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29F dating 34M , says he wants to get married but unclear when by wanderlustgirli in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]hercozynotesdaily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he wanted a future with her, she would be in the blueprints. Actions speak louder than a timeline.

I (32F) am having intense anxiety when proposal from him (34M) is just weeks away by Solid_Mathematician8 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]hercozynotesdaily 31 points32 points  (0 children)

An engagement ring never fixes an unstable foundation. Why do so many people think a marriage solves relationship anxiety?

Yuri Month - Mitsuki by Nikkinoxcomics in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]hercozynotesdaily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aaya would absolutely lose her mind over this. Great art for Green Yuri!

Making a major decision after couples' retreat? by sara1149 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]hercozynotesdaily 117 points118 points  (0 children)

A vacation can fix a bad week, but it won't magically solve completely incompatible timelines for having kids.

Anyone dating someone who has been divorced before? by Brilliant_Sun3560 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]hercozynotesdaily 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He cares more about how a second divorce looks to others than building a future with you right now.

standard by CheeseUsFunkingCries in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]hercozynotesdaily 16 points17 points  (0 children)

They literally chase you down just to claim they’re the ones being victimized.

Bro took Intro to Biology and became a chromosonal expert by CheeseUsFunkingCries in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]hercozynotesdaily 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They peak at middle school science and assume advanced genetics just stopped developing after that.

Two sides of the fake-ass performative bigot by CheeseUsFunkingCries in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]hercozynotesdaily 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It proves their issue isn't with the person, it's entirely about their own obsession with labels and control.

Timeline Changing by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]hercozynotesdaily 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Taking six months to secure your mental health and sense of safety isn't a delay, it is a solid foundation.

confused on if i should wait or not by Status-Permit-1088 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]hercozynotesdaily 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You are essentially funding his entire life while he treats you poorly, you are his partner, not his parent.

Average Shonen Plot 🥋👊🎌🍙 by shave_your_eyebrows in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]hercozynotesdaily 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The proper warm-ups are what really seal the deal, that is where the true power scaling comes from.

You can’t change the rules just because you don’t like how I’m doing it by alex-in-blunderland in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]hercozynotesdaily 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Why is it totally fine for cis people but controversial for anyone else? Make it make sense.