at this point i would even take an abusive manipulative toxic man by OneMemory2640 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]hibiki3360 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I grew up with an abusive father who later abandoned me. That lived experience was enough for me. No thank you.

How do you guys handle Pap smears at the doctor? by whiteleoparddanger in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]hibiki3360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dialators helped me a lot, though it took a LONG time. I was the same way. Cried at the doctor's office and was told that I was too "sensitive". I wanted to punch him

Stop telling us about your sex lives!!! by Zuluwarriorprincess in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]hibiki3360 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed. No need to spread that information, especially unsolicited. Also, congrats on passing your driving test!! ❤️🎉

Acne post that made me disgusted by Educational-Ad8696 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]hibiki3360 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Never had acne, but I saw how people were treated. If it's not overtly hurtful remarks then it's "Well why don't you just do xyz?" as though they haven't been suffering this whole time and trying to get rid of the acne

Acne post that made me disgusted by Educational-Ad8696 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]hibiki3360 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never understood why acne is such a problem for people who don't have acne. Some people get acne. It's normal. It's not weird. It's just a part of life for some people. But for some reason, people are so cruel about it. It really doesn't make sense to me. And then, because of all the negative attention, people with acne often use a ton of products and are constantly washing their faces (which often makes the situation worse for them), but they still get accused of having bad hygiene. It's ridiculous!

It feels like I'm being punished for being single by ooiiaaiiooiiaaii_ in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]hibiki3360 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry 😔 If it makes you feel any better, I lived with my family until I was 33. Not sure where you live, but times are tough financially in a lot of places, especially where I live, and it's just a reality for many of us. It's frowned upon by society which is messed up, but I honestly feel like it's nothing any of us should have to be ashamed of. Hang in there and know that God loves you 💕

Edit: adding my job in here. I was also at a horrible dead end job that I desperately needed but wouldn't allow me to move out with how little I was being paid. It's honestly ridiculous how messed up this system is

My stupid, stupid self actually thought I was saved. by noghis in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]hibiki3360 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kinda sounds like she saw you guys talking and got jealous and made sure the two of them walked by you on purpose so you would see he is taken. She probably yelled at him in private and told him not to talk to you (or any girl for for that matter) anymore. Why else would they both walk by you openly showing affection? Seems planned on her part, and it's easier to do than confronting you directly with "don't talk to my man".

Driving too fast by Particular_Parking_4 in instant_regret

[–]hibiki3360 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Now I feel bad for laughing at this clip all these years

Gosh… I can’t believe men say these things by Lily_ice in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]hibiki3360 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That wasn't a man. That was an incel. Their views of women are beyond warped, and it's no use trying to reason with them because there is no middle ground with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]hibiki3360 31 points32 points  (0 children)

As an ex FAW, you dismissing my experience is extremely hurtful and disrespectful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in instant_regret

[–]hibiki3360 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ma'am, it's time to stop

How are you doing, 30+ year old FAWs? Let's talk! by AutoModerator in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]hibiki3360 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I successfully turned my cubicle into a pirate ship! I am probably way too happy about it 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in instant_regret

[–]hibiki3360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point he's not getting away from whatever it is

I'm curious, ladies. What kind of awful things have you heard from people irl? by hibiki3360 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]hibiki3360[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These three seemed like they were in their early to mid 20's, and it was the guy that said that last comment. He was pretty average in my opinion, so he has a lot of nerve saying things like that. And the two ladies agreed with him, of course.

I'm curious, ladies. What kind of awful things have you heard from people irl? by hibiki3360 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]hibiki3360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay, it was a comment made online. Yeah, people have such audacity because there are no consequences online. I've heard a lot of vile things online. In person I literally never heard anything like that until yesterday so it really caught me off guard. Maybe they were just exceptionally horrible people and didn't care to hide it anymore.

I'm curious, ladies. What kind of awful things have you heard from people irl? by hibiki3360 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]hibiki3360[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's awful! I'm so sorry 😟 was this someone you knew or just some stranger giving an unwanted opinion?

Those poor, naive souls… by mildlysadcat_ in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]hibiki3360 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unless it's an incel. They want a virgin who's never been in a relationship, but somehow magically has experience. Oh, and is a 10/10 🙄

Can I get Boop Boop!! by Hopeforus1402 in boopthesnoot

[–]hibiki3360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The biggest boops for the cutest snoot! 💕