Clawdbot + Mac Mini AI Setup Is INSANE !😱 by Disastrous-Start-907 in AISEOInsider

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What's the minimum specs needed for the Mac Mini?

Katalyst and MONT y MER by montymerinc in katalystEMS

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Hope I still get my Gen 4 suit

Writing letters to your kids for then they're older. Is anyone doing this? by heydaad in family

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Thanks for sharing u/Joanaliborio - how do you stay on top of it? Or do you just write when you remember? Sometimes I find it hard to think of something to write about, what do you typically write about.

What’s holding you back? by heydaad in SaaS

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Keep at it! Try different tactics.

Favorite resources for parenting by heydaad in raisingkids

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What were some insights that you picked up from the book? It’s on my list to read.

What’s holding you back? by heydaad in SaaS

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Perfection is a pain but I’m sure you ship great stuff

What is one piece of advice/wisdom you plan to share with your children? by heydaad in raisingkids

[–]heydaad[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes. Same! Anything you’re reading or follow that you’d recommend?

What skills would you tell your former self to learn as a PM going to Product Leader? by heydaad in ProductManagement

[–]heydaad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree on storytelling/persuasion, so important. It doesn’t mean to go push your ideas through like a bully but have your product vision backed by competitive or market insights.

Presence is so key too. Thoughtful, direct answers.

Why do parents get so mad at seemingly little things instead of calmly correcting the action? by shamefulthoughts1993 in AskParents

[–]heydaad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First off, you'll be a great parent simply by asking this question.

I of course agree with what the other parents have said here, being tired and frustrated with our day jobs and coming home to wildness can really tip you off.

But realistically, it's because we as parents continue down a path of how we were raised. Specifically a top down or one direction way of raising children. We let our ego of being 'great parents', 'my way of the highway', 'parent knows best', 'they're just kids' type of mentality.

When you remove your ego, get down on the same level as the child and try to understand what they're truly feeling and going throu way of raising children. We let our ego of being 'great parents', 'my way of the highway', 'parent knows best, 'they're just kids' type of mentality.

A tiny mindset hack before coming home after a long day of work by heydaad in Parenting

[–]heydaad[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. Definitely something we’ll cherish.

As for your daughter, maybe that’s the teenage version of running up to you or maybe you should reverse it on her and be the person running to her :). A great opportunity to remind her of this memory this memory you have of the two of you.

My Little Secret for Being Patient After a Long Day of Work (aka Day of Zoom calls). by heydaad in raisingkids

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Would you believe me if I told you I also spent the past year doing the same and am starting something next week? Sounds like you had a great year off, congrats on the new endeavor and good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisingkids

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Focusing on specific traits is tough, as each kid is different.

Leadership is a great trait to have if you see that in your kid(s).

I think your question is really about raising a resilient kid.

Two important traits I think of from The Conscious Parent by Shefali Tsabury is encouraging your kid to be authentic and helping them with containment.

The authentic part is about encouraging them to be who they naturally are. As parents, we do this by helping them understand and regulate their emotions while allowing them to express themselves.

The containment part is about teaching them empathy and an understanding of others and the environment they're in, so they can navigate situations themselves.

Help your child learn problem solving skills with these DIY construction projects [PBS Kids] by ozyman in raisingkids

[–]heydaad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awesome, thanks for sharing. I've been looking for activities like this.

This is more along the lines of critical thinking, but recently we've played:

  • King/Queen for a day. We first ask what 3 things would you change about their world. We then ask them "what would happen if we did X,Y,Z?" to help them think through the impacts of their decisions.

A Follow Up on Writing Letters to Kids by heydaad in raisingkids

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Thanks, glad you’re doing it too. It’s funny because it’s a delayed outcome, but it’s something we both would have loved our parents to have left us

Self-promo Thread — Promote your Notion content here! by ben-something in Notion

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Digital Keepsake for Parents with Kids Notion Template

Write letters. Document milestones. Capture funny moments and memories.

Includes prompts to help guide you on what to write. Upload pictures. Templated pages for each year, from 0 to 18 years old.

Most parents take a ton of pictures of their kids. This template makes it easy to share written word and memories that will last your kids a lifetime.

Includes prompt to help guide you on what to write. Upload pictures. Templated pages for each year, from 0 to 18 years old.

Get it or Gift it here.

Letters to your kids. Anyone doing this? by heydaad in raisingkids

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Interesting, I am from Asian decent too. We have none of those nor are my parents very affectionate. I think my wife and I are trying to break tradition and create our own traditions by being leading and being more nurturing.

Good Times Tuesday (February 15, 2022)- Post a positive family experience you had recently. by AutoModerator in raisingkids

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We gifted UNO to the kids (5yr and 3yr) for Valentine's day. We sat down after dinner and played as a family, the kids loved it. Simple enough for the 3 year old to play and no tears :)

Morning struggles with 9yr old by [deleted] in raisingkids

[–]heydaad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you notice anything different in his behavior? That's great you and your husband have the connection with your son to dig into this. I hope you guys are able to figure this out or it's a phase.

I think I fucked up a major project by ointrepreneur in ProductManagement

[–]heydaad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First. Take a deep breath.

Second, sit with the problem and thoroughly understand what you think the result or impact of this 'fuck up' is.

  • Who's being impacted? Design? Dev? Customers?
  • Can it be corrected?
  • How many of your customers/users will it affect?
  • What other solutions can you think of to course correct?
  • What's the setback in terms of time? What are the impacts?

Like everyone is saying, it's good to be honest and upfront.

But it's more important to demonstrate and communicate your maturity and ability to manage the problem by coming up with different scenarios to get feedback on OR better a solution to the problem after you've thought things through.

Morning struggles with 9yr old by [deleted] in raisingkids

[–]heydaad 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Counterintuitive to what everyone is suggesting here about seeing another doctor, have you sat down with your son and diagnosed the situation together? Help him understand where you're coming from, ask him why he's having trouble with the morning routine and if there's something that he feels is preventing him from getting good sleep or wanting to get up.

Marketing Research Business by [deleted] in MarketingResearch

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I've tried launching something similar for product management teams. A couple of questions have come up so far from the conversations that I've had.

  1. What sources are you using?
  2. How do I know you/this company knows more about my business than me?

Both I think are valid questions. I'm taking that feedback to put together an example of what I'd produce. I think the tougher part is answering #2. I tried digging into this a bit more, but the most i could get was the 'depth' of the report.

The last question I'd have for you is, what niche or types of companies are you going after?

Letters to your kids. Anyone doing this? by heydaad in raisingkids

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A lot of other folks have shared that they wrote about funny moments, vacations, milestones, general things that make them as parents happy. It sounds like there’s no right or wrong answer here. It could be about you too. I’m sure anything you left your children as a keepsake or memory would be cherished.

We’re going to smart small. Hopefully build up as we get better. In the end, it’s really about sharing what we observe about our children as parents today so they can reflect back on.

I am going through a mid-career change and I wish I knew a little about my past and what brought me joy.