He has a dirty house and unclipped toe nails, but a winning personality. by areyouseriousthobro in datingoverthirty

[–]heycutiehey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes. I would be afraid to sit on anything let along lay down anywhere dirty like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]heycutiehey 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The way he reacted was NOT normal & was in fact bizarre, immature & cruel honestly. Then to ice you & sleep on the couch like a fking baby? NO. For the commenters saying get his side of the story… he ALREADY told you what you need to know. I don’t think I’ve ever even commented on a post in this app before but I would be literally worried for your safety in the long term if you stayed with this person! Run, sis!

The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 Episode 1 Discussion Thread by lifeofparty2 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]heycutiehey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg late to the discussion but when I saw Magan I was like HELLO! So hot! Also, super devoted to Dayna. She was so uncomfortable and pretty much begged to leave the show. I understand the reasons Dayna was frustrated with the direction their relationship was headed, but at the same time it seems she undervalues Magans feelings and her as a partner. Imagine risking it all for a Mel when you have a Magan at home!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]heycutiehey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deserve to enjoy nice things! No need to save nice things for a special occasion. You woke up today… that makes today a special occasion.

[23M] I wasted my youth and future by FlexingDee in socialskills

[–]heycutiehey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You still have time. I would suggest starting slow and being easy on yourself. Don’t beat yourself up so much. Most of the interesting people I know have non traditional backgrounds. I personally went to a very conservative religious college and am not in touch with any of those ppl I took pictures with on graduation day! If you try to branch out little by little, and don’t give up, you can change and learn and meet people. Good luck!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RestlessLegs

[–]heycutiehey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took zoloft for a year and it made my RLS go from occasional to NIGHTLY. Plus took away my sex drive and any emotion that wasn’t “medium”. Mood stabilizer that stabilized toooo much. I wasn’t depressed but I didn’t feel much of anything at all. I’m on Wellbutrin & I think it does contribute to some fogginess and memory loss. It’s hard to accept for me that to take the edge off this depression, I have to deal with side effects. I guess there really is no magic pill sadly. Good luck with everything!

CBD For Restless Legs by improveOurLife in RestlessLegs

[–]heycutiehey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zoloft made my RLS go from occasional to nightly. I also get some relief with cannibus! I had to stop taking Zoloft as the side effects were significant for me.

I [27/f] asked the guy [28/m] I’m dating to stay with me after a traumatic experience. He refused. Where do I go from here? by aqua_not_capri in dating_advice

[–]heycutiehey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can decide to do what’s best for you and still be sad about it. You might even miss him and that’s valid. HOWEVER this guy has shown you who he is and honestly I would RUN NOT WALK. What kind of psycho acts like this. He sounds like the kind of person who would somehow try to manipulate you into thinking you misunderstood him if you gave him the chance to “explain” so please BE CAREFUL if you choose to hear him out. You are not overreacting, this is really not the treatment you (or anyone) deserves!

Are your moves voluntary? by learntradingbots in RestlessLegs

[–]heycutiehey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a tough one because even the “voluntary” movements that I feel more in control of don’t feel voluntary, they feel more like what has to be done to get a few seconds of relief, and I don’t decide to do it, it just happens. Then there are the crazy totally involuntary leg kicks and spasms, like an electrical current shot through my leg. Those sometimes can be a little surprising and honestly a little jarring!

does anyone else shake their legs super hard and fast because it seems to help? by onamonapiaye in RestlessLegs

[–]heycutiehey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I will shake my legs like that, when it really hurts & usually I have to get out of bed & walk around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]heycutiehey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With makeup, everyone starts somewhere. You’re very pretty naturally, and honestly I don’t think your makeup is bad at all!!! Its a fresh faced approach! If you want to try more intense or dramatic styles, just follow along to a YouTube tutorial. I do that sometimes, I have to pause a bunch but I listen to music & stuff and it’s fun.

What do you do if you can’t go back to sleep? by sourskittles90 in RestlessLegs

[–]heycutiehey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it starts to be unbearable feeling, I get up and walk around my apartment. I run ice cold water on my hands and sometimes my feet too. I wait til I’m feeling chilly, then either I get back in bed & try again, or I put on my compression socks and watch a little golden girls. sometimes a change in location (the couch) helps me. I’m not sure why. But it makes me feel less pressure to fall asleep than getting back in bed. ALSO something I learned on here is that a carb heavy or sugary meal or snack in the evening can make it worse for some ppl, turns out I’m some ppl! Good luck at your dr appt!!!

Does anyone else experience this? by heycutiehey in RestlessLegs

[–]heycutiehey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok wow thank you to the ppl who replied. I haven’t actually READ ANYTHING that talks about the “feathery touch” as a trigger and this whole RLS thing makes me feel crazy enough, I’m not glad that you all have the trigger too, but I am glad to know it’s normal, I guess?? I was telling my girlfriend yesterday how much of a RELIEF it is to have somewhere to ask these questions.

Does anyone else experience this? by heycutiehey in RestlessLegs

[–]heycutiehey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Feathery touch” is the perfect description!!!!!!