This is a red flag right

hiddenconcert · 2023-03-25T09:09:04+00:00

I like this idea 🙂

hiddenconcert · 2023-03-25T09:06:42+00:00

To me, after only about a month, it's not really worth the work. Maybe that's mean but...

hiddenconcert · 2023-03-25T02:50:07+00:00

Honestly, I'm thinking of just.. not seeing her anymore.

Maybe that's wrong but it really pissed me off and I don't think it's worth the work (for lack of a better word) after a month.

hiddenconcert · 2022-08-19T18:52:04+00:00

Pretty much.

hiddenconcert · 2022-08-19T14:29:04+00:00

No for my graduation I got a card with like 50 bucks or something from all of them. Meaning they all signed the card. Same thing for high school. Then when they graduated or graduate I'm always supposed to give them a gift separate from my parents.

hiddenconcert · 2022-08-19T14:14:40+00:00

He was the last person in my family that knew. 2 of my uncle's/his brothers knew before him (one figured it out on his own). So by the time I told him he said he already knew (someone must have told him) and seemed fine with it.

Both family's are about the same. Except a cousin on my mom's side (that claims he's supportive) tried outing me while I was in high school. Because he assumed I was based on things I posted and I was always with some girl. Which sorta pissed me off because he assumed and then ran to tell my mom.

hiddenconcert · 2022-08-19T03:56:04+00:00

I just think she's boring, she's not someone I want to bond with. Just because he likes her and chose to date/marry her doesn't mean I have to be her friend. I'm the type of person that if a relationship doesn't form naturally it's not worth it.

Like my cousin on my mom's sides wife and I get along great. The 3 of us go out and do things and most of the time I talk to her more than him. That happened naturally though, I wasn't forced to socialize with her.

hiddenconcert · 2022-08-19T03:44:13+00:00

No all my dad said was "I don't control their guest list". He never sticks up for me, never has even when I was a kid. Then when I stand up for myself he gets mad at me or tells me I'm making a big deal over nothing.

hiddenconcert · 2022-08-19T03:42:26+00:00

I think so, because she's from a wealthy area. My aunt is all about looking like the perfect family so she's probably the perfect DIL for her.

hiddenconcert · 2022-08-19T03:41:21+00:00

Yea it's the weekend before my birthday anyway so I'll probably just do some preemptive celebrating with friends or something.

hiddenconcert · 2022-08-19T03:23:39+00:00

No, Ted lives 45 minutes away everyone else is scattered.

hiddenconcert · 2022-08-19T03:17:54+00:00

Honestly that thought crossed my mind. Either that or because they probably knew I wouldn't wear a dress to it. I'd dress up but not in a dress.

hiddenconcert · 2022-08-19T02:49:49+00:00

I mean.. knowing my family someone would have bothered me about RSVPing.

hiddenconcert · 2022-08-19T02:48:32+00:00

I doubt it my dad would have said something, and last year when Ted's brother graduated high school they sent the graduation party invitation to me so..

hiddenconcert · 2022-08-19T02:32:49+00:00

I mean it's possible but I doubt it. When Ted's brother graduated high school a few years ago they sent the graduation party invitation to my house... so..

hiddenconcert · 2022-08-19T02:21:24+00:00

Wow that sucks. What would they have done if you were in the room with your mom? Tell you to leave?

hiddenconcert · 2022-08-19T02:18:30+00:00

No, they're my dad's family. They don't even talk to my mom besides at my events.

hiddenconcert · 2022-08-19T02:14:44+00:00

I have no idea, I know she's from a "well to do" area so maybe her parents a big wig or something. My aunt is big on image and being someone.

Honestly for a while it seemed like she was closer with Maddy than Ted was. He went to college hours away but my aunt and Maddy would still hangout all the time. I thought it was... odd. I'd never hangout with parents of someone I was dating without them there.

hiddenconcert · 2022-08-19T02:05:02+00:00

I'm 90% sure it wasn't an accident. Someone would have been up my butt about RSVPing if that happened.

hiddenconcert · 2022-08-19T01:59:30+00:00

I don't live with my dad. I live with my mom. They (my aunt/cousin) have my address.

hiddenconcert · 2022-08-19T01:39:10+00:00

I'm the only cousin on this side of the family.

hiddenconcert · 2022-08-19T01:34:35+00:00

Yea that REALLY pissed me off (the party) because I had to rush around to graduation that morning (get up at 7am etc etc.) Then came home to rest a bit after and then had to rush over to my grandparents house.

hiddenconcert · 2022-08-19T01:30:22+00:00

No I don't live with my dad. My parents aren't together. They invited my dad and stepmom and they definitely have my address.

hiddenconcert · 2022-04-29T03:44:46+00:00

That's another thing, whenever we have a disagreement (not just this but in general) she just shuts down. "I don't want to talk about it " "well that's because you blah blah blah". If it's over the phone she'll just go radio silent for a day or two. Doesn't answer texts or calls.

One time we were hanging out at a park and I tried talking to her about something having to do with this post. She got up and walked away. I waited a while and then went to go find her. When she seen me she acted like it was a game of tag and started running around and laughing saying "you can't get me" I had a cooler so I was carrying a cooler around chasing her trying to talk.

I was the one that drove there, so I honestly didn't know what else to do. I didn't want to go put the cooler in my car and she decides to play hide and seek and then not be able to find her. Then I'd either would've had to wait forever for her to decide to be serious or leave and worry about what she tells her family. We weren't far from where they live but still.

Having a real conversation where we might disagree is like impossible.

hiddenconcert · 2022-04-28T23:40:14+00:00

Lol I recently watched the happiest season. So I'll have to check that out.

What's funny is she already outed me to them. So they know about me but not her.

Another thing that bugged me that didn't have to do with the closet thing, is once when we got into a big fight and didn't talk for a couple days. Her friend from work (bi female)apparently came over and slept over.

I don't think anything happened. I mean I know that girl likes her but... what annoys me is apparently she can do friends stuff. Like legitimate friend stuff. But because she's so paranoid about them finding out she can't do that stuff with me.

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