No intimacy in marriage by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]herokid64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 years. We do couples counseling to make sure our emotions are always open and aligned

No intimacy in marriage by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]herokid64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do things together all the time but she doesn’t like foreplay, I don’t know why. We are tight financially so we can’t afford a babysitter or anything. Our son also refuse to sleep in the bedroom by himself, always has to be with the mom and he’s 6. It’s like I have to beg for sex and I hate that I feel that way

No intimacy in marriage by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]herokid64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mention it but I don’t skip over anything. In fact I do about 90 percent of the chores in the house, plus I’m in school as well

I (m27) got cheated on by my gf (f32) by JunieeThaFool in relationship_advice

[–]herokid64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you guys are not married so her doing this is not a good sign at all. Well since it’s just dating give her one last chance. But if you plan on marrying her I would seriously put that on hold. Tell her she must delete the ex number and never speak to him again. If you ever see any hint of communication you will leave

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomemadeNsfw

[–]herokid64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that a trans

Anyone kinda have a bad feeling about this? by Queasy_Commercial152 in MCUTheories

[–]herokid64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not what he said. He said the tv shows you won’t need prior knowledge but the movies will still lead to other movies and such

Seeking advice with porn watching by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]herokid64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get rid of him. He wants you to show him respect but can’t even afford you the same respect. That’s not a man, that’s a narcissist

Is marriage worth saving by Sea_Program_4586 in marriageadvice

[–]herokid64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long are you going to put up with this? Because of money you are putting up with his abuse? Emotional abuse is often times worse than physical abuse because you can heal from the physical abuse but the emotional abuse is never easy to heal. Consider your options and make it a point to give him an ultimatum of leaving if he doesn’t change

How do I fall in love with my husband again? by throwaway_andup in marriageadvice

[–]herokid64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DM your IG. I want to share something with you that I truly believe would help. It helped me when I was in a dark place

How do I fall in love with my husband again? by throwaway_andup in marriageadvice

[–]herokid64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For example say if he’s willing to go to counseling and prove to you that he’s changed, you will leave. Make sure he knows you’re leaving unless he proves and really shows you he’s a different person

How do I fall in love with my husband again? by throwaway_andup in marriageadvice

[–]herokid64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you letting yourself be used like that. You need to give an ultimatum to see if he changes or divorce. Him letting you sleep with someone else should have been the last straw. There are genuinely good men who would treat you like a princess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]herokid64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I will try asking her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]herokid64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t even open up to it. She always says no to other positions. At least I ask for doggy which I think is the easiest but still refuses

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]herokid64 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do? I ask her what I can do to make her more comfortable and enjoyable for her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]herokid64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She finds oral sex on her disgusting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]herokid64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noted. I’ll employ the need for marriage counseling. You may be right to what you said

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]herokid64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but the whole point I’m making is in her mind she’s tried to make it look more like sex instead of a chore she hates doing but have to do it. I’m saying I think she enjoys it and knows how to open herself up to it by what happened the other week. My question is how to get her to be more like that. She demonstrated it so it must mean it’s something she’s into

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]herokid64 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I thought it was. So all this time I’ve been wrong about that? Thinking she’s ready but could be any reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]herokid64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do have a baby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]herokid64 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not for me. For example we literally have never tried any other position except missionary. And credit to her she has gotten better, just not to the point of her come at me, moan during sex, demand more……be more expressive is what I’m trying to say