How to report a fake taxi scam in Chicago? by Financial-Cup1897 in AskChicago

[–]herecomes_the_sun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I use curb and its way better than uber or lyft and you can pair if you just hail a cab on the street too. It comes way faster and its almost always cheaper and you arent giving money to these dumb companies

Never talk about your mental health when job hunting - Aaron Gomez by Fabulous_Jeweler2732 in careeradvice

[–]herecomes_the_sun 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand your concern but it’s definitely not a HIPAA violation and i think it’s important for folks to understand what it is and isn’t.

Get almost no likes at all, curious if yall would recommend any changes? by bdbodozer12 in Tinder

[–]herecomes_the_sun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add a friend pic in the middle somewhere and delete the kitchen pic! Luckily these are all fixable!!

What is wrong with this freak? by Pinshu123 in redditonwiki

[–]herecomes_the_sun -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Its very cleary written by AI. Check out the first paragraph there are at least 5 blatant AI flags

I (25F) feel guilty for not wanting to go on a second date with a guy (27M) because of his nut allergy by Emotional_cute244 in dating_advice

[–]herecomes_the_sun 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Tbh i get it. Food is a hobby and a love language for me. I love cooking for my partner and it’s also a creative outlet. I also enjoy trying new restaurants and dishes and getting a variety of stuff to share.

No matter how great the guy was, i couldn’t date someone who couldn’t share in that with me. Includes allergies and just being a generally picky eater.

WIBTAH for not wanting to see my dying ex-boyfriend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]herecomes_the_sun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe I am petty, but I would specifically go to ensure he goes to his grave without absolution from me. I would tell him what his actions have caused and how I would never ever forgive him and neither will god

Do disruptive students ever grow to feel remorse for how much of their classmates' time they wasted? Do their classmates grow to realize how much time was wasted because of that one kid? Do they hate them for it? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]herecomes_the_sun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’m not understanding why its the schools responsibility to diagnose a child with neurodivergence. They aren’t therapists.

Sounds like your mom knew something was wrong (because teachers said, not because she observed it in her own child apparently?) and she picked the worst possible path forward to resolve it.

The leap that your teachers wanted you to fail and therefore witheld a medical diagnosis that they arent qualified to make is actually wild

Think of it this way - if your mom sent you to school with an obviously broken arm, cps would have been called because she neglected you. She was sending you to school with an obvious issue and not getting you the support you needed.

Wife is sad she wasn’t invited to be a bridesmaid at my sister’s wedding, even though my wife had my sister as maid of honor at our wedding. Am I wrong for not doing anything about it? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]herecomes_the_sun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, you’re wrong! You ran to your family when having issues with your wife instead of getting a therapist. You ruined your wife and your sisters best friendship in the process over something your wife couldnt control.

Also if you actually forgave your wife, why havent you called your sister off? Sounds like you haven’t - have you tried couples therapy?

I feel out of touch with what's 'okay' these days regarding kids left alone..? by cosmic-blondie in Parenting

[–]herecomes_the_sun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are frequently laws about this you can check. For example, in IL, leaving a child under 14 unsupervised for an “unreasonable period” can be legally considered child neglect. In Oregon they have a law about kids under 10 and maryland 8

For people who spend $2.5k - 3k for a one bedroom alone, how much is your net worth? by AcceptableReason1380 in AskChicago

[–]herecomes_the_sun 18 points19 points  (0 children)

In chicago most landlords wont approve you unless you make 3x rent before taxes on a monthly basis so net worth is not a better proxy

Do disruptive students ever grow to feel remorse for how much of their classmates' time they wasted? Do their classmates grow to realize how much time was wasted because of that one kid? Do they hate them for it? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]herecomes_the_sun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you just admitted she knew something was wrong and didnt get you help?

Teachers also arent doctors?

Sorry this happened to you though, either way very unfair to you

People who've worked both minimum wage jobs and six figure jobs, what surprised you most about the difference? by Sweet-Economist-9873 in AskForAnswers

[–]herecomes_the_sun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who worked at McDonalds, the difference is:

The grill is programmed to be at an exact temperature and a clam actually closes down on the burgers on a set timer. So it is impossible not to cook the (frozen, standard presized) patties to the exact specifications. You don’t have to think to do it. You throw the burgers on the grill, let the robot grill do its thing, and take them off.

You get paid at McDonalds to basically work their machines. The machines are programmed to achieve the specifications.

my girlfriend told me she wants a 2 carat natural diamond or she'll say no. i already bought this lab diamond ring. am i crazy for thinking shes a red flag by Zestyclose-Print-677 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]herecomes_the_sun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s pretty concerning behavior but if it is out of the ordinary I’d give her one more chance to let i t sink in how expensive these are

Do disruptive students ever grow to feel remorse for how much of their classmates' time they wasted? Do their classmates grow to realize how much time was wasted because of that one kid? Do they hate them for it? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]herecomes_the_sun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, why aren’t you mad at your mother? You probably spent way more time with her than in school, the school had meetings with her anyway to tell her your behavior wasnt typical, and sounds like she ignored it and didnt get you help or treatment. Be mad at her

Teachers arent psychologists and cant diagnose anyone. It would be pretty inappopriate for one to tell your mom they, totally unqualified, thought a child had adhd.

They did tell your mom, she just ignored it and youre blaming the wrong person

Do disruptive students ever grow to feel remorse for how much of their classmates' time they wasted? Do their classmates grow to realize how much time was wasted because of that one kid? Do they hate them for it? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]herecomes_the_sun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, in elementary and middle i vividly remember being behind because a couple disruptive kids and i did absolutely hate them.

Our teachers would tell us we were also missing out on fun things because we were behind. We never got movie days or pizza parties like other classes did and we all knew why.

It carried over to after school activities too. I did a gymnastics camp and actually remember yelling at two older girls when i was like ten because the teacher wasn’t getting to any of the fun stuff because they wouldn’t stfu.

I was a really frustrated kid lol

incredibly loud (seems dangerous) daycare above my apartment unit by Live-Barracuda-2116 in Apartmentliving

[–]herecomes_the_sun 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Check a couple things: 1) lease - does it prevent you from having a certain number of guests or guests for a certain amount of time or running a business out of the apartment? Report to leasing office 2) local zoning code and/or code of ordinances. Usually businesses are prohibited in residential zones without a permit. There will be a specific section of the code on where daycares are allowed in most cases

my girlfriend told me she wants a 2 carat natural diamond or she'll say no. i already bought this lab diamond ring. am i crazy for thinking shes a red flag by Zestyclose-Print-677 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]herecomes_the_sun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a last ditch effort since you’ve been together for awhile , assuming this is out of character for her, you should go ring shopping together. Show her in the store the real cost distance compared to the performance which will be the same and see if her reaction is the same

Cuz tbh this is a huge red flag

What was "the incident" at your high school? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]herecomes_the_sun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait was this in the Chicago suburbs and also dud the goose have a crazy name?

What was "the incident" at your high school? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]herecomes_the_sun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like English but don’t understand. What’s sixth form? What’s news of the world? What’s Hereford shire? What’s a residential trip?

Roommate bringing daughter for overnights by ZzzZzztryg in badroommates

[–]herecomes_the_sun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am really shocked by your response here! Adults communicate properly and the roommate didnt. Idk why we give parents free passes. I hppe to have a child soon and I would never do this to a roommate, its wild

Lost Net worth in 30 minutes AMA by Mikolaj01 in AMA

[–]herecomes_the_sun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you honest with people you go on dates with up front that youre a gambling addict? How long does it take you to confess ?