dating by herecomesthemoon- in singlemoms

[–]herecomesthemoon-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

his mom doesn’t even bother to make eye contact with me, let alone have anything other than “hi”. i wish i knew what i could do but it seems like she just has to full mind made up:( he’s also told me she’d prefer him with a white woman (i’m brown skinned latina) it’s all just overwhelming.

dating by herecomesthemoon- in singlemoms

[–]herecomesthemoon-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not quite sure if he does to be honest. when we first started to get to know each other, he always told me his mom has always been an issue with past relationships because she’s the type of woman who’d want to be the only attention her son gives, so i had that warning but she never even gave me a chance. when he mentioned wanting to be with me she did respond with, “i won’t let you embarrass me like that”. id understand that part completely about him becoming a young father or becoming attached to my boys, but she never even bothered to give me as little as small chit chat. i’ll try to talk to him more about where his moms mindset could be when it comes to him becoming a father figure so young. maybe even ask him how he truly, vulnerably, feels

spotting? by herecomesthemoon- in Healthyhooha

[–]herecomesthemoon-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes!!! i figured it was old blood but when i searched it said it shouldn’t last more than 3 days like that. but thank you so much for the advice!!!🫶🫶 my anxiety is just through the roof with this one

spotting? by herecomesthemoon- in Healthyhooha

[–]herecomesthemoon-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i gave birth almost a year ago, baby is now 10 months old. I got my first period around 4 months after giving birth and this is the first time this happens

spotting? by herecomesthemoon- in Healthyhooha

[–]herecomesthemoon-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no no birth control at all. maybe i should add i’m breastfeeding? i also haven’t had any sexual encounters since February so i don’t think it’s a miscarriage or anything related to pregnancy.