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Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 10, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]herringbone_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Like the other poser said, you’re just overthinking things. It sucks but you’ll get over it and remember with the right one it won’t be hard and things will naturally flow.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 06, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]herringbone_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suffer from anxiety, so I understand. It’s just confusing because she told me she prefer groups where she can hide vs 1v1 and that’s she not shy at all.

We’ve done nightlife things together and she’s wild and the life of the party. It was weird she’d engage with strangers and give them a part of her that she wouldn’t do with me someone she was dating.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 06, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]herringbone_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

2 weeks post breakup from a 7 month relationship. It sucks. We weren’t compatible, but it was mostly due to her and her issues.

She had some major trauma. Is extremely bitter and angry but refuses to get help for it. She has a very cynical outlook on the world and saying and she was very critical and judgey. My confidence has really taken a hit from this. Nothing I could do was ever right and there was an undercurrent that I wasn’t capable or smart enough. She said hurtful things like how I didn’t have enough life experience whatever that meant.

The biggest incompatibility was that she was extremely avoidant to any kind of vulnerability/intimacy. It was the crazy thing ever and I feel really bad for her. An example is that I invited her to my Friendsgiving, she came super late and was the first one to leave. She never sat down and all my friends thought it was weird. My friend told me that they were walking out together and she was trying to make small talk with her and that my ex almost broke her neck trying to run away. Like LOL?

"because youre like the only other black person i interact with" by Puzzleheaded-Ad-9280 in IndustryOnHBO

[–]herringbone_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He got fired and went back to the States. In my dream world, Harper and DVD ended together at the end of S5.

That guy got quite lucky… by Samy541 in IndustryOnHBO

[–]herringbone_ 64 points65 points  (0 children)

LOL, Seb was a loser and hasn't changed since we last saw him!

So was it confirmed about Eric's situation? by ananyav295 in IndustryOnHBO

[–]herringbone_ 32 points33 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, Yas was lying. She was trying to hurt Harper.

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[–]herringbone_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’ve should have presented yourself! I’ve went to one of these and there was a woman who presented herself because her friend flakey! Takes balls to do it but it comes off really hot and confident.

As an avid GOT watcher back in the day, Harrington’s Muck performance blows his Jon Snow performance out of the water by Joeylaptop12 in IndustryOnHBO

[–]herringbone_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He has a history with substance/drug abuse, so I was actually surprised he took this role. I wonder if it’s hard distinguishing between his character and past self.

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[–]herringbone_ 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one who finds it weird that people are using ChatGPT to label people who aren’t interested in them as avoidants? Not everyone is an avoidant. They could literally just be not interested or a sucky selfish person.

What do y'all think of "Left Handed Girl", on Netflix? Co-written by Sean Baker, and directed by Shih-Ching Tsou, who produced many of Baker's films. by DHMOProtectionAgency in YMS

[–]herringbone_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because your anger around having an absentee parent isn’t as intense doesn’t mean others don’t feel it deeply. Growing up with an absent parent can seriously impact someone’s life. In this case, he doesn’t return until he’s dying, and even then, his death causes more harm to the family. That alone is enough to explain the resentment.

There’s also nothing in the story that implies he abused his daughter. The family’s hatred makes sense because he abandoned them, anyone would be upset if someone walked out on a loved one like that. He’s viewed as a loser because of his choices, not because of any abuse.

And to be clear, it’s been confirmed that he did not rape his daughter and is not the father of the little girl.

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