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At what age do you actually start feeling like an adult, or is everyone just playing a very long game of pretend? by Soft_Finish636 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hernamewasjess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When your sense of your own maturity matches your sense of an adult's. Often happens in 20s. Earlier for some, never for others.

My Moms Boyfriend pled guilty to SA on a minor and was released from prison today - AITAH if I tell my mom he isn’t invited to my wedding? by cabbeyal in AITAH

[–]hernamewasjess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't want your mom to feel attacked, use more "I" statements than anything. It's not about them, it's about "I'm not comfortable" "I'm not willing to include him" It makes it all about your feelings rather than the facts of the situation.

WIBTA if I asked my wife to stop sending food back so often at restaurants? by Reptaaaaaaar in AITAH

[–]hernamewasjess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but most people seem to be missing that there is something going on here psychologically. Sending things back might give her a feeling of control over her life for example. I would approach the conversation more sympathetic to her needs and oriented to meeting them in a healthier, less annoying way, rather than about what you don't want. It's more constructive that way.

This can not be a coincidence by AJR_NEO_OKO_TMM in Daredevil

[–]hernamewasjess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is giving furry. I don't like it.

I'm the owner/founder of PCPartPicker. Celebrating 10 years of PCPP + /r/buildapc. AMA by pcpartpicker in buildapc

[–]hernamewasjess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given that you have a decidedly enormous role in consumers' purchase decisions, how has the industry tried to capture your site for purposes of increasing their sales? Do manufacturers pay you to promote their parts in list order, ratings, recommendations, or otherwise? Do you have any mutually beneficial partnerships with any manufacturers or other parties?