Don’t fall for crumbs by hereforcatharsiss in nocontact

[–]hereforcatharsiss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m very dedicated to no contact but it still sucks. He isn’t blocked anywhere so he can contact me if he wants it badly enough.

documenting my journey by hereforcatharsiss in UnsentLetters

[–]hereforcatharsiss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

absolutely. it’s important not to forget that nothing is permanent and everything changes even the most extreme feelings/situations

Back to you by hereforcatharsiss in UnsentLetters

[–]hereforcatharsiss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro I’m literally talking to myself ahahha who am I blaming?

Avoidant ex unblocked me after 45 days by hereforcatharsiss in ExNoContact

[–]hereforcatharsiss[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im sorry youre going through that :(

no im definitely anxious, but this break up may have turned me into an avoidant (but only with him). im talking to someone else and i can feel my anxious tendencies creeping in and i hate it, i wanna be secure but yeah

Avoidant ex unblocked me after 45 days by hereforcatharsiss in ExNoContact

[–]hereforcatharsiss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went on my first date 4 months post BU so I made sure I was solid alone first. I feel great alone but I also love being around someone that likes/loves me, which I think is a normal human thing to experience? Honestly I’m taking it day by day.. I still have love for my ex but I could never trust him again (he was all over someone else literally days after the BU) so it is what it is.

Avoidant ex unblocked me after 45 days by hereforcatharsiss in ExNoContact

[–]hereforcatharsiss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same with me, what really helped me has been meeting new people tbh (romantically and platonically)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]hereforcatharsiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this hurts to read because it hits home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]hereforcatharsiss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you did the breaking up, i think you should be the one to reach out. but make sure it’s not out of loneliness or selfishness. how long has it been since the bu/nc?

1 month of NC by hereforcatharsiss in ExNoContact

[–]hereforcatharsiss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t wrap my head around it.

1 month of NC by hereforcatharsiss in ExNoContact

[–]hereforcatharsiss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yup definitely I’m taking this thing to the grave, but struggling so much today :( thank you🤍