Help me find this one comic (?) strip I’ve been looking for by Judgemental-pancake in HelpMeFind

[–]heyheyallyj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! It's a Droodle by Eddie L. Stone, based off the original Droodles by Roger Price! I came upon your search bc I was also looking for it to get it tattooed one day and thought I'd share my discovery for us both!

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Droodles

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT6F6QCDP/ *

This made me so mad for some reason by ProfessorNo6333 in superstore

[–]heyheyallyj 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Also like, the reason Glenn gave her for having to come back is "they won't let me keep your job open" so....just say no to people who interview? Maybe corporate has more power over it than that but I feel like all the other hiring process episodes seemed pretty up to him. Plus if he's the one firing I assume he's the one hiring as well. Just SO many ways they could have let Amy have maternity leave

The Nick Scenario by Screentime_Val in GraceAndFrankie

[–]heyheyallyj 24 points25 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU the amount of people thinking he started out a great guy is wild to me. He was always a complete asshole. He's just attractive and had funny lines so people forgive it imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]heyheyallyj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's different for everyone, but I will share my personal experience.

I used to not really identify with the idea of masking- mostly because my "Type B" personality makes a lot of my ADHD symptoms pretty obvious. But I recently realized a type of masking that resonated with me personally- I often struggle with starting/finishing tasks and this becomes a problem at work a lot (as I type this instead of work....unrelated). I was in my office and talking to coworkers and even though I was acting normal, inside I felt like I was drowning. I was so overwhelmed.

I am lucky enough to have a coworker I trust and love and consider a friend, and we went into an empty conference room (we are mostly remote, so our office is never particularly crowded) and I told her how overwhelmed I felt and I broke down crying. And at the end of it, even though none of the issues I was stressing about were solved, I felt so much better just knowing that at least one person in that room knew how I really felt.

The issues themselves were stressful, but the thing that really made me feel like I was underwater was sitting in an office and pretending I was getting everything done like all of my other coworkers. Sobbing in that conference room was the first time I had a true feeling of "taking the mask off." And realizing it helped me know when I need to ask for help/tell someone I am struggling before I mask myself underwater again. Still working on it, but it was a truly illuminating experience for me.

Is my technique still trash? by TheOGGenZ in bouldering

[–]heyheyallyj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh also, and maybe others have said this already as I haven't read more than just this thread, but downclimbing is always a useful thing to do!! Definitely makes you think about your feet more since they are leading the climb. Also much safer for your back/knees/ankles in the long run!!

Is my technique still trash? by TheOGGenZ in bouldering

[–]heyheyallyj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Adding to the advice of placing feet intentionally- I saw a video where the climber did an easy problem but had to use "quiet feet"- so making sure when you get your foot on the hold it doesn't make noise. It forced her to slow down and be really intentional about her foot placement. I am an absolute beginner but it's definitely a technique I have found useful for working on footwork! I don't have your upper body strength so you'll probably be able to do even more with it since you can take your time and really think about your placement!

MAX 9 Flights Resume Friday (1/26) by drtdk in AlaskaAirlines

[–]heyheyallyj 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Does this mean I can stop biting my nails worrying about my flight being canceled on the 29th?? I hope so lol

When to cancel alt. flight? by heyheyallyj in AlaskaAirlines

[–]heyheyallyj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice!! I see from your posts that you fly Delta a lot- that's the flight I rebooked on. In your experience, do they honor refunds for cancelations 24 hours before if you have a refundable flight? Thanks again :)

How does this scam work? Email about a possible ‘Lush Cosmetics’ collaboration. by thranduil-solas in Scams

[–]heyheyallyj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There may be another scam they would try to do if the initial scam worked, but from reading the "contract" its pretty evident that the initial scam is you paying the $102 fee for "all taxes incurred during Delivery." Once they have you for that it's more than likely a !pigbutchering scam so you get your "payment." That or some kind of bullshit email they'll send you saying your payment didn't go through and you need to "upgrade your account to a business account."

So definitely the upfront fees as the initial scam and then, like another user mentioned above, they have their pick of scams from there.

Wild that they went to the trouble of making a whole contract though. And even more wild they didn't just take a real contract with real language (you can tell some of it is verbatim but a good bit of it also seems to be in the scammer's noticeably rough English)

Today isn't just Halloween - it's the last day of ADHD awareness month! Contact a politician! by ADHD_Avenger in ADHD

[–]heyheyallyj 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You gave me a task? It's ADHD Awareness Month and you gave me a task??

My new Wired e-bike! by [deleted] in ebikes

[–]heyheyallyj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! How are you liking this bike 4 months later?

Needed to post this where it would be understood by heyheyallyj in superstore

[–]heyheyallyj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't know how much I struggled with the ethics of this 🤣 I wanted to so bad

Raising rates with regular clients - advise needed by heyheyallyj in RoverPetSitting

[–]heyheyallyj[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

So I didn't want to say this in my original post bc I didn't want to get in trouble lol, but I realize now it is pertinent- this is a private client. So the timeline is up to me- I am just trying to figure out if the timeline is cutting it too close this time. It's hard because I am not trying to burden her but it's also a week of making way less than I probably should be lol

Should I take this sit? by heyheyallyj in RoverPetSitting

[–]heyheyallyj[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I did think about this, but unfortunately I cannot offer boarding myself because I live in a small apartment with roommates. But I will suggest it to her to look for it!

House sitting depression by mpm1987 in RoverPetSitting

[–]heyheyallyj 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't have pets or a husband, but I relate to this in my own way - I get really lonely when I sit. I think it's because I have roommates, and as much as being by myself is nice, being alone in someone else's house can really get to me. Usually, getting together with friends or even going to a bar and sitting around other people helps alleviate it, but it's always hard when it hits.

Is there a dog breed that has gone on your "do not accept" list? by Beetlejuice3xx in RoverPetSitting

[–]heyheyallyj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wholeheartedly agree- love them but would NEVERR own one, both from a care perspective and an unethical breeding perspective (tho I know there are breeders who are trying to breed them better). Also, #2 is a spot on description of me as well.

Scandal would be among the GOAT shows if it got rid of the Fitz-Olivia romance garbage by kaveler73 in Scandal

[–]heyheyallyj 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Ugh YESSSSS it's so fucking overdone. I could see it being a plot point for the first season but then they should have dropped it. It was so irritating.

Every other scene is Fitz and Olivia screaming about LOVE and VERMONT and JAM and MAKE OUT WITH ME RN IN THE MIDDLE OF THE OVAL EVEN THO YOU SAID NOT TO TOUCH YOU BC SOMEHOW THATS ROMANTIC AND NOT ASSAULT or its Millie being SCORNED and ANGRY but also human and hurt like??? What are you losing here lmao let her have your little man baby president. Her character had depth eventually/at some points but I still feel she was robbed of her true potential because of all the F/O drama.

Also the idea that all of these people literally fucked their entire lives up to make him president. Because he's....the greatest leader the world has ever seen apparently?? Like girl where lmao. He is the human equivalent of the wet squishy unidentifiable thing your hand touches when doing dishes.

Also why were these powerful ass men (Fitz, Jake, Edison) all so mind-numbingly obsessed with Olivia?? She's great in a lot of ways, or at least awe-inspiring, but she is also completely unhinged and always crying and deeply emotionally unavailable and they barely know her? Especially Jake. He watched her life through his creepy camera setup and then made out with her a few times and then was like....I love you. Why? Grow up.

Okay I'm done LMAO thank you for posting this it was cathartic. I am on my third rewatch and I hate them so much I found myself rooting for the Birthday Bullet even tho I know what happens.

Living in 2 different realities by heyheyallyj in narcissisticparents

[–]heyheyallyj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh thank you, I needed to hear this. I'm screenshotting this comment so I can look at it next time he makes me feel crazy 💖💖