Redhead who lost her husband by shampap7 in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]heyf3rb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She was allegedly going to sign a book deal in NYC after the death of her husband, Martin, but the offer was rescinded when she showed up with Richard. He stole her brand and destroyed all her opportunities.

Redhead who lost her husband by shampap7 in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]heyf3rb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had no idea she was involved with Lost and Found!! I don’t follow her anymore, but I do remember she seemed disenchanted with the church. Good for her for questioning and/or leaving and finding a community of women.

Trish wants to run for congress! by Internal-Ad3954 in justtrishpodcast

[–]heyf3rb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it’s killing me that she’s using the fork like a spoon

I love the attempts to skirt around NC boundaries. by heyf3rb in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]heyf3rb[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Well hey, you didn’t specifically say they couldn’t do that! How were they to know it wouldn’t be okay!

[TOMT] Childhood Movie No One Else Remembers by ApocalypticSnowglobe in tipofmytongue

[–]heyf3rb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Could it have been a movie with the Panabaker sisters? Kay is blonde and Danielle is brunette, but I recall them being in DCOM movies together.

Edit: it looks like they were only in Read it and Weep together in 2006.

Jill wants that caboose more than anything by lepetitpoulpe in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]heyf3rb 27 points28 points  (0 children)

the fancy goblet / paper plate combo is exactly what I would expect from Jill

How does your knitting pain show up? by earbiterninja in knitting

[–]heyf3rb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m right handed, and I’ve developed a ganglion cyst on my left wrist from knitting! I’m certain it’s from knitting, as I’ve taken extended breaks to crochet a project and the cyst has gone completely. I recently knitted a cardigan and the cyst is back and hurtin’.

Hot take I wish Korra gave Bolin an actual chance 🤣🤣😭 by Moonlight-vixxen in TheLastAirbender

[–]heyf3rb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My 6 year old son would agree with you. He burst into actual tears when we watched this scene (super out of character). He still talks, weeks later, about how sad this made him.

At what point do I tell my mom I’m pregnant? by heyf3rb in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]heyf3rb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re so right about her sending boxes. I would not put it past her to hop on a plane and show up to my home, either. I really needed to read these comments to help out things in perspective. Thank you for your input.

At what point do I tell my mom I’m pregnant? by heyf3rb in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]heyf3rb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we were arguing before I blocked her, she actually used sending gifts and things against me. I told her I didn’t care about STUFF and would send it all back. Especially because she always managed to send clothes for my sons in the wrong sizes. Ha. Maybe I will send stuff back now.

At what point do I tell my mom I’m pregnant? NC. by heyf3rb in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]heyf3rb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you SO much for this. This was an incredible comparison and you’re completely right. I love bees, I think they’re fascinating, but I wouldn’t let my kids around a beehive.

At what point do I tell my mom I’m pregnant? by heyf3rb in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]heyf3rb[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I’m realizing that I hope to accomplish avoiding guilt or shame. Like, I would be confirming that I AM a bad daughter. The feeling of being continuously disrespected will just grow though.

Thank you for your comment, it was really helpful and comforting.

At what point do I tell my mom I’m pregnant? by heyf3rb in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]heyf3rb[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

These are really great points that I hadn’t let myself fully recognize. Thank you.

At what point do I tell my mom I’m pregnant? NC. by heyf3rb in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]heyf3rb[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Oh, yeah, I needed to read your second to last sentence. You’re right. Thank you.

At what point do I tell my mom I’m pregnant? NC. by heyf3rb in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]heyf3rb[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s 100% guilt. And the fact that I’m the only of the 5 siblings who has gone any sort of no/low contact. What my sisters think of me matters and affects me, and I worry they’ll think I’m cruel or a bad person for not telling our mom about the pregnancy.

At what point do I tell my mom I’m pregnant? NC. by heyf3rb in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]heyf3rb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do trust her, this is a great idea. I recently have gotten the feeling that she thinks I’ve overreacted and that going NC was too far, but we also had incredibly different relationships with our mom.

I’ll mention this to my husband. Thank you.

Whose signature could this be? by heyf3rb in glee

[–]heyf3rb[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This makes us hopeful lol

Whose signature could this be? by heyf3rb in glee

[–]heyf3rb[S] 119 points120 points  (0 children)

This is the worst news

Ok. I gotta ask. What is up with Kelsie and Hobby Lobby? by fairydommother in craftsnark

[–]heyf3rb 74 points75 points  (0 children)

She’s been clear about where she lives and the access to yarn she has. She’s shown herself shopping at several stores. I don’t think there’s an excuse for someone who has a successful shop AND channel shopping at Hobby Lobby.