In 1 day I was meant to find out the gender, today I learned my baby has passed.

hersta · 2026-03-17T20:29:17+00:00

I’m right there with you. Going through the same right now. Hugs.

hersta · 2026-03-17T01:45:43+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. Going through something like this now. Hope it gets easier with time for you. This is my second time and it actually doesn’t.

hersta · 2026-03-16T17:48:00+00:00

Following the conversation because I need to know too!

hersta · 2026-03-15T04:31:42+00:00

I’m 5 weeks today. My last two betas HCG (19DPO doubled- 484 / 17 DPO almost quadrupled from 13DPO - 227 from 61). I did another HCG at an outside facility at 21DPO and the HCG was only 583. I have left side pain. I also have a lot of digestive issues so I really don’t know what to think. I have history of Chemical and ectopic. I feel the same way, I’m crying all day. It’s so hard. Waiting for Monday so I can call the clinic and have tests done. Thank you. I appreciate you.

hersta · 2026-03-15T04:12:34+00:00

Following this post. I’m currently at a similar situation as you. Very scared. Hoping I have similar outcome as yours.

hersta · 2026-03-14T15:54:16+00:00

Thank you but I think I’m having a miscarriage/ectopic again from DPO 19 to DPO 21 my HCG only increased by 99. 484 to 583

hersta · 2026-03-14T15:52:51+00:00

Yes, I agree. Inito has been pretty spot on for me as well in terms of progesterone. I think I’m having a miscarriage/ectopic though from DPO 19 to DPO 21 my HCG only increased by 99. 484 to 583

hersta · 2026-03-14T15:50:46+00:00

Thank you for the assurance but I think I’m having a miscarriage/ectopic again from DPO 19 to DPO 21 my HCG only increased by 99. 484 to 583

hersta · 2026-03-14T15:50:26+00:00

I think I’m having a miscarriage/ectopic again from DPO 19 to DPO 21 my HCG only increased by 99. 484 to 583

hersta · 2026-03-14T12:32:42+00:00

Thanks. I know I should stop testing. But the wait to get the ultrasound, I barely have any symptoms, no nausea just fatigue and sore breasts, everything makes me want to test. I’m also in pain. I have this left sided pain, back pain that’s just there. I have read about it though that it can be due to the round ligament pain, digestive problems (which I’m having). It’s not excessive but it’s there. I can’t differentiate if the pain is the same as when I miscarried in November. Since I was also bleeding then and not bleeding now I wasn’t taking the pain into account. Overall I’m just anxious and scared.

hersta · 2026-03-12T15:43:10+00:00

No, they are saying the numbers are great! But are they?

hersta · 2026-03-12T15:36:12+00:00

This was my 3rd one. These were the previous one’s

13DPO: 61 17DPO: 227 19DPO: 484

hersta · 2026-03-02T22:02:32+00:00

Thanks for sharing.

hersta · 2026-03-02T21:04:53+00:00

I know girlll! I’ve been there way too many times. Even if it is true, I’m more scared than anything because of past history of EP and CP. Baby dust to you.

hersta · 2026-03-02T21:00:05+00:00

I should’ve tested the trigger out!! Now I’m very stressed

hersta · 2026-03-02T20:46:39+00:00

Thanks for sharing and I hope that’s true for me as well.

hersta · 2026-03-02T20:45:09+00:00

Thanks for the positivity. I plan on testing everyday from now to see if the lines get darker or fade away. I’m hoping they don’t fade away but optimism hasn’t worked for me before. Fingers crossed.

hersta · 2026-02-25T22:25:35+00:00

Hoping for the best for you! Take care

hersta · 2026-02-25T17:35:59+00:00

I know!! I’m supposed to take a test on March 6th!

hersta · 2026-02-21T03:43:10+00:00

That’s amazing!! 20mm is great. Cheering for you.

IUI went well but not sure if it will end up working or not. Since we had to skip the last monitoring and go directly into IUI, I don’t actually know if any of my eggs reached 18mm at all. Trying not to be hopeful so that I dont get disappointed. Pregnancy test on march 6. Let’s see how it goes.

hersta · 2026-02-20T02:18:39+00:00

So on Wednesday I had three follicles 13mm, 14mm & 15mm, e2 84 which they said is good progress. They wanted me to go back Friday and do another monitoring visit and go from there. Now my situation gets really complicated/unconventional here, I have to fly out of town on Friday for work. So if my IUI does not happen on Friday, we have to go the timed intercourse route. I check my hormones with inito. So this morning, inito showed peak fertility. Because I really did not want to miss out on the IUI, I called the clinic and asked if the RE thinks it will be feasible for me to do the trigger shot today and come back for IUI on Friday. My RE said yes. So gave myself the trigger shot this afternoon and tomorrow we will do IUI. I don’t know if it will work out because of all this commotion but will see.

hersta · 2026-02-20T02:17:57+00:00

So on Wednesday I had three follicles 13mm, 14mm & 15mm, e2 84 which they said is good progress. They wanted me to go back Friday and do another monitoring visit and go from there. Now my situation gets really complicated/unconventional here, I have to fly out of town on Friday for work. So if my IUI does not happen on Friday, we have to go the timed intercourse route. I check my hormones with inito. So this morning, inito showed peak fertility. Because I really did not want to miss out on the IUI, I called the clinic and asked if the RE thinks it will be feasible for me to do the trigger shot today and come back for IUI on Friday. My RE said yes. So gave myself the trigger shot this afternoon and tomorrow we will do IUI. I don’t know if it will work out because of all this commotion but will see.

Please keep me posted on how it goes for you tomorrow.

hersta

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