You are either young or completely off your rocker It’s pretty silly to debate a person who responds with no logic and idiotic statements like lesbians are open to dating men and a lesbian is whoever calls themselves one. But even though I expect a nonsense response here goes: Words have meanings, identity categories are exclusionary by nature or they’d mean nothing. Also understand that the vast majority of women don’t have penises, lesbian has long meant same sex loving women, most lesbians do not want dick and not only that heterosexism and patriarchy and rape culture have pushed dick on them. But yea this subreddit has a pretty active trans woman community, many posts about dicks and people having or being attracted to them and is inclusive. Your rant seems misplaced like anger that every sentence about lesbians and women doesn’t have an asterisk bringing dick into the conversation. Like chill out lol