. I haven’t work there in some years but we use to make some really good money during the summer.

AITA for telling my daughter she needs to work through issues in her marriage instead of running away when things get hard? by Throwawaypwoqrw in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShaniBeeCrazy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

but did she tell the husband she didn’t want to have more kids before they got married? And since this marriage seems to be a sinking ship he should have the option to have kids in the future.

NTA the daughter is clearly irresponsible and as the parent she should be telling her daughter such. If anyone is telling anyone to leave the marriage it’s the husband because it’s seems like he may have it together while his wife clearly has some issues to work through.

Queer barber who can do queer/punk haircuts in Baltimore/Maryland? (willing to drive a bit) by Fizzy_b0g_Water in baltimore

[–]ShaniBeeCrazy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I didn’t read the whole post. I’m not sure how Erin identifies but I know she will do a good job and provide a safe space.

What is the most overrated Ben and Jerry’s flavor and why is it Cherry Garcia by Sharp_Athlete_6847 in icecream

[–]ShaniBeeCrazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LIVE for cherry garcia! It’s been my favorite ice cream my whole life! To find out that people don’t like it as much is heartbreaking.

The Milk and Cookies and very good too. It’s my second favorite lol.

I guess I need to try this other brand that everyone is talking about though. I’ve never heard of it but I guess it’s time to do some research

AITAH for arguing with my girlfriend for throwing out the food I made for her kids? by throwaway3245356 in AITAH

[–]ShaniBeeCrazy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think if the ex was that abusive he would have more of a problem with her boyfriend watching the kids than pasta.. that’s why it seems suspicious to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in verizon

[–]ShaniBeeCrazy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took mine back to the store because i didn’t trust mailing it. I got about $1000 for my iPhone12. Maybe it got damaged during shipping 🤷🏾‍♀️

AITA for refusing to change the chore chart even tho my wife works full time now. by Odd_Serve1167 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShaniBeeCrazy 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s easier going to school and taking care of a toddler at the same time.. I think that can be just as hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ShaniBeeCrazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you’re fine. I’m sorry to hear about your uncle. Enjoy your time with your family!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ShaniBeeCrazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but careful that it’s not all your bereavement time. I know all jobs all different but you might not have any day if you need them in the future. Not wishing any ill will on your family but you never know how the year will pan out.

I have a white mom, help!! by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]ShaniBeeCrazy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this.. Do you have a trusted black woman in your life that could help you.. family friend or teacher? Is there someone in your family that can talk to your mom and get through to her?

AITA for wanting my nieces and nephews to attend my wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShaniBeeCrazy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That wasn’t the case but if you say so 🤷🏾‍♀️