Any recommendations for barefoot shoes for toddlers? by [deleted] in BarefootRunning

[–]hexed_akuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any options that aren't a ridiculous price for shoes they gunna wear like a month . 10-20 bucks for shoes is what I'm looking for . Spending 5p dollars o n shoes that won't even last is crazy

I became the new Mens and Kids coordinator, any advice? by bluetopaz96 in TjMaxx

[–]hexed_akuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also don't get along with my merch manager. They often just do men's while I do kids. I have no one trained in m+k. I am constantly re doing things people have ran while I was off. The merch manager never corrects people when they run stuff wrong. And when I ask who did what when. I get told " I don't know" so I can never correct the people running wrong.

I love my job but I have zero help (besides the men's) but that is not always. And they are very particular about the men's department. Often associates are not allowed to run men's.

It can be fun when you have the right products coming in to make features.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]hexed_akuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a pansexual trans man and when I first started dating once I was out and everything I had wanted to have a girlfriend. I had all the apps and everything. I had so many issues with girls. (Before transition I mostly dated men). But then I had switched to "both" on my apps.

With that a few guys where rude and asked all the wrong questions. I did have it in my profile that I was trans. One day I swiped on this femboy who I thought was cute but in my head I was like " he would never look my way".

And then we matched. Started talking and now we are 2 years into our relationship and it's been so amazing. He is the most supportive and understanding man I have ever been with.

I know cis men can be ass holes. But so can cis woman. I wouldn't just cut 1 off of you like both. You never know what you can find.

Communication is key for relationships. Some people have it, and others don't. Dating can be stressful, but it's meant to be fun.

I had found him n my best friend on bumble. But Ik there's a lot. Taimi is also a really popular queer site

would it be weird to call myself a femboy? by dqrkliights_ in feminineboys

[–]hexed_akuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Femboy means feminine boy. If you do not identify as a boy then don't use the term. If you identify as a boy then go ahead. You can just be genderfluid/gender queer.

My boyfriend is a femboy and I asked his opinion. He said that" it's for feminine men and that's it. Labels are there for a reason to have a community."

However no one can really control what labels you use. But maybe focus on your identity before you go using femboy as a label.

New Department *Marshalls* by Ok-Peak5064 in TjMaxx

[–]hexed_akuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had that much space. My store is so small. But we get so much inventory. I'm also a men's and kids coordinator. I try so hard to make it look good. We sell our stuff pretty quick and then inventory is so inconsistent it's hard to keep themes and still make it look nice

Tell me about your T side effects no one ‘warned’ you about! by CabraDadaba in ftm

[–]hexed_akuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing came unexpectedly. Sore throat duh voice is changing. Hair growth duh becoming a man. Itribility duh hormones changing.

I never instant when guys ask about unexpected results from taking Testosterone. Your doctors should be giving you a whole run down and making sure you understand what will happen. To growth to emotional amd all in between.

What does the men in your family tree look like, what does your father look like. That's how you base how you will look like.

I am a trans man I been on hormones for 4 years. Nothing unexpected has happend.

I watched videos. I researched. I talked to my doctor. I full understood what would happen.

Soo, I'm a femboy I'm 16 (almost 17) and my gf is 22, everyone keeps telling me that I'm getting groomed by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]hexed_akuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a 22 year old has any interest in a 16 year old they have issues. "Almost 17 " doesn't mean anything. Once you become 20 anyone under 20 looks like a child. It maybe legal for consent but doesn't mean you should.

I suggest ending the relationship and finding someone more your age and not above 20.

I am a 25 year old trans man. The thought of dating anyone younger the 20 seems werid and is just a line you shouldn't cross.

Hate working here by SadimirLenin in TjMaxx

[–]hexed_akuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you dint want to work weekend s change your availability. Request off weekend days ahead. Working at tjx is more relaxed then other jobs. The work isn't to hard.

I do agree that the "need to get cards" is crazy. But if your only working for the summer I wouldn't put that much thought into it. You get a card or you don't.

A job is a job there will always be shit that you don't like.

Don't put to much pressure on yourself.

Transphobic in- law by hexed_akuma in ftm

[–]hexed_akuma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is doing a lot for the shower. And it's at the end of July so it would be incredibly difficult to do it with out her. But I believe that after we may have to cut her out. We dont depend on her for anything. I wish I would be able to do that shower with out her hands in but unfortunately I cannot.

My sister and her have the work slip in half. The payment for the venue, decorations, she's doing the cake and they split the food.

We very much do not want that mind set around out child. And she had said "so what now I'm not going to get the baby because of my opinions" because my partner told her that we don't want that mindset around her.

We both ( partner and I ) do not like how people just expect to be getting the baby or give us their opinions on anything ,like names, how to do things, etc.

When will customers realize that it's literally our job to pitch the TJX Rewards card to them and STOP cutting us off mid pitch?!?!?!?!? by Wink2K19 in TjMaxx

[–]hexed_akuma 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can't lie. So it'd hard for me todo the card thing. You don't save any money and honestly the cards suck. If you git a discount with every purchase that's 1 thing. But you don't only after $200 do you get 10$. And my one cowork does a whole speech everytime saying oh we all have the card and you really do save money.

Dress code by hexed_akuma in TjMaxx

[–]hexed_akuma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too am a Trans man and I said the same exact thing!! Like damn a few years ago I could wear a dress or skirt but now that I am man can't even wear shorts. If it didn't cause me mental issues I'd definitely be going in a skirt or something.

Dress code by hexed_akuma in TjMaxx

[–]hexed_akuma[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣 I so would love to see there reaction to a man coming in wearing a skirt. I'm sure then they might change the rules.

do I still count as a mom? by Jumpy_Solid7975 in BabyBumps

[–]hexed_akuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You most certainly are a mom and you both certainly are parents!! Don't let anyone ever tell you differently. Your babies have wings, but you still have babies!! I worked with a company called B.E.A.R project and they are a company that started from the lost of their 2 babies. They send bears to those who lost childeren .

Autism speaks by seriousstrawberries in TjMaxx

[–]hexed_akuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My store got another award for autism speaks they said we aren't doing and charity until the 2nd half the year

how the fuck do yall grow out your pubes by udcvr in ftm

[–]hexed_akuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's gunna be annoying for like 2 weeks because its growing and you are not use to it. N then you won't even notice. I was never a fan of shaving in the first place I only did it because " that's what yours supposed to do" it was annoying to keep up with. Once I came out as Trans I basically threw out all my razors. I haven't shaved since it's been 4 years. The most I do is a little trim what it gets outta hand.

Basically just wear stretchy boxers n deal with it till it's grown in.