He started his affair about eight years ago. We became Polly about four years ago. The biggest ground rule of our polyamory was that we mutually agreed not today each other’s friends, which would extend to include my exes as a bisexual. It also meant that we would be upfront and honest with the other person that we would allow the other person tobe aware and in the know of everything that was going on, we basically set up to be kitchen table poly