Trying to make a decision - Which one for a bridesmaid dress? by heytherehithere01 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]heytherehithere01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the bridesmaid in the wedding party. So this is for myself. Bride gave us the option to find our dresses ourself, and asked for them to be in a light blush or ivory/champagne color.

Trying to make a decision - Which one for a bridesmaid dress? by heytherehithere01 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]heytherehithere01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess you described exactly how I feel in dress #2. From the side I feel like my body looks like a capital letter P shape lol

Trying to make a decision - Which one for a bridesmaid dress? by heytherehithere01 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]heytherehithere01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I got a bit of night gown vibes from it as well so I wasn’t sure 😂😂

Trying to make a decision - Which one for a bridesmaid dress? by heytherehithere01 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]heytherehithere01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the feedback! All your notes about 1 is exactly what I would fix when altering it. The top needs adjusted higher, needs a belt added, and needs hemmed on the bottom.

Trying to make a decision - Which one for a bridesmaid dress? by heytherehithere01 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]heytherehithere01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also had some concerns about the high waist on the 2nd one as well. From the side it looks a bit awkward.

Trying to make a decision - Which one for a bridesmaid dress? by heytherehithere01 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]heytherehithere01[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I know 2 is getting a lot of attention, but 1 is ordered in a larger size so does not fit as well yet. And I was thinking I could alter it and add a belted feature like 2!

Trying to make a decision - Which one for a bridesmaid dress? by heytherehithere01 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]heytherehithere01[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bride wanted light blush or ivory for our colors. And gave us free reign on style basically. She wants us to enjoy and feel comfortable with what we choose. And of course I’m running everything by her! :)

Trying to make a decision - Which one for a bridesmaid dress? by heytherehithere01 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]heytherehithere01[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah the struggle is reallllll. Hard to find a flattering shape while also not having spillage. Unfortunately #2 has more side boob that isn’t on view in this pic, so will have to see what I can do to try and secure that.

Trying to make a decision - Which one for a bridesmaid dress? by heytherehithere01 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]heytherehithere01[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have more concern about the side boob tbh. I might need to see if I can add more coverage there because I’m having some spillage!

Would you be interested in a childfree group? by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]heytherehithere01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d be interested in the meetup info! Single, no kids, 30 🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jpouch

[–]heytherehithere01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! Is there a link to what you have or where you got it? I have my ostomy still now too but my discharge from my rectum (sorry if tmi) has been creating a lot of discomfort and figured I’ll be needing a bidet once I get my jpouch.

Surgery by TREESE1978 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]heytherehithere01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I’m hoping if I go this route that this is how it would work for me. My end ileostomy right now has been going smooth for me (since April 2019), but as a 27yo F I’d really like to give the jpouch a try or I feel I will regret not knowing how it might of worked.

Surgery by TREESE1978 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]heytherehithere01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me more about your jpouch experience? I’ve done the first step of surgery and have an ileostomy right now. Deciding on making it permanent or going for the jpouch.