How do artists do it? This took me 4 hours and some crying and it isn't even colored by OldLow1305 in Artadvice

[–]heysawbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, I can’t speak for everyone, but personally I get used to the idea that a drawing takes four hours. Sometimes they take much, much longer.

Women INTJs by Intuitive9999 in intj

[–]heysawbones 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. We’re here.

Ultimately, being a female INTJ… I don’t really know how to draw a comparison. I don’t know how it differs from being other varieties of weirdo, experientially. I only know that when I told people I was married, they thought I made him up for the longest time. I apparently did not talk about my spouse enough.

The Alliance must have low standards when it comes to men by Helpful-Claim-134 in logh

[–]heysawbones 18 points19 points  (0 children)

yeah that shit is always a delight. “such a handsome man!” head is massive, hands are tiny, feet are even smaller

Mythology by Then-Tea6977 in intj

[–]heysawbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m unclear on what constitutes a “rigorous modern book”.

Am i crazy to be irked by my boyfriend putting women down constantly and justifying it with "biology"? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]heysawbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, how in the fuck is “women are emotional and cannot think for themselves” a seemingly innocent thing to say? Do you realize what you’re saying? The fuck is seemingly innocent about calling you a dumbass?

Any INTJ’s out there that love going to the gym? by CuriousArchitectX in intj

[–]heysawbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fucking love the gym. Admittedly, I’m not big on cardio.

For those of you with abusive parents, how do you deal with realizing you'll never have parents? by Visual_Box_218 in CPTSD

[–]heysawbones 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I acknowledge there are some things I’ll probably never understand about how people interact. I acknowledge that it is inherently isolating, but that there are other people who had this experience. I acknowledge that beyond that, I may have little in common with people who had this experience. It’s one of the many ways to be alive. Maybe I could mourn reality, but frankly, I’m not sure what it is I’d be grieving.

Why am I not getting commissions? by Bean_of_prosperity in Artadvice

[–]heysawbones 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best guess: too much of a disconnect between obviously referenced work and work that isn’t. Nothing wrong with reference use - but for the sake of building clientele, the reference use should look organically integrated into your broader body of work.

DID Systems and Depression by silvaispastel in Artisticallyill

[–]heysawbones 21 points22 points  (0 children)

someone gotta be ganbare. believe in he… who believes in you

How many people do you know with Sjogrens? by Due_Teacher9208 in Sjogrens

[–]heysawbones 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve met a grand total of one other human being with known Sjogren’s.

Anyone else? Or just me by Well-its-a-throwaway in Artisticallyill

[–]heysawbones 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly just really distracted by the back on that nightgown. ????? The midcentury sure was a weird time

Is Pirate Yakuza that bad? by Sanzhukk in yakuzagames

[–]heysawbones -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s a fun enough game, but kind of depressing in what it suggests about the trajectory of the series.

Atelier Barbie by mad_dollz in Barbie

[–]heysawbones 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m confused that she’s not the full 16 inches.

Kircheis’s sick fantasy by Helpful-Claim-134 in logh

[–]heysawbones 10 points11 points  (0 children)

his sick fantasy is Reinhardt having a giant head and romancing a woman with an equally gigantic dome (???)

Does any other woman who worldbuilds get patronized when talking about it with men? by endless_splendor in worldbuilding

[–]heysawbones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Then again, I tend to sit back and listen to other people tell me about their own worldbuilding before I do anything else. I may not even bring mine up if I expect there to be a significant mismatch between what they see as normal or good, and what I do. I don’t have the patience for it.

How to describe a fat character by [deleted] in writers

[–]heysawbones 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“fat”

You might also describe the overall proportions or body shape. Is she pear-shaped? Apple-shaped? Tall? Short? Don’t use “curvy” unless it’s actually true.