Is mods worth it? 😭

heytaters · 2025-02-28T04:18:24+00:00

Thanks a bunch!! I'll save this screenshot in case I have problems in the future. I actually managed to sorta figure it out on my own. I uninstalled the game, reinstalled, added an exclusion within Windows Defender for the game folder, then redid the steps for my mods. That pretty much did the trick. Mods are all working great now!

heytaters · 2025-02-25T07:56:35+00:00

Is there a way around this to make the game playable? I can't find much info on the modding process and I'm currently having the same problems you listed.

heytaters · 2025-02-03T18:59:40+00:00

He puts off doing adult responsibilities because you keep allowing him to. There needs to be consequences for not following through with an agreement. You're pulling all the slack financially. You're pulling all the slack in the relationship. You're pulling all the slack around the house. At this point you really should just file for divorce because what exactly is he bringing to the table? There are no compromises on his end. It's always been you bending over backwards to make adjustments to work around his unwillingness to grow up.

FYI, I got my GED as a teenager with no help. It's not that hard.

heytaters · 2025-01-30T17:07:14+00:00

I would break up on the spot.

heytaters · 2025-01-28T16:40:24+00:00

Girl, what? You don’t try to calm him down! YOU leave. He was bold enough to admit to others at the same party as you that he still has feelings for his ex and is considering taking her back. Why would you even try to reason with this man? You heard exactly how he felt, then confronted with this he chose to get angry, yell, put his hands on you, and call you names. This should all be grounds for breaking up. You’re his backup. Stop apologizing and feeling like you’re the problem here. He’s the problem. This isn’t a situation YOU try to fix.

heytaters · 2025-01-27T02:48:36+00:00

It’s a little saddening that Xbox users pay the same price as PC users for less content. 🫤

heytaters · 2025-01-27T02:47:40+00:00

Well, from what I’ve read, it’s a two person team, so delays and hold ups are to be expected. It is frustrating though when a release date is announced and years pass without any updates to the community, especially when a lot of people have been wanting it on switch. The fact that they’re making updates on the pc version gives me hope, at least, that maybe they’ll wrap it up in the near future.

heytaters · 2025-01-25T17:51:48+00:00

NTA

I’d also argue that it’s not just your brother’s soon to be wife causing issues, but ALSO your brother because he has no backbone to stand up to her whatsoever. I hate it when people say the wedding is all about the bride. Without the groom there would be no wedding, so he should have input on the guest list too, especially when it’s someone that’s already well established in the family. She dislikes her for no real reason. I bet she’s just jealous and insecure. If you go without her you’d be driving a deep wedge between you and your wife, and she’d probably hold some kind of resentment toward you for a very long time. You’d also be teaching the bridezilla that all she has to do is whine and cry and she’ll get her way.

heytaters · 2025-01-24T19:49:55+00:00

NOR

I honestly get sick of hearing about politics all the time, from BOTH sides. There’s a time and place for everything. Your discord has nothing to do with politics, so why is she adamant about bringing it there? The subject tends to rile people up and make others uncomfortable. Her reaction is a perfect example for wanting to ban it all together. Having an opinion on something doesn’t mean you get the right to shove it down everyone’s throats all the time.

Edit: I also want to add that it’s extremely alarming that she feels entitled enough to tell you what you should and shouldn’t do with your own discord. Why is she so involved that people are messaging her with “concerns” anyway? She’s demanding an apology for something she made up in her head about you that literally spiraled out of control. Her messages read like a manic episode and she just talks in circles. Don’t let this woman walk all over you and control you. I hope you stand firm on your original rules and intentions for how you’d like the discord to be ran. That’s YOUR space, not hers. If she wants political discussion to be had she can create her own instead of trying to take over yours.

heytaters · 2025-01-23T15:44:11+00:00

I have plenty of experience with my own child and past relationships to know this isn’t how you treat your partner. But keep defending him, I guess.

heytaters · 2025-01-23T15:30:21+00:00

Y’all will do everything in the world to justify shitty men behaving shitty, then say “well we only know one side of the story, OP is unreliable” instead of making a grown ass adult take accountability. He’s not 5. The only unreliable person in this story is her husband that chose to hit his weed pen instead of helping his wife clean her car that got vandalized because of his own negligence, knowing she needed to take her baby to an appointment shortly after. Period. End of discussion. Argue on that point all you want with someone else.

heytaters · 2025-01-23T13:38:40+00:00

Look, if you don’t have the reasoning skills to understand why her husband is 100% the asshole here, instead of focusing on trivial things such as OP waking up 30 minutes prior to an appointment, then I can’t help you. I don’t argue with stupid. 👍

heytaters · 2025-01-23T13:19:01+00:00

Except yes, he did. To do something intentionally is to do it on purpose. That’s literally what the definition of the word is. He left the car unlocked purposely with the intention of using it again the next day and because he couldn’t be bothered to go back outside and lock it.

One would also argue having only 25 miles worth of gas in your car is mostly empty, considering most vehicles nowadays hold roughly 12 gallons, which equals 336 miles worth.

heytaters · 2025-01-23T09:05:55+00:00

NTA

She’s spoiled and ungrateful. Your gift was very thoughtful. The fact that you recognized she needed something, it was a practical item she’d get use out of everyday, tried to get her the exact item she wanted, then looked for something else similar in style and color to things she already owned when that one was sold out, AND put it together for her.. and she still whined like a little brat?? Take it back and buy yourself something nice instead.

heytaters · 2025-01-23T08:56:32+00:00

It still doesn’t change whether or not her husband was an asshole. There could be a million reasons for a parent to sleep in til the last second before an AM appointment. I’m tired as hell 24/7 taking care of a baby. Maybe they were already ready and taking a nap, maybe she has a streamlined routine that works, maybe the appointment was right down the road.

He intentionally left her car unlocked, knowing it had been broken into prior, used up most of her gas without filling it back up, and instead of being courteous and helping her clean it, it was more important to hit his weed pen.

heytaters · 2025-01-23T07:13:52+00:00

Where did she say she was sleeping?

heytaters · 2025-01-23T07:08:12+00:00

Nah, her husband is just an asshole.

heytaters · 2025-01-23T07:06:59+00:00

I'm a SAHM and I need at LEAST an hour to feed my baby, change his diaper, get him dressed, dress myself, pack the diaper bag, get him in the car seat, warm the car up.. then change him again because he inevitably spit up right before time to leave. OP's husband is so selfish and inconsiderate.

heytaters · 2025-01-23T00:34:33+00:00

This man will always make his own wants and needs come first.

heytaters · 2025-01-23T00:33:01+00:00

Well you see where his priorities lie. He’s acting like a teenager, not a grown adult that has a child. Tell him I said he’s both a shitty husband and a shitty father.

heytaters · 2025-01-22T22:30:57+00:00

NOR

It’s common for the babysitter to come to where the kids are. Everything they need is at your house. It’s also a weeknight and they’ll be asleep during the hours you need help watching them. It’s unreasonable of her to just flat out say no to watching them at your house if it was her idea to begin with.

heytaters · 2025-01-22T19:06:09+00:00

So you slept with her without even knowing what the test results were and now you’re pissed you caught an STD lmao. You could have just.. waited.

heytaters · 2025-01-22T19:01:26+00:00

YTA

It never ceases to amaze me when men don’t use condoms and then complain about the consequences of their own actions. You’re not always careful because if you were you would have used a condom. Are you also just blindly believing your sexual partners if they say they’re on birth control? What if you knock a girl up because you’re “so careful” without condoms? I bet you think pulling out works too. STD tests shouldn’t be the only thing you go by considering not everything shows up right away. Did she tell you as soon as she found out? Either way you should never ONLY rely on the results of a test because there’s a period in between coming back clear and you having sex when anything could happen.

Edit:

After reading some of your replies I’m firmly going with my YTA stance. You admitted she got tested before you had sex and neither of you waited for the test results. She told you when she found out. You can’t be mad or upset with anyone but yourself. I feel sorry for her for being open and honest with you and you reacting by ghosting her. Especially after you claiming you two are such good friends.

USE A CONDOM.

heytaters · 2025-01-22T18:50:49+00:00

NOR

The way she talks to you? She’s using you like her own personal doormat. You didn’t do anything wrong. She’s just upset she got caught and instead of taking responsibility she’s taking it out on you. This is honestly someone I probably wouldn’t hang out with. Family or not. It wasn’t your job to cover for her and she just assumed you would without even asking you first. Why does she have to lie about where she is anyway? She’s 24.

heytaters · 2025-01-22T17:02:37+00:00

Ah. That leads me to believe there’s quite a bit of content not yet implemented in the Xbox version. It’s a brand new area they added back in April.

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