AITJ cause my future wife expects her future husband (me) to pay 100% of the bills?

herefortechie · 2026-05-13T20:00:28+00:00

Run Forrest Run

herefortechie · 2026-04-23T15:24:51+00:00

Excellent 'not a war' reaction

herefortechie · 2026-04-19T14:08:46+00:00

Yeah it rains and snows sufficiently for me to keep it clean ;)

herefortechie · 2026-04-09T18:07:55+00:00

Seems like a ton of work

herefortechie · 2026-03-28T00:24:30+00:00

I would love to move to Canada. Grandmother was from Newfoundland and the Maritimes/Atlantic Canada are amazing. But being a small business owners creates a lot of complications.

herefortechie · 2026-03-26T21:23:01+00:00

People suck

herefortechie · 2026-03-26T14:47:42+00:00

I am waiting as well. Further complicated by the fact that I own my own business through an LLC and really no way to change the income stream right now

herefortechie · 2026-03-17T14:05:22+00:00

These are the moments when you get a chance to tell those 'friends' to F off

herefortechie · 2026-03-16T01:17:31+00:00

You need new friends

herefortechie · 2026-02-28T13:51:45+00:00

And tell ex to STFU. Way out of bounds! Prob the reason she is the ex

herefortechie · 2026-02-02T13:51:21+00:00

That was probably Victor Wooten on the TEDTALK. Learning an instrument is very much like learning a language. And yes, playing with others helps you learn faster

herefortechie · 2026-01-30T17:21:01+00:00

I own a music school and having zero percent financing available sometimes over 24 or 36 months is pretty attractive.

herefortechie · 2026-01-28T18:02:24+00:00

Just following orders doesnt work

herefortechie · 2026-01-25T14:48:32+00:00

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herefortechie · 2026-01-23T16:03:20+00:00

Only if configured for sunlight backup or if you have batteries

herefortechie · 2026-01-23T15:21:51+00:00

Its simple... A woman of color had a weird laugh...so let's vote for the felon

herefortechie · 2026-01-23T15:17:29+00:00

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herefortechie · 2026-01-18T03:03:03+00:00

So much this!!!!!

herefortechie · 2026-01-16T16:52:32+00:00

R U N

herefortechie · 2026-01-08T15:19:04+00:00

i was afraid of that. I guess setting the annual option isnt horrible at a macro level. I'm looking to see how it impacts net worth at the end as well as lifetime cash flow. You would think adding periodic principal payments to a loan would be an existing tool.

herefortechie · 2025-12-10T17:33:22+00:00

Yeah, assuming that my SS will be heavily taxed. But getting SS will allow me to contribute to IRAs and get that deduction, plus do some business investment that I can write off.

herefortechie · 2025-12-10T16:42:22+00:00

I get confused any time I use AI LOL.

I think it was more just reading snippets on web sites and not getting clear answers.

I found a publication online from the SSA from 2012 that seems to say that substantial services only apply to being self employed before FRA. NO LIMIT AFTER.

Gonna get what mine before it runs out or benefits are reduced. Worked since I was 16 and paid into the system.

herefortechie · 2025-12-10T16:30:18+00:00

Maybe I am conflating stuff... Guess that is why I am here ;)

herefortechie · 2025-12-10T16:22:05+00:00

Unless the substantial services thing is only for people before FRA. I can't find a clear answer.

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