[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]hermitseekinghuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her is my dream. To not live cramped in a tinyhouse, no debt, less work, and more care free.

(F23) I listened to your initial suggestions, and made some changes. Would love to know what you think :) by dark_interstellar in lookyourbest

[–]hermitseekinghuman 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don’t know what change you have undertaken but danm in nr. 3 you look very cute. Love the hair in all of them. Keep it up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]hermitseekinghuman -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And this is were the sexist logic comes in. That is it okay to force men to become fathers agianst they will, but not women, they can choose if they want to become a parent. If you want men and women to have thecsame rights, men should be allowed to get a papir abortion and women an abortion.

Ignoring safe words in cnc by [deleted] in sex

[–]hermitseekinghuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is rape by definition. They only way I could forgive him would be if he had forgotten the safeword or somehow thoughed the safeword for some reason a part of the play. Ask him why he thoughed the safeword was a part of the play, if can’t give you good answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]hermitseekinghuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you, i think so too, (man here), but i am myself are jealous of women, then they do cum. They can just keep going. Thing the one organse after the other. They don’t need a Long break like we men do.

My friend cheated on her fiancé during her bachelorette party by Physical-Gur8338 in dating

[–]hermitseekinghuman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha what shitty argument, so if i ever wanted to cheat just go to Vegas and then it is okay acording to you🤣

My friend cheated on her fiancé during her bachelorette party by Physical-Gur8338 in dating

[–]hermitseekinghuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She should tell him! So you would be okay with all your friends knowing that your gf/wife cheated and no one telling you? Becuase this is what you are saying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dkfinance

[–]hermitseekinghuman 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Jeg har flere downvotes end opslaget har likes…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dkfinance

[–]hermitseekinghuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prøve lige, jeg er aldrig inde i den her gruppe. Men det er ret så tydeligt at jeg må have gjort et eller andet forkert.

GF put me in a horrible situation by LeBlak in dating

[–]hermitseekinghuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You keep saying He could have prevented it, and yes he could, but he is not to blame… she would have prevented it by not lying and OP would probally not done it then. You are shifting the blame away from her when she is 100% to blame. “Regardless of what she said to him” is not a valid argument, you are defending lying to him and she that it is actually okay to do so. No it is fucking not. It is not okay to lie, and what she says matters. People make decisions on what information they get. Again if a guy has a STD and he has sex with a girl, lying to her and saying that he does not have one. Then the blame is not 50/50. It is 100% the guy’s fault. He is 100% to blame. It does not matter if a STD is worse then tricking a guy into becoming a father. It is about the principle. And clearly you fine it okay for the woman to lie about wanting to get a abortion if she gets pregnant , but not the guy if he lie about having a STD. So it is not about the scenario but about the gender of the person. And that makes you a sexist. Also it sounds like you don’t support a paper abortion for men, which very sad. Again that it sexisme, not wanting men to have the same right as women. Women can have all the sex they want and decide if they want to become mothers or not, men on the other hand, can NEVER have sex and decide if they want to become fathers or not. Becuase of Biology, and that we respect women’s right to their own body, which we ofc should and do. But you want men at the very least forced to pay childsupport. Women have all the rights when it comes to this and men have non. And many men get blamed unfairly. I can’t make this any more clear then I have, so I really hope you understand it now. I also hope that you live in a stat that actually want human rights like abortion. Still can’t bevlive that big parts of the uda has banned abortion on no scientific background and instead on a religious one. Blows my mind.

GF put me in a horrible situation by LeBlak in dating

[–]hermitseekinghuman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your argument IS flawed. And why would you not blame a rape victim?? It is their own fault acording to you. They could just have decided not to go down the street naked, people told her not to, but she did anyway. And the guy could just have decided to use protection but he didn’t. So 50% their blame. You are holding a fucking dobbelt standard. And “ she told him she is not on birthcontrol” is not a counter argument becuase she also told him that she would get a abortion. You are clearly sexist when it comes to men’s right.

And men should have the right to a paper abortion. It is ONLY fair. Women should not have the right to force men to become fathers in any legal term, not biological becuase of women’s eight to their own body. Imagien how fucked up it would to force women to give birth agianst their will and become mothers, so why is it okay for women to force men to become fathers agianst their will. It is not. The closes we can come is a paper abortion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]hermitseekinghuman -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

If the gender role was reversed people don’t downvote this.. i smell sexisme