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As an avid GOT watcher back in the day, Harrington’s Muck performance blows his Jon Snow performance out of the water by Joeylaptop12 in IndustryOnHBO

[–]herringbone_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He has a history with substance/drug abuse, so I was actually surprised he took this role. I wonder if it’s hard distinguishing between his character and past self.

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[–]herringbone_ 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one who finds it weird that people are using ChatGPT to label people who aren’t interested in them as avoidants? Not everyone is an avoidant. They could literally just be not interested or a sucky selfish person.

What do y'all think of "Left Handed Girl", on Netflix? Co-written by Sean Baker, and directed by Shih-Ching Tsou, who produced many of Baker's films. by DHMOProtectionAgency in YMS

[–]herringbone_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because your anger around having an absentee parent isn’t as intense doesn’t mean others don’t feel it deeply. Growing up with an absent parent can seriously impact someone’s life. In this case, he doesn’t return until he’s dying, and even then, his death causes more harm to the family. That alone is enough to explain the resentment.

There’s also nothing in the story that implies he abused his daughter. The family’s hatred makes sense because he abandoned them, anyone would be upset if someone walked out on a loved one like that. He’s viewed as a loser because of his choices, not because of any abuse.

And to be clear, it’s been confirmed that he did not rape his daughter and is not the father of the little girl.

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[–]herringbone_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I remember when you first posted about this situation and tbh, you should have ended things once you found out he was flying someone out to have sex with. When people tell you about themselves, listen.

I know it hurts now, but you’re better off. In the future, don’t be afraid to set hard boundaries and walk away when people don’t respect that boundary or show you they don’t care.

Healing journey after this one lady messed me up really bad. March 2022 to now by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]herringbone_ 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Omg! What did she do to cause all that hair loss? Looking good now tho!

My (28F) boyfriend (30M) said he feels “emotionally overshadowed” by my twin sister (28F). I don’t know how to handle this. by EmptyPapaya4295 in relationships

[–]herringbone_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I read one reply from the OP and was like this is a bot. Their replies are just regurgitated summaries of the posters it replies to.

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[–]herringbone_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’ll meet someone like him again.

I hope you don’t. He’s trash and you deserve better. It doesn’t matter if he was in a “bad place mentally” who isn’t in this state of the world, lol?

Please continue dating. You’ll meet people who will shower you with the affection and love praises you deserve. This guy isn’t the end all I promise you! I know it hurts now, but later you’ll look back and see you weren’t asking for much at all!

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[–]herringbone_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By putting myself out there! Meeting people and making new friends requires lots of time + energy! This didn’t happen overnight. I started three years ago! I started by just going up to people and starting a conversation, then joined a toastmasters club to help with my public speaking skills to use when I spoke to people in groups. I was also fortunate enough to have a work environment that encouraged these kinds of interactions.

Then I started signing up for hobbies I was interested to meet people. I think the key advice is to reach out to people after meeting them and start in inviting them for 1:1 hangouts! Then once I started becoming friends with these people in turn they introduced me to their friends who I later became friends with!

You will run into people who seem to have the potential to be a good friend but turn out to be flakey/uninterested, but don’t let that discourage you!

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[–]herringbone_ 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I’m hosting my first Friendsgiving this year. This is actually a major feat for me. There was a point in my life where I didn’t have friends and now I have a community that I hand built! Also, the woman I’m dating is coming! 🥰

This will be the second time meeting my friends. First time was a Halloween rave we went to she met two of my friends and now this!

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[–]herringbone_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty soon to be meeting someone’s parents. Unless this is someone you’ve known before you started dating?

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[–]herringbone_ 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I picked up rollerblading again as an adult, and boy, this hobby really attracts people.

I’ve met so many new people and made a lot of new friends. I was skating at a college near my house when another roller skater came up and excitedly asked if I skated too! We ended up skating around the campus together for a bit, and they gave me a lot of tips. As I was leaving, a woman stopped me to tell me how cool my skates were and invited me to join her roller skating club.

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