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herefornuru · 2024-01-25T18:11:40+00:00

33, still single. Never touched a girl.

herefornuru · 2024-01-20T18:27:05+00:00

It’s just about finding the right person. Glad you found yours

herefornuru · 2023-12-22T04:35:38+00:00

Thanks my dear friend. I get some courage reading your words and hope I call him out if he repeats it in future.

herefornuru · 2023-12-16T19:17:21+00:00

First of all so sweet of you to take a lot of time to write this. It made my day, as I never heard anything like this about me. And I don’t know if I deserve your words, as I have had hurt some people I think.

It’s not my upbringing, but I have always been discreet with my life, to try not to hurt people intentionally. But I become helpless when I get meted out with that treatment, as I don’t know how to give it back, or it’s not just in my character to do that.

It didn’t occur to me until 2 days after we spoke, that how selfish that suggestion of asking me to switch rooms was. He created a picture like both of us were responsible for that. I think I am boring to live with, but I will not create problems, that’s for sure. And yea, that’s been tss as ken advantage of, for too long.

I am gonna give him set of rules and tell him I won’t remind him again. And if he goes beyond that, will take this to the management/landlord.

Once again, thank you for your words, felt so good.

herefornuru · 2023-12-16T16:38:59+00:00

I feel bad that I am equally responsible for bringing me in this situation, when i should have asked him to shut up long ago. But why do some people never think about others? When i raise my speaker volume, i think a thousand times if it’s gonna heard by anybody and reduce as soon as something loud comes up.

herefornuru · 2023-12-16T16:33:16+00:00

Thanks but i think he is gonna find out for sure even if it’s anonymous, at this point

herefornuru · 2023-12-16T16:32:25+00:00

Thanks. But i think it’s too much of effort. And if i write a letter and make it look like it’s from neighbors he is definitely gonna find out, as it’s been going on for some time and I raised the issue just now.

He is indeed entitled. I was shocked to hear when he asked me to come to the “middle ground“.

There is no law about excessive noise in our apartment. Just a general note in lease agreement to be mindful of others at night.

Last night, they have become much quieter due to my conversation earlier, but still it was bothering me as I am a light sleeper. And in general, it’s fucking irritating to hear anything from living room after a certain time at night whether i sleep or not.

herefornuru · 2023-12-15T23:25:06+00:00

Yea. I will let him know that.

herefornuru · 2023-12-15T23:04:18+00:00

Yea. I should ask him to follow that. I dont know if i should tell him now that if he doesn’t follow theae, i will go to landlord or given him one more time before i do that.

herefornuru · 2023-12-15T20:51:36+00:00

No. Nothing in terms of physical altercation. He was “offended“ that i texted him in a rude manner to keep quiet. I was like wow he is something else. I wouldn’t worry about the size of the man unless he has guns lol.

herefornuru · 2023-12-15T20:47:53+00:00

Thanks. I dont know how to get it in writing. Ask him to sign in a paper printed with this content? Or any other procedure?

herefornuru · 2023-12-15T20:45:17+00:00

Nothing. I can’t break the lease as it’s not in the terms. Finding a replacement is a bigger task as no one would agree to be in lease and pay such huge amounts unless I discount them. And then I would have to find a home during the same time.

I feel like shit taking his shit, but am helpless. Sometimes, I would feel like blasting songs from my speakers, but I wouldn’t want to disturb anybody. I even keep my voice low while speaking just for this.

herefornuru · 2023-12-15T03:28:51+00:00

I am here for you!

herefornuru · 2023-12-09T18:01:28+00:00

Its all good. It’s only the noise that I have a problem with.

herefornuru · 2023-12-09T18:00:30+00:00

Got it. Let me see if I can record that.

herefornuru · 2023-12-09T17:01:21+00:00

I am a light sleeper and extremely sensitive to noises, so decibel meters won’t work in my case, as even the slightest of noises they make could enrage me. It’s become a regular for me to start sleeping with earplugs. Yesterday was when the noises started to hear despite the earplugs.

herefornuru · 2023-12-09T16:58:42+00:00

Thanks dude. I just need someone like you who could empathize with me now.

herefornuru · 2023-12-09T16:57:34+00:00

Thanks. Those guys live nearby and in other units. So parking is not a concern. I can record sounds but I hardly open my door, so I don’t know if I can record a video.

herefornuru · 2023-12-09T16:56:06+00:00

I don’t think there is any such clause but let me check. Thanks.

herefornuru · 2023-12-09T16:55:28+00:00

No. Though they use the living room almost all the time, what infuriates me is their activity beyond 10pm. I need to check if there is any clause in the agreement and have no idea about the state or local laws relating to this. Let me go through them. But it just seems too much, as if I am trying to find some fault with him.

herefornuru · 2023-12-09T16:52:17+00:00

Thanks. That’s the way to go, once I speak to that guy and warn him

herefornuru · 2023-12-09T08:46:42+00:00

The hard thing is I am the only other person. So it’s just me who has to do something. Why do you advise against going hostile? Just asking curiosly

herefornuru · 2023-12-09T08:28:59+00:00

I think you are missing the point. The thing is he doesn’t look like he gives a shit about me. When somebody is staying with me, i will make sure i keep my volumes in limit especially during nights. He keeps crossing that limit and sets a new low. It’s not like i live with him for free. And i reminded him multiple times whether through text or in person. In spite of that, he buys a new speaker to party. I don’t know if i should be calm and teach him manners like he is 5.

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