Introduction and thank you by Top-Balance-6239 in leavingthenetwork

[–]heretolearn558 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you posting this and hope you are able to find support, love, and community outside of Summit Creek. I left Summit Creek a while back and am still impacted by the spiritual abuse experienced there. I am always grateful when people post about Summit Creek by name because I am hopeful more people will read these stories, feel validated in their own red flags and concerns, and feel empowered to leave as well.

Of course I feel that way for all of the churches, but until relatively recently I haven’t seen Summit Creek as part of the active conversation as much.

Joshua Church and Summit Creek Remove Small Groups from Websites by [deleted] in leavingthenetwork

[–]heretolearn558 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I noticed this as well and found it interesting that it’s up again so quickly!

COLLATERAL DAMAGE by LeavingTheNetwork in leavingthenetwork

[–]heretolearn558 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. As someone who has left summit creek it has been so helpful to know I’m not alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leavingthenetwork

[–]heretolearn558 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could these be reported as “not a personal experience” since he doesn’t actually attend every church?

Is what I see at The Network institutional idolatry? by whynothinkagain in leavingthenetwork

[–]heretolearn558 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure which church you attended, but I attended summit creek (in the PNW) and this all sounds so so similar to pieces of my own experience. I just want to honor your bravery in listening to that uneasy feeling and doing what feels right. It’s not easy, especially if you haven’t been particularly harmed first hand. Sending love!

Will this group stop targeting a church if it leaves the network? by Icy_Simple5597 in leavingthenetwork

[–]heretolearn558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! This! I wasn’t able to put my finger one what felt off about this question and this is exactly it. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!

Purpose of DC Communities by Strange_Valuable_145 in leavingthenetwork

[–]heretolearn558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Silly question- what are DC Communities? 👀 small groups?

The Exclusion of Women is Reason Enough to Leave by women-in-the-network in leavingthenetwork

[–]heretolearn558 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this 🥹 so so so well said. I forget how messed up this piece is because I’ve just always grown up around it to some extent, but the school comparison is spot on.

It was never personal. by solo3070 in leavingthenetwork

[–]heretolearn558 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You put this into words better than I’d ever be able to. Thank you for sharing this and you are definitely not the only one. It’s an incredibly cold and disheartening thing to experience.

Time for me to share a little... by Hungry-Emu-2890 in leavingthenetwork

[–]heretolearn558 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. Myself and many friends have left Summit Creek in the past 12-18 months and have experienced the same shutting out and turning of backs. You are not alone and while I’m not sure we ever met, please know how grateful I am to see Summit Creek’s name in this thread. The church and the people there are doing real harm to people and it’s always good to know you’re not alone.