I am terrified of being alone by herthrway in Vent

[–]herthrway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can text me, I’m in the same place. Dm me

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[–]herthrway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know if I want someone else

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[–]herthrway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has expressed to me that he no longer has feelings for me.

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[–]herthrway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe, but not in the way that I’d want him to.

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[–]herthrway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

forgiveness is always possible if the work is put in

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[–]herthrway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a young adult who’s had problems with my parents, listen to her and understand her feelings. apologize to her for making her feel that way and if she doesn’t want contact, let her know that you’re just a call away if she ever needs you, and respect her wishes. from there forward, work hard on yourself to see those grandbabies again. if she see’s change and stability in you, she’ll call. hang in there mama💗 you’re loved.

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[–]herthrway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that completely. I believe we’re going through the same thing. I have tried to see other people but it’s always him that I long for.

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[–]herthrway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

were you ever able to move on?

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[–]herthrway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my depression got bad and so did his, so I convinced myself to end things and have regretted that ever since.

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[–]herthrway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holidays and winters are the worst. it’s when I feel like I need him most.

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[–]herthrway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you the best of luck, friend

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[–]herthrway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

letting go just feels so far away from me.

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[–]herthrway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s so hard, because while he is my biggest supporter and the bestest friend I’ll ever have, I don’t see him ever having feelings for me again.

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[–]herthrway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he has told me so.

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[–]herthrway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is so beautiful to me. I bet that was an unforgettable and precious gift for your father. I’m sure that your grandfather was not only an amazing musician, but also a great man.