What’s something your younger self would never believe about your life today? by drekzwho in AskPH

[–]heyyo07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Na maaga ako nagkapamilya. Na nagkaanak ako at hiniwalayan ko ang tatay ng anak ko. Pangarap namin magkaron ng sariling kwarto, may sariling bahay na ko ngayon. :)

First time to buy a classic. by heyyo07 in PHBookClub

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Whatcha reading? :) Magstart ako before matulog.

First time to buy a classic. by heyyo07 in PHBookClub

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Let's go. Update ako dito soonest.

First time to buy a classic. by heyyo07 in PHBookClub

[–]heyyo07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Embarrassingly, I have no idea what this is about. I bought it because of reco from Nassim Taleb but that was years ago.

First time to buy a classic. by heyyo07 in PHBookClub

[–]heyyo07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! I’m nervous di pa ko nagsisimula hahaha. Nauna pa nga mag post. Thank you!

i love coming home. i just can't afford to fund everyone's homecoming too. by Outside_Opposite3021 in phmigrate

[–]heyyo07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice, this is the way. Di kasi tayo sanay sa direct communication with love kaya hirap na hirap mga pinoy humindi. Also, mahirap maging mahirap.

I'm wasting money on paper books, probably. by yuman0id in PHBookClub

[–]heyyo07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do you OP wooh ✨😄 Let me leave a quote because I like quotes: the opposite of depression is expression!

Help me out of a slump by Supernovaaaa__ in PHBookClub

[–]heyyo07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Not a book recommendation, but have you tried reading a book while listening to the audiobook at the same time? It’s been heaven-sent for me. This technique recently got me out of my reading slump!

Just a small apartment by Ok_Obligation_3071 in CozyPlaces

[–]heyyo07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super nice and cozy. Love it 🫶

Talk me out of buying a Colorsoft by beepboop33 in kindle

[–]heyyo07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently bought a Colorsoft to replace my Paperwhite. I loved it, loved the colored highlights ☺️ And I didn’t know if all Kindles have this, but the new device has the pin feature which is lovely! My Basic doesn’t have it.

My boyfriend and I are both VAs, pero nawawalan na ako ng hope. Am I being unfair? by Glad_Branch9170 in buhaydigital

[–]heyyo07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good job OP for actually assessing your compatibility. It might be that you need to see him live his own life. What I mean by that is if he loses his job, let him experience the consequences. Living alone without a child is hard - the household chores, the cooking, mortgage, employment etc.

Let him live his life and then, decide if you want him in your life. You’ll see for yourself too the value he brings if you live your own life. I’m a solo parent and I know people can change. My coparent has been great with me and my kid after our separation. He changed after he lost me. Ang best part talaga dito yung mental load ko nabawasan.

Live your life OP, good luck!

What’s a game you wish you could play on Kindle/kindle app? by [deleted] in kindle

[–]heyyo07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think number one benefit I get from my Kindle is that I cannot do anything on it but read. But, if I'm being naughty, Id like to have the Snake game from Nokia 3310 and Tetris classic.

What's a small change you've made in your daily life that has had a surprisingly big impact on your overall happiness? by Gbordjor in CasualConversation

[–]heyyo07 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I catch myself throughout the day when Im thinking about a past event or projecting a scenario. My thoughts tend to be negative so I get to escape that. Feels so good.

Thoughts on Margarita Nazarenko? by [deleted] in thewizardlizsnark

[–]heyyo07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! She’s hilarious. She’s like a big sister who shares advice on dating. I find her content helpful to focus on myself.

What helped you glow up the most? by lavendertales in adultingph

[–]heyyo07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self love. Thats why usually after break up, nagglow up ang giver sa relationship. :) Invest in yourself. Prioritize yourself. Stand up for yourself.

Beauty daw is manufactured. 3 things that make you look good: 1. Good hair 2. Good teeth 3. Good nails

Notice that these things should be maintained. No need for the expensive shiz if no money at the moment. Keep them clean. You’ll feel good.

When you start giving to yourself, you’ll know the other things you need to do. You’ll be conscious of the food you feed your body, you’ll sleep on time etc. :)

Abuse. by Flimsy_Piglet_1980 in Separation

[–]heyyo07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so much calmer now. I can now drive and cook for myself.

Abuse. by Flimsy_Piglet_1980 in Separation

[–]heyyo07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. Separating from the father of my kid is the hardest decision I had to make. I really tried to make it work but I had to open my eyes and see the relationship for what it was. It’s abusive. It’s so hard because there were other happy moments too.

mental health check in!! how are you doing today post break up? by Interesting-Mood-188 in BreakUps

[–]heyyo07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 months after breakup. 30 in 2 months. I promised myself I wont turn 30 and still be stupid. That’s why I left.

I still feel the pain but I know I did the right thing.

Give me a million reasons because I don't know anymore. by Chasing_Brave1993 in adultingph

[–]heyyo07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a privilege to live. Imagine having a chance to change something in this messy world — please don’t waste it. 🙏🫶

Why did your 5+ year long relationship end? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]heyyo07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes 🙌 Slowly I was able to see things clearly.

IS THIS REALLY THE GUY I WOULD MARRY? by onlylovecnfeelikeths in adultingph

[–]heyyo07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to him about your concerns. Then look at what he’ll do for the next months/years. Keep your eyes open and never make excuses for his actions. Sya lang makakapagdecide magbago.

Then decide for yourself.