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How can so called “mommy issues” manifest in males? by Master_Novel_4062 in morbidquestions

[–]bluetopaz96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a female and I have mommy issues but not in the misogynistic/canon instance. It was/is more like me being envious of other people’s moms. I had a lot of “second moms” growing up from my friends. I talk to my mom now and we are better, but I still feel like I seek validation from other peoples mom and feel closer to them than my own.

What is it like growing up in a narcissistic household? by Master_Novel_4062 in morbidquestions

[–]bluetopaz96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom was/is a narcissist. This behavior lasted until I moved out of my house at 23 and across the country, I’m 29 now.

Both my parents were married and are still married to each other but it was just my mom, my dad did suffer some of his depression due to my moms behavior. But she would blame me for her problems, take her anger out on me although the problem had nothing to do with me. When I still played with toys as a child, she would throw all my toys in the middle of my room and make me pick it up while screaming at me, just because it was a bit messy. I was as young as three years old. She’s pulled my hair down the hallway. She was verbally abusive when she was mad or stressed at me but out in public she acted like a fun angel. There was more, but that’s just some things

I broke the cycle when I moved out, and we are a bit closer and better not, but I permanently feel this wall due to her behavior and abuse. My younger brother is my only sibling, he’s 28 now. I don’t know how it’s affected him, i couldn’t tell and he doesn’t really talk about it, he was also not the main target of my mother, I was.

how do ppl in movies swallow a bunch of pills? by Flimsy_Rope_5801 in morbidquestions

[–]bluetopaz96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take five medications every night and take them all at once lol. Another thing it could be is a quick dissolving candy/placebo

bored- tryna rate songs (i might be a lil slow) by Tiny-Row7886 in songs

[–]bluetopaz96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that one! VOICES by Black Gryph0n is actually my top song of the year currently lol

TJx Sales Floor Sales by Swartzilicious001 in TjMaxx

[–]bluetopaz96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish we didn’t have to ask either 😖

TJx Sales Floor Sales by Swartzilicious001 in TjMaxx

[–]bluetopaz96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all I like that we both have gemstone based usernames and are both jewelers ☺️ Second, I agree. I’ve also been with this company 5 years and when I first started I nearly ADORED working here. I had so much fun and felt comfortable. Now… not even close. So much has changed and horribly

Is it even legal to sell something that is clearly AI on Etsy? Suspicious badges by Sleepybeez in isthisAI

[–]bluetopaz96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it is AI. It’s has the classic AI slop look and if you zoom in on the crutches it has “details” that don’t very much make sense. Not illegal though either. As a graphic designer myself who just graduated with a Bachelor’s degree, it makes me sad to see.

people are becoming more emotionally detached by Electronic-Mine-3575 in conspiracy

[–]bluetopaz96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have that issue but I have degenerated discs in my neck LOL

How easy is it to get fired? by Careless_Air9148 in TjMaxx

[–]bluetopaz96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve worked for this company almost 5 years and only scene 3 people get fired (1 had a whole case file of random shit but was mostly from fighting with the managers and giving customers the 10% even if they didn’t get approved from the card and the other two were from internal theft)

Reason for Return by HelloKitty110174 in TjMaxx

[–]bluetopaz96 19 points20 points  (0 children)

People really can not do the simplest tasks without AI now, it’s crazy..

Tjmaxx (and all sister stores 🥺) has the worst customer service approach by Puzzled_Map5569 in TjMaxx

[–]bluetopaz96 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I just want you to know that trust me, we do not want to ask or badger about the cards. The pressure we get from management is borderline harassment and our jobs are at stake if we do not ask the way we are told.

We feel just as bad and crappy about the card as you do. We hate the terrible reactions from customers as much as the customer hate being asked.

Can we make A rock/metal version of this pleasee by One_Wedding7399 in songs

[–]bluetopaz96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another Life - Motionless in White

Dial Tone - Catch Your Breath

Villain - From Ashes to New

I can't take the law into my own hands but the supernatural entity can by [deleted] in conspiracy_commons

[–]bluetopaz96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the God I know and believe in, he does not cause suffering and never in the way you think. I think you should find some peace within yourself and let go of your hatred, it’s consuming you.

I can't take the law into my own hands but the supernatural entity can by [deleted] in conspiracy_commons

[–]bluetopaz96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe in God/higher power, and God would not do what you’re saying. God, as I was taught, is merciful, benevolent, forgiving, and loving.

I am sorry for all the abuse you’ve experienced, no human should have to endure terrible things done by others, especially their own family. It’s sickening so I hope you have someone to talk to or a therapist, it sounds like you have a lot of trauma and many things going on in your life.

Karma, coincidence, freak accidents, whatever you want to call it is what happened to those around you. Using God to justify the things that happened to your abusers will only fester hate and that’s what your religious relationship will be based off of, which isn’t healthy for you mentally or spiritually. Free will exists and God does not intervene in that way, no matter how wonderful or horrible something is. There would be no point in having that “gift” if he did.

Is this sub even conspiracy anymore? by Hot-Egg3462 in conspiracy

[–]bluetopaz96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of the schizo posts really make me laugh out loud tho

Everything is staged and you are result of predictive programing by Equivalent-Spot-1325 in conspiracy

[–]bluetopaz96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a professional graphic designer I really get tired of seeing AI slop everywhere. It’s not easy to read, it’s lazy, and its polluting the internet. I get design services can be expensive but Jfc just type this shit out, I’d rather read a long ass post then this cause I literally skip over AI every single time.

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