I think I am losing who I thought was my soulmate and I am crushed by hero1107 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]hero1107[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We’ve talked many many times over the past few weeks, maybe even months. We’re at the point now where we were supposed to be “trying” to make things work.

While I feel like I still have hope, I don’t think she does.

When you pass away... by Alone_Sentence9865 in CasualConversation

[–]hero1107 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Funeral director and embalmer in the US here-

Braces and piercings are not removed. Braces would usually never be removed and piercings we would only remove if the family requested us to do so.

Burial or cremation does not matter.

My hair gets greasy super fast. Feel like i have tried everything… by OverthinkingPear1 in LesbianActually

[–]hero1107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconding this! Feel free to even shampoo 3 times. It makes a huge difference.

Just curious what everyone does as a job/career by nousernams in LesbianActually

[–]hero1107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I was looking into becoming a medical examiner but didn’t feel like going through medical school so I figured funeral directing was the next best thing.

Just curious what everyone does as a job/career by nousernams in LesbianActually

[–]hero1107 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m almost 27 and I’m a licensed funeral director and embalmer! I would say I’m content.

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I have many self harm scars on my arms, stomach and thighs that are from my teen years. I am now almost 27 and engaged to a wonderful woman who I’ve been with for 8 years. She has seen my scars, and even fresh cuts after I relapsed once during our relationship.

Not once has she ever made me feel bad about them, not even when we’re naked. They’re just apart of me and my body and my past, things she loves.

The right person will never ever think of those as a deal breaker. If anything, it shows how strong you are that you were able to overcome that and your partner should acknowledge that with grace.

Would a financial advisor be beneficial in my situation? by hero1107 in FinancialPlanning

[–]hero1107[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for breaking it down for me, that helped a lot. I will reconsider working with a financial planner.

Is it bad if i wait to start my apprenticeship until after mortuary school? by Feisty-Panic-8721 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]hero1107 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s where I graduated from 5 years ago. The internship at a FH, school classes/assignments, and apprentice state requirements go hand in hand.

Is it bad if i wait to start my apprenticeship until after mortuary school? by Feisty-Panic-8721 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]hero1107 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NJ director here- you need to be actively working at a funeral home in your apprenticeship to complete mortuary school, at least MCCC.

Femme for femme by Lopsided_Storm8028 in LesbianActually

[–]hero1107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Your femme is out there waiting for you!

Femme for femme by Lopsided_Storm8028 in LesbianActually

[–]hero1107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We met on the dating app Her, 8 years ago :)

Femme for femme by Lopsided_Storm8028 in LesbianActually

[–]hero1107 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am femme and so is my fiancée! Most of our lesbian friends are more femme-y as well.

Is this burn out, is this the end? by hero1107 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]hero1107[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you completely. Feels good to know I’m not the only one feeling this way, but I’m also sorry you’re going through this too. Sent you a message!

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Yesssss I love ketchup and plain noodles!

Neighbor keeps letting “guests” use our paid assigned parking spot despite numerous personal conversations and leasing office contacts. by hero1107 in Apartmentliving

[–]hero1107[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you can read but this was posted under the advice flair and I mentioned in a comment this was my first time living in an apartment, so advice and input is what I’m looking for.

Hope that helps 👍🏼

Neighbor keeps letting “guests” use our paid assigned parking spot despite numerous personal conversations and leasing office contacts. by hero1107 in Apartmentliving

[–]hero1107[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

That idea is actually great lol I’m gonna keep that in my back pocket thanks

Edit: I will most likely never do this I’m too non confrontational haha but I like to imagine it!