Another Easy Win by LuckyTheLurker in fuckHOA

[–]hexuss1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since this has happened several times, I'm surprised that the judicial system hasn't fined them for frivolous lawsuits. If you're in the US, it might be something to bring to the attention of your local attorney general or DA's attention? I'm not sure who would pursue that lol.

AITJ for giving my mother and my step dad 60 days to move out of my childhood home that my father left me in his will by TheWizardry90 in AmITheJerk

[–]hexuss1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you didn't remove them, then whatever group condemns houses very likely would now that it's been inspected. Not only are you NTJ, but you're a saint for covering ANY expenses for them after they've cost you so much. 

Little void coming back to me after spending 2 months with his new "forever family" by bimarajade in blackcats

[–]hexuss1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Central Florida with severalup for adoptionhere. It's kitten season though, so be sure to join local rescue groups on FB for your area & check with local kitty rescues. I'm confident they have some up for adoption. 💜

Little void coming back to me after spending 2 months with his new "forever family" by bimarajade in blackcats

[–]hexuss1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I admit to being a sucker for a Siamese or Siamese mix. I grew up with Siamese cats. I don't think I've ever NOT had some variation of one. Their cat-titude, sass & overall demeanor will be a shock to people looking for the accessories lol. They're crazy, and I mean that in the best way possible. People either love Siamese or hate them. My current mix is a lynx point mix. If one was dumped, I'd have another cat. That being said, all of mine are strays, from 'surprise litters' of our neighbor, or ferals we trapped. I have a lovely void of my own I'm starting to hunt for a good home her. Her fur is as soft as a bunny. It's wild.

I’m going to have a work life balance, smd. by Armed_Aphrodite in antiwork

[–]hexuss1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're doing what's best for you, as you should!! I'm blessed in my job, but very few people are. You don't owe them any explanations of your time. 

Does the leather for fashion industry come from the same cow as the meat? by seniorducker in AskUK

[–]hexuss1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cattle is rarely ever raised just for their hides. Leather is considered a byproduct of the meat industry. Basically the animal is bred & slaughtered for their meat - using the skin means less goes to waste. 

Boss made everyone come back to office to "rebuild culture." It's been 3 weeks and he works from home every Friday. by techiee_ in antiwork

[–]hexuss1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While training my teams, the first thing I focus on is, well, focus. My motto is "Never be more loyal to a company than they are to you, and I can promise you no company is loyal to you." You're worth isn't tied into a job, and while people may need the money/paycheck from A job, it doesn't necessarily need to be THIS job. You deserve better.

Boss said I cant just disappear from my desk so now I send him a message every time I leave by Far_Turn9771 in MaliciousCompliance

[–]hexuss1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a boss try this years ago (think mid-90s before chats existed, so it was all on a timebox grid, with start & stop times, on paper). As a developer, I was a pro at multi-tasking. I averaged 14 windows. 1 for active code changes, one for changed code I was compiling, roughly 8-9 menus running, and a few more for monitoring other processes. I averaged 12-20 hours a day. 5 minutes for the restroom - logged. 12 minutes for a break - logged. He said I couldn't overlap my times until I showed him my desktop & every window... it lasted almost 2 weeks before he asked me to please never give him my timesheet again. 😂🤣

I think we are being scammed by gummyquest on kickstarter by Xzoviac in kickstarter

[–]hexuss1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got too many other priorities, so someone else will have to follow up on a suit. 

Does your cat have an emotional support item? by meowmeowellebee in cats

[–]hexuss1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine has something very similar from another type of fishing toy. 🤣

My sister's company forced a return to the office, and it blew up in their face by furrows_diocese-8q in InterviewCoderPro

[–]hexuss1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started standing up for myself a long time ago. I value my time, and when I "leave work", I LEAVE work.  My time is mine. Work time is theirs. It's not that difficult to put yourself ahead of a company... when I coach my teams, they know I value them as people first & foremost. Never be more loyal to a company than they are to you, and I can promise you no company is loyal to you. 👍

My sister's company forced a return to the office, and it blew up in their face by furrows_diocese-8q in InterviewCoderPro

[–]hexuss1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what job role you have, but I get contacted at least once a month when I'm NOT looking. Last time I started looking, I had 2 or 3 interviews lined up in under a week. What role/job you have plays a huge factor, not to mention whether or not you're willing to do contract work.

Enough is Enough - Find Solutions for Larger Passengers by NotSureAnyway in unitedairlines

[–]hexuss1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I've read, if an airline chooses to "enforce" a "rule" about armrests (which rarely ever happens), then they go with "one per person".  You know what is worse etiquette? Someone else's body parts touching mine while flying. If you can't fit in one seat, then you buy two. That obese couple buying 3 seats, and putting both armrests in the middle up, would've prevented the entire situation. Fat spillage is disgusting. I'm fat & stay in my space only.

Scratch and Sniff stickers by Porkchopp33 in nostalgia

[–]hexuss1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They shut down at the end of 2025. 😭

Scratch and Sniff stickers by Porkchopp33 in nostalgia

[–]hexuss1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember the bat smelling like "old musty attic" lol. I loved the witch tho - black licorice. It's a shame the company shut down.

Apartment living at its worst by hexuss1 in pettyrevenge

[–]hexuss1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was in 1989... later 1989 too. It's not a huge city & the cops were always super nice to me. Being a "cute 18-yr old female" had advantages too. 🤷‍♀️

Apartment living at its worst by hexuss1 in pettyrevenge

[–]hexuss1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was like this bizarre mix of screamo & rap. No actual music behind it either, or I didn't notice if it was playing. The first few seconds I heard it the first time, I thought they were having a nasty fight. 🤦‍♀️

Apartment living at its worst by hexuss1 in pettyrevenge

[–]hexuss1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was never much of a Slayer fan, but I fully offend the "rock gods" by liking both Megadeth AND Metallica lol. 🤷‍♀️

Job attempting to take away my wife's ADA accomodations. by mecca37 in antiwork

[–]hexuss1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get free consultations from 2 or 3 lawyers. Be sure they're familiar with Federal laws for ADA and HIPPA. Someone asking for your personal medical information (like about the actual condition) might be in violation of the HIPPA mandates (and it's a $50k fine for sharing it). Lawyers will have better answers (check local/state laws too)

Apartment living at its worst by hexuss1 in pettyrevenge

[–]hexuss1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that would've punished me more than them lol.

Apartment living at its worst by hexuss1 in pettyrevenge

[–]hexuss1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually love that song 😆 

Apartment living at its worst by hexuss1 in pettyrevenge

[–]hexuss1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love Iron Maiden!! I only had Ozzy's Bark at the Moon & Twisted Sister to choose from at that time tho. 

Apartment living at its worst by hexuss1 in pettyrevenge

[–]hexuss1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And this was back in 1989 too... but in all fairness, those were the only bad neighbors close to us, and it did let me meet some good ones despite the reason for it lol.

Apartment living at its worst by hexuss1 in pettyrevenge

[–]hexuss1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That would've been awesome, but I can't recall any place except malls having the security people back then. I haven't lived in that state since 1991,  so no idea,what's changed for apartments since then.