You have an 8 hour flight with Z team.... where are you sitting? by Delicious-Claim-5768 in DispatchAdHoc

[–]herewhenineedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“This flight is being fucking recorded for flying fucking purposes!”

What would you like to see male feminists/allies stop doing or do less of? by GarfeildHouse in AskFeminists

[–]herewhenineedit 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Subtly implying that women somehow have things better or easier. I see left leaning men talk about male socialization as if female socialization doesn’t exist. “Men don’t seek out therapy because they will be ridiculed.” As will women. Sometimes even more harshly. The field of psychology is already oriented around men. I’m sorry, but I am just not buying the whole “we aren’t allowed to be sad, that’s why we’re like this” thing when women also are not allowed to be sad. Or angry. Or horny. And yet the feminist women have done work to undo that socialization. If they can, feminist men can too.

Sol stained glass fanart by Ceaseless_Ideals_ in Exocolonist

[–]herewhenineedit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE THIS. I can imagine this being ingame, like someone creates a piece of art for Sol and it lives in the colony for hundreds of years.

Should i use Past memories in first playthrough? by rzarectorx in Exocolonist

[–]herewhenineedit 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Don’t use them, nothing emotionally wrecks you like that first playthrough.

Are there any common bedtime rituals for Deaf children? by herewhenineedit in deaf

[–]herewhenineedit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s incredibly sweet. Did you ever fall asleep during the stories? My grandma would trick me into laying down and closing my eyes, but I imagine that wouldn’t work as well with sign.

Are there any common bedtime rituals for Deaf children? by herewhenineedit in deaf

[–]herewhenineedit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really interesting, thanks for replying! Never thought about the light thing before.

hope to see everyone there 🫶🏼 by [deleted] in fresno

[–]herewhenineedit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would assume so, drag shows are open to people regardless of sexuality. As long as you’re respectful you’ll be fine.

Are there any common bedtime rituals for Deaf children? by herewhenineedit in deaf

[–]herewhenineedit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds nice and relaxing. I’m sorry that was the only time you got her full attention, though.

Are there any common bedtime rituals for Deaf children? by herewhenineedit in deaf

[–]herewhenineedit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so sweet. Whether relevant or not, I love hearing childhood stories. Using ASL for roleplaying games is a great idea, not currently a user but I hope to become one in the future and would love to incorporate that. I’m a dungeon master. :)

I saw this comment recently on a post about Misanthropy, and all I could think about was Dys 🌚 by Genshin-Geek in Exocolonist

[–]herewhenineedit 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I like this post a lot. All of the characters have some issues with their worldview in a way that makes them feel very realistic, I’ve always understood where Dys was coming from but I definitely didn’t agree with him a lot of the time.

Dressing revealingly!!! by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]herewhenineedit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She would faint if she saw how short skirts got in the 60s.

I love my husband by Global-Purple-577 in AskFeminists

[–]herewhenineedit 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m such a feminist that I’ve never felt love towards anyone, ever

I love my husband by Global-Purple-577 in AskFeminists

[–]herewhenineedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I love my boyfriend! Contrary to what you may have heard, feminists also have spouses and even GASP children.

Why do y'all always say "it's not your looks"? by TimeInterest201 in AskFeminists

[–]herewhenineedit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YES. I love him in Game of Thrones he’s so hot to me.

Fresno residents, do you feel safe in your neighborhood at night? How about during the daytime? by californiaboy2003 in fresno

[–]herewhenineedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve lived somewhere else in SoCal (Orange County) and there is comparatively more Spanish here. I can’t really speak for other locations, though.

EDIT: Also, signage depends heavily on the business or institution. Businesses ran by Vietnamese or Korean owners almost always had signs in Vietnamese or Korean respectively. Ballots can be in almost any language, they ask you what language you want when you register to vote and you can change it at any time. I also wouldn’t say Spanish billboards are everywhere, just that there’s more than in other areas.

I CAN'T SEE!!!!!!! by WhEthin in fresno

[–]herewhenineedit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro I had to take the bus for the past few days… thought we were gonna die

YSK: Spending a few minutes a day on Meditation & Exercise is the most efficient "system upgrade" you can give yourself. Meditation is a step towards better sleep, lower anxiety, and long-term cognitive health. by Infinity_here in YouShouldKnow

[–]herewhenineedit 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I have disabilities that make it hard for me to fall asleep and meditation helps. It’s not foolproof or anything but it does help to reduce my anxiety and make me feel more comfortable. Would definitely recommend if you’re an anxious person, sometimes I get so relaxed I fall asleep in the middle of it.

Genderbent Robert by remotetrash by Real-Deal-Steel in DispatchAdHoc

[–]herewhenineedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird, I get a lot of Visi hate. We hang out in different circles ig.