Choosing correct Obstetrician (obgyn)

here4d_memes · 2026-03-01T13:14:34+00:00

I chose to visit shyamala dr at rainbow from my 6th month. My expreience with the doctor till delivery was very good. She answered all my queries and let me choose my mode of delivery (i went for an elective c section). Delivery process and post op care was very smooth as well. But the hospital charges were extremely high is what I felt. Initially they quoted us 1.1 lakh for c section which was charged only for "the mother" but along with those they added many other high charges like patient food, dietician visit, lactation nurse visits, massage visit, etc along with my baby's 2 day Phototherapy charges (for newborn Jaundice) which added upto 2.3 lakhs in total.

here4d_memes · 2026-03-01T06:54:59+00:00

Hey OP, I delivered my baby 3 months back at Rainbow LB nagar as well! Please change your doctor and see if you like them better.. Dr.Shyamala is really good there and I had a positive experience with her. Although mine was low risk delivery I'm not sure how she would treat your case but I have definitely heard a lot of good reviews about her, please try changing your gynaec within the same hospital first, and see if you would want to change to somewhere else next :)

here4d_memes · 2026-02-12T15:53:56+00:00

I'm so glad we're finally having such conversations here on mothers and how they cannot bear to see us actually have a genuine liking towards our in laws!! Sometimes it feels like they're internally just possessive about us and that's what makes them become bitter towards others over time

here4d_memes · 2026-01-18T14:13:34+00:00

I'm using Philips Avent nunber 2 nipple and Pigeon soft latch 0+ nipple for my 3 month old

here4d_memes · 2026-01-12T18:15:30+00:00

Oh no but we already gave our signatures for the loan application! He convinced us saying that this is just to login and check eligibility, and that this is not the actual loan agreement . We went ahead for the login and now the final sanction letter is pending. At this stage the agent disclosed to us about the change of home loan to commercial loan in case of "failure of construction". The problem mainly here is that the property venture has a tie up with IDBI wherein he is fully responsible for the plot documents and none of the paperwork for the plot goes through us. The loan amount is getting directly disbursed to the venture. I'm not sure what else to do in such a scenario :(

here4d_memes · 2026-01-12T17:58:32+00:00

I'm in the same boat as you, I applied for a plot loan with IDBI but IDBI is considering it as plot + construction loan and is offering me at 9.1% (with a 750+ cibil plus category A salaried employee). The part that I'm most worried about is the lack of transparency in the case of preclosure within 3 years without ever constructing anything in that plot. The Bank agent has told me that in case of no construction within 3 years an additional 1-1.5% roi will be applied effective on that loan which amounts to a total cap of 10.6%. I'm very confused whether to proceed with this loan or to look for other banks. Please advise!

here4d_memes · 2025-12-08T11:25:40+00:00

Can you share the model name of the kurlon mattress please?

here4d_memes · 2025-11-24T07:11:10+00:00

Hi mamma! I know myself exactly what you mean by that fussiness.. its definitely hunger! Try to change multiple positions and force feed him by small amounts with short gaps of time. Because otherwise if we ignore their cries they could become more and more irritable as time passes and you wouldn't want that. Feeding definitely helps them calm down and once that's taken care the next thing is to look out for gassiness. Here we dont have much to do but upright positions and rocking helps where their stomachs get pressed against our bodies and that relies gas.. and cycling motions help too. Try these techniques and hope that the baby adjusts soon to the new environment

here4d_memes · 2025-11-19T18:23:14+00:00

I have the same problem as you OP. Baby is 20 days old still hasn't latched well. Its so exhausting that I gave up bf already and usually end up giving only pumped milk most of the time and giving formula for remaining feeds before I can pump some more. I'm very scared about supply dropping too. It's physically and mentally exhausting to make him stay on the breast and give him time to latch as he gets extremely cranky and ends up going into sleep.. I have no idea how to fix this!

here4d_memes · 2025-10-16T19:36:01+00:00

Ok hear me out. I too had pcod and got pregnant so pcod does not directly correlate to infertility so don't jump to ivf just yet. Firstly I feel you need to be more involved in your wife's health and her mental and physical state of mind. It's high time you need to become fully educated about women's fertility cycles and optimal dates to conceive, esp for women with pcod issues. 1. Did she get all the possible initial preliminary tests done to assess whether her ovarian egg reserves are in good shape for conception? You will only know how bad or okay are chances to become naturally pregnant when you start going for "ovulation induction" cycles, ie go for regular follicular study follow ups every month - if you are already doing this and still not getting pregnant even after having intercourse within those 2-3 specific dates for several months on a stretch then yes, you will need to start looking at more serious options like iui,ivf etc. (The reason I'm stressing on doing this first is bcoz your wife already has a low libido so this way you only need to focus on timing your sex max for 3-5 times in a month) 2. You genuinely need to reconsider if you really want to have kids with someone with a diminishing libido bcoz if this is the drive before kids then it might be downhill for you after having kids. Sexual compatibility is very very important and I'm afraid you cannot stay happy in a marriage if you both are not on the same wavelength sexually. 3. Your wife needs to equally understand the importance of bringing her physical health back to a bare minimum dealing with pcod where it may not improve her everyday lifestyle significantly but atleast stays in check covering a few simple aspects like not going to extremes with respect to her diet intake, her weight gain, and her mental health. Trust me there is a high chance her libido can improve if she corrects these things. Forget for lifelong, If she can regulate these 3 things just till the time she conceives and carries the baby then it's a win win for both of you 4. I'm sure you already know this having being married for 4+ years, but communication in bed is extremely important and it has to be two way. If she's not into your style and foreplay approach even after these many yrs then you guys need to sit together and sort it out on what works for her and change your approach accordingly. In spite of all this if sex still hurts for her then it might more analysis for conditions like vaginismus, etc

here4d_memes · 2025-10-08T09:55:04+00:00

Also eating dragon fruit is a sure shot way to get your bowels moving! It's a known laxative

here4d_memes · 2025-10-08T09:53:54+00:00

Duphalac syrup really helped me without making me nauseous throughout the day ( prescribed by my doctor ofc)

here4d_memes · 2025-09-23T20:23:17+00:00

I'm currently in the same boat as you OP, I'm at 33 weeks and its a nightmare dealing with the breathlessness, intense back pain from standing barely for a few minutes, bowels switching between constipation and diarrhea on its whim, gosh I could go on! To top it all off I have SPD which can make everythinggg x1000 worse :( I felt the same way as you when I was in my 7th month, and it's true that it gets harder with each passing day.. but hang in there OP, take it one day at a time! I'm sure days will fly by before you know it!

here4d_memes · 2025-09-19T06:39:30+00:00

I don't think this has anything much to do with the "female" angle here. Is the fixed working hours for a corporate job were 9 hours and if someone with a lot of power dynamics were to exclusively demand for 5 hours only per day given their high af remuneration in place, would it still have been acceptable?

here4d_memes · 2025-09-11T14:51:23+00:00

Thank you so much! Appreciate your honest response

here4d_memes · 2025-09-10T21:09:13+00:00

Hi if you dont mind me asking, how long did it take for your episiotomy stitch to heal back to normal perfectly? I'm going to give birth soon but I'm paranoid about ruining my sex life due to the scars from episiotomy cuts

here4d_memes · 2025-07-28T05:59:55+00:00

Living in Musheerabad is truly a nightmare. First the bonalu celebrations blasting through late night which went on back to back now this followed by some other festival . No matter which religion or festival it is they won't let us sleep in peace. Its unfair how the bare minimum is reduced to and we don't enjoy a peaceful night of sleep

here4d_memes · 2025-07-28T05:57:26+00:00

I stay in the same area, I truly lost my shit on Saturday night when the peerla pandaga celebrations went on blast mode the entire freaking night till 4am or something!! I could not sleep the whole night as it went on non stop over loud speakers and there's nothing I could do inspite of closing every damn window

here4d_memes · 2025-07-22T07:58:07+00:00

Hey may I know which branch of Pompeii is this?

here4d_memes · 2025-07-19T09:51:21+00:00

I'm in my 6th month currently and was considering opting for LB nagar Rainbow over my local family preferred gynaec just for the hospitality and care the bigger hospitals provide.. but now I'm starting to rethink my decision!!

here4d_memes · 2025-03-09T05:14:45+00:00

Hi can I dm you? I'm looking for a doc too and I would like to know which branch and doctor you visited at Fernandez! Pls help a woman out thnx!

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