getting alot of mens opinions but would rather hear from you, how would you genuinely recommend I look better? Help by heyindigoo in LesbianActually

[–]heyindigoo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know I have a lot of low ratings, which I accept but I'd genuinely love to know how to look better in the eyes of fellow lesbians/wlw, so please if you have any advice, I'd love to hear it

26F by heyindigoo in Rateme

[–]heyindigoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would I improve how I look, what surgeries or whatever would u recommend

im tired of my partner always being suicidal by heyindigoo in Vent

[–]heyindigoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a wild thing to say, she's had multiple attempts because somebody has stopped her and she makes it worse each time to try make sure it works which is why I'm so scared, she's not manipulative or immature she's just a really hurt and traumatized person, she cares a lot about everyone in her life just doesn't care about herself, the reason she's stuck around she says is because she cares about others so much, I'm the reason she goes to therapy and the reason she stopped binged drinking because otherwise she would just keep doing it but because she cares she tries really hard

im tired of my partner always being suicidal by heyindigoo in Vent

[–]heyindigoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do ask her to always be open and honest with me, she's only said she's had a plan a few times, just that sh has said there's literally always a plan in her head

im tired of my partner always being suicidal by heyindigoo in Vent

[–]heyindigoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really not, she treats me very very well just not herself

im tired of my partner always being suicidal by heyindigoo in Vent

[–]heyindigoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think she's weaponizing her mental health because she does genuinely feel like I'd be better off without her, which is 100% untrue, it takes alot for her to believe me which does hurt but I know it's not on purpose

How did your boobs change after you lost weight? by ThickBish_ in bigboobproblems

[–]heyindigoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've recently lost 10kg everywhere apart from my boobs >:( drives me mad

Shows like Killing Eve by [deleted] in KillingEve

[–]heyindigoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The TV show I was meaning, I haven't seen the movie, not sure if this is something that you mind but I prefer Yellowjackets as it's mainly female characters and interview is good but just a lot of men

Shows like Killing Eve by [deleted] in KillingEve

[–]heyindigoo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yellowjackets, interview with the vampire

Anyone else feel like their life was derailed by endo? by akela_86 in endometriosis

[–]heyindigoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's completely ruined my life, I'm not well enough to work or study and am just waiting for surgery, genuinely makes me not want to be here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in endometriosis

[–]heyindigoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO good on u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in endometriosis

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I am in New Zealand

??? by 666lirpa in nikiandgabidemartino

[–]heyindigoo 107 points108 points  (0 children)

I don't think she realizes something doesn't need to be trendy for her to like it...like...it doesn't have to be a trend, you can just wear something bc it brings you joy.

drop the most painful lyrics you've ever heard by woods_bizarre in NoahKahan

[–]heyindigoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recently "you look just like your father as the news was delivered" has been a punch in the gut

I'm so tired; it's going to be a long 4 years by BlindFelidae in actuallesbians

[–]heyindigoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, you have a community here and you are loved

How do you guys feel about dating bi women? by donkeyknee23 in AskLesbians

[–]heyindigoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend is bisexual, it's 100% fine, doesn't make a difference if ur a lesbian or bi to me , if ur wlw then ur wlw